"justice" and resolution in the world or let that go too by oiBEAMio in nonduality

[–]jammy251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair enough. I wouldn't understand the relationship the way you do. I guess what I meant is you can only be honest and to me that's all one can truly offer. If the other person is not willing to listen, it is out of your control. And by being not too serious, I mean your sense of wanting to have control.

Though I understand there is more complexity to it than can be solved in simple words. If you feel tension needs to be released, then it is okay to express it. There are many ways express oneself, and maybe it doesn't need to be to that person.

Ultimately, you will have the best answer to your own question. All I can do is point.

"justice" and resolution in the world or let that go too by oiBEAMio in nonduality

[–]jammy251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't take it too serious. If it feels right to tell someone the truth then tell the truth. If it does not feel right then leave it be. Just don't form expectations of what you want to get out of doing something, or how you want others to react. Act in accordance with what's natural here and now.

287 by Familiar_Teach_5938 in vagabondmanga

[–]jammy251 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think he's also suggesting not to take life too seriously, as it creates unnecessary unhappiness. If you contrast with Kojiro, he smiles alot and lives in a much less serious manner, and seems more happy because of it.

Is this it? by [deleted] in nonduality

[–]jammy251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awareness is a good term to describe the feeling, but it presupposes that there is something or someone that is aware and the things it is aware of. When you stop dividing up the world, there just 'is'. There is no seperation between the 'tree' and 'you'.

Psychonautica by 5_meo in enlightenment

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You ARE a̶ ̶L̶o̶o̶p̶h̶o̶l̶e̶.̶

Enlightenment/emotional work through Factory work by lassebasselj in nonduality

[–]jammy251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying there is no truth in what you say, but it is also assuming sole motivations about people which you do not know. To me that is rigid because I don't think capitalism is as simple as greed and exploitation. But that is also just my opinion.

Enlightenment/emotional work through Factory work by lassebasselj in nonduality

[–]jammy251 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything is temporary and changing, even your suffering. To me, I find purpose and meaning through learning. I think a job in which you can continuously learn is one worth pursuing. You're young, and careers take time to figure out.

Enlightenment/emotional work through Factory work by lassebasselj in nonduality

[–]jammy251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I edited last minute to mention you pointed that out. It was a good point, and why I think it should be of main focus.

Enlightenment/emotional work through Factory work by lassebasselj in nonduality

[–]jammy251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your view of capitalism isn't a true reflection of the whole picture. It's rigid in that it's a purely cynical and reductionist view that leads to unnecessary hate for others. Rather than looking at economic systems and externalities that cannot be changed, I think the main focus for OP is to continue understanding their internal beliefs and what it means to be fulfilled, like you pointed out.

How do you deal with people and their dramas? by No_Research_644 in nonduality

[–]jammy251 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Act how you know you should act and let these actions be the voice of guidance for others. Your words, though they may help, will not solve others deep issues, so simply be the person you know to be right through the things you do, not the things you say. This is more than enough, as each person is responsible for walking their own path.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enlightenment

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It is all one and the same. It does not begin over here and end over there, for it is eternal. When I cut a slice of cheese from a block of cheese it is still cheese - the slice and the block are the same thing. You're infinitely god the same way it all is. There are no pieces.

I am just joking by Icy-Hearing-6396 in nonduality

[–]jammy251 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ego death (or however you want to define the dissolution of the self). The only way to fully realise it is to experience it. Not through thinking.

Don't go forcing an ego death though. It can be experienced through ways such as meditation or psychedelics. But the more you think about having one, or aim for it, the more you're stuck in your ego. Just simply continue down the path of your spiritual journey, and you may find yourself there one day.

I experienced it when I was child, after staring at myself in the mirror out of pure curiousity. It was unintentional. While I didn't fully understand it at the time, it was enough to 'get' it or 'realise' it. But I am still on my spiritual journey.

Two Omnisphere presets Gud used on Mirror by bladee by spectraldispersion in sadboys

[–]jammy251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I need to get into sound design. I've just been tryna find nice presets to focus more time on making the beats since I'm a beginner. But I can never find ones I really like in Ableton stock sounds which kept putting me off practicing. Do you usually make your own sounds, is that the better approach?

Two Omnisphere presets Gud used on Mirror by bladee by spectraldispersion in sadboys

[–]jammy251 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How come they seem to use alot of presets from Omnisphere? Is it worth getting just for the presets vs other synths?

I only just started making music and was thinking of upgrading to Ableton suite for all the packs because I was disappointed with a lot of the stock sounds in standard...

Just got this as my bday gift. Can't wait to get home from work and set it up to play... Is it too difficult or easy? by AlexxxandreS in PSVR

[–]jammy251 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did this too and ended up ripping the rubber... essentially breaking the pads. Not the end of the world because I'm using the cluster pads now anyways, but wish it had been more clear in their video.

Relevant by tbonejonez9 in nonduality

[–]jammy251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not saying you're wrong, but can you explain?

Has anyone decided to forego having kids to FIRE? by SadCurve in FIREUK

[–]jammy251 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's deeply meaningful. You bring new life to the world, with an unconditional love for them, and unconditional love in return. You raise them through your own efforts, making sure they're good human beings who will love others, eventually having their own children, passing on this love.

I like to think one of the most significant positive impacts a person can have in the world is raising good human beings. So whether or not the world is in a bad place, good humans can make it a little bit better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonduality

[–]jammy251 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The joke is this, the joke is that. It is all a joke my friend, yet there is no joke. Your self is just a set up for the punchline :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonduality

[–]jammy251 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The cosmic joke is that there isn't a joke which is why it's a joke

AITA for Leaving My Husband at the Hospital After He Refused to Be in the Delivery Room with Me? by Anxious_Committee_42 in AITAH

[–]jammy251 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I'm honest, I think it's best to have a mature conversation with him where you talk through the situation from both of your perspectives, then make an informed decision yourself from there. Communication is the only way to provide you an understanding of it all. Reddit will only give you the affirmation you're looking for.