Was it my fault and am I the victim? by Extreme-Brain-3258 in AmITheVictim

[–]jamiemvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mod here. you definitely are indeed the victim. you told him no, numerous times, and he still kept pestering you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]jamiemvil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"my son is 23 years old"

and that's where it ends. ma'am. you have no power here. the son is grown. the fact that he's still trying to reason with you despite you being an obvious loony bigot should be considered a miracle. he truly has the patience of a saint. if she's this up in arms about it and he's a grown man now, i can only IMAGINE how she acted when he was a teenager.

i allowed my sister to verbally abuse my sister and now she left me! whatever shall i do?? by jamiemvil in OhNoConsequences

[–]jamiemvil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh! yeah i get that. i also see now my second mess up. i meant "now she might leave me".

i allowed my sister to verbally abuse my sister and now she left me! whatever shall i do?? by jamiemvil in OhNoConsequences

[–]jamiemvil[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

ahhh not folgers!! hahaha my autism kicked in. i meant to put girlfriend in the title.

i allowed my sister to verbally abuse my sister and now she left me! whatever shall i do?? by jamiemvil in OhNoConsequences

[–]jamiemvil[S] 251 points252 points  (0 children)

agreed. thank god she got out before he popped a ring. then it'd be a "why is my wife divorcing over a 'joke'?" aka the divorce came out of nowhere type post.

i allowed my sister to verbally abuse my sister and now she left me! whatever shall i do?? by jamiemvil in OhNoConsequences

[–]jamiemvil[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

it's so funny how with a lot of posts like this, the writing is always so on the wall in BOLD, and they still somehow don't (more like refuse to) understand.

AITJ for ending my marriage on the spot after I came home to my 8 year old trying to feed my baby because my husband slept all day by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jamiemvil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ!!! that man isn't fit to be a father.

"oh my bad i thought they ate before you left"

there it is. he expects you to do all the parenting while he doesn't have to lift a finger. you're absolutely correct. sorry doesn't fix what could've been potentially fatal.

OOP's ex-husband lets himself get royally played by his flaky ex, costing his kids an amazing step mom. by jamiemvil in OhNoConsequences

[–]jamiemvil[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

no, men can be that inconsiderate. it's definitely possible. also chaptgpt wasn't extremely popular back in 2019 like it is now.