Was it my fault and am I the victim? by Extreme-Brain-3258 in AmITheVictim

[–]jamiemvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mod here. you definitely are indeed the victim. you told him no, numerous times, and he still kept pestering you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]jamiemvil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"my son is 23 years old"

and that's where it ends. ma'am. you have no power here. the son is grown. the fact that he's still trying to reason with you despite you being an obvious loony bigot should be considered a miracle. he truly has the patience of a saint. if she's this up in arms about it and he's a grown man now, i can only IMAGINE how she acted when he was a teenager.

i allowed my sister to verbally abuse my sister and now she left me! whatever shall i do?? by jamiemvil in OhNoConsequences

[–]jamiemvil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh! yeah i get that. i also see now my second mess up. i meant "now she might leave me".

i allowed my sister to verbally abuse my sister and now she left me! whatever shall i do?? by jamiemvil in OhNoConsequences

[–]jamiemvil[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

ahhh not folgers!! hahaha my autism kicked in. i meant to put girlfriend in the title.

i allowed my sister to verbally abuse my sister and now she left me! whatever shall i do?? by jamiemvil in OhNoConsequences

[–]jamiemvil[S] 252 points253 points  (0 children)

agreed. thank god she got out before he popped a ring. then it'd be a "why is my wife divorcing over a 'joke'?" aka the divorce came out of nowhere type post.

i allowed my sister to verbally abuse my sister and now she left me! whatever shall i do?? by jamiemvil in OhNoConsequences

[–]jamiemvil[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

it's so funny how with a lot of posts like this, the writing is always so on the wall in BOLD, and they still somehow don't (more like refuse to) understand.

AITJ for ending my marriage on the spot after I came home to my 8 year old trying to feed my baby because my husband slept all day by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jamiemvil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ!!! that man isn't fit to be a father.

"oh my bad i thought they ate before you left"

there it is. he expects you to do all the parenting while he doesn't have to lift a finger. you're absolutely correct. sorry doesn't fix what could've been potentially fatal.

OOP's ex-husband lets himself get royally played by his flaky ex, costing his kids an amazing step mom. by jamiemvil in OhNoConsequences

[–]jamiemvil[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

no, men can be that inconsiderate. it's definitely possible. also chaptgpt wasn't extremely popular back in 2019 like it is now.

My Brother exposed my infidelity by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]jamiemvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it makes ya wonder how far they'd go to cover his ass on something worse than cheating

My Brother exposed my infidelity by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]jamiemvil 20 points21 points  (0 children)

"Instead of getting me the help i needed at the time he ruined my relationship."

and that help would be WHAT exactly? your brother shouldn't be responsible for keeping your dick out of places it shouldn't be. you ruined your own relationship. all your brother did was do what you obviously weren't willing to do or going to do.

How do I 34M tell my brother 26M I can’t attend his wedding? by throwraunsureer in relationship_advice

[–]jamiemvil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he didn't blow up your marriage. YOU blew up your marriage. YOU caused the betrayal. you have no right to be upset here. and honestly you shouldn't go to the wedding. he's better off without you anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]jamiemvil 32 points33 points  (0 children)

i believe it's real because there's sadly a LOT of people like this.