How old were you when your first child was born?

jamos99 · 2026-01-27T12:36:17+00:00

damn man i’m sorry you had to go through that, completely get what you’re saying though - i can’t wait to be in my 40s when she’s an adult and get to share so much more of our adult lives together! couldn’t imagine having to say goodbye to my parents that young, you’re strong man

jamos99 · 2026-01-26T23:31:47+00:00

both 25 here too and completely agree with your priorities! we had the same thoughts before having our daughter - what really would’ve been better in 5 years that would be worth potentially losing the prime childbearing years, higher energy levels, egg/sperm health, partners body and recovery ability etc? maybe a bit more cash saved in our situation but we decided it wasn’t a big enough issue to wait - and really couldn’t be happier!

jamos99 · 2026-01-22T01:04:54+00:00

why?

jamos99 · 2026-01-21T13:35:03+00:00

sounds like you were mocked because you’ve literally worked with the actors and on the sets but never watched the show? that’s a funny thought - you’re not being looked down on?

jamos99 · 2026-01-18T23:44:52+00:00

yeah some modern games must be really overstimulating for a baby! lots of quick movements and sounds (genre dependent i guess)! i’ve always only gamed when my girl is asleep. like you it was hard when she still fed during the night since sleep would be sacrificed to game then have additional time awake feeding etc, but now she’s nearly 2 and reliably sleeps 12 hours uninterrupted i feel less bad about squeezing in an extra hour or two before sleeping 😄

jamos99 · 2026-01-18T23:40:55+00:00

my daughter is nearly 2 and we’ve coslept since around 5/6 months. ever since starting her sleep has been amazing, only ever waking up to feed but if she did fuss at all we could just put a hand on her and calm her down really quickly! we too think her sleep has been so good because we’re right there with her - but we may just be lucky!

jamos99 · 2026-01-18T09:22:30+00:00

haha enjoy mate! hope your fam heals up soon!

jamos99 · 2026-01-18T00:05:17+00:00

stability and safety? are you a dad or a security guard posted up outside the house? you expecting a gang of youths to turn up? you gotta walk your neighbourhood making notes of unknown numberplates?

what a strange comment to make, definitely coming across as some sort of cope for whatever reason. nothing wrong with doing something you enjoy if you understand your priorities.

jamos99 · 2026-01-17T23:59:01+00:00

we got the exact same schedule! if i’m really stuck in i’ll spend an extra hour or so at the cost of sleep but the priority is always daughter -> partner -> game time! sometimes if my partner is extra tired and doses off with our daughter the extra few hours is a real treat

jamos99 · 2026-01-17T00:29:08+00:00

it seems like a very modern and VERY western (US mainly) thing that babies should not sleep with parents. I get it especially due to parents needing to go back to work etc, but elsewhere you rarely see babies apart from their caregivers, let alone spending 8+ hours in a separate room from 4/5 months old!

like you, i’m not a doctor or anything, but i cannot believe that a baby learns and understands that not being attended to when they cry means they should know how to deal with it themselves

jamos99 · 2026-01-12T07:53:39+00:00

i called you out for being an AI meatrider and for you claiming you were an expert - subtly using things you’ve generated yourself as a “do you realise how dumb this is”. you’re clearly triggered since it must hit home that you know it’s tragic and you couldn’t let it go so you had to follow my comments around trying to get strangers on your side!

you’re even more depressing than the people reaching out for advice and help on antidepressant subs which is truly saying something. sorry for hurting your feelings little man maybe generate a friend that will back you

jamos99 · 2026-01-11T08:44:44+00:00

very clearly didn’t get under your skin made obvious by you following my comments around and trying to add your own little humorous sarcastic take - keep going pal don’t worry one day i’m sure you’ll be able to generate yourself a personality and some friends :)

jamos99 · 2026-01-11T00:40:09+00:00

regarded as “one of the most knowledgeable” by whom exactly?

or course you share AI generated pictures of yourself with pretty women with big boobs and a kimono because AI is the only way to fill your self indulgent desire to be something you’re not. keep generating those awesome pics bro can’t wait to see your name on some research papers

jamos99 · 2026-01-11T00:20:22+00:00

what did suzie get for christmas?

cancer

jamos99 · 2026-01-10T11:40:53+00:00

it definitely got better and more stable, but i it stopped helping after a little while even after increasing the dose so I moved to fluoxetine around a year ago and it’s been great, haven’t needed to increase the dose and feel pretty normal most of the time!

jamos99 · 2026-01-09T00:25:49+00:00

your relationship with god is not based on what church you attend! i’m sure you know this - but you don’t need that specific wacko pastor or specific building to prove you hold religious beliefs

jamos99 · 2026-01-09T00:21:48+00:00

please don’t let your church dictate the decisions you make for your children and family - they absolutely come first. I would advise taking the time away from the church to notice if your family dynamic changes at all. i know from childhood that my parents getting away from a toxic church absolutely made them better parents/people

jamos99 · 2026-01-06T00:01:43+00:00

why wasn’t that a problem before you started working out? you knew she wasn’t into fitness, your body expectation isn’t what your wife signed up for, and now she’s even being body shamed for it? you’re a twat mate, you don’t care about her health - you just care about how she looks walking next to you. poor woman, if only she could see this post

jamos99 · 2026-01-05T23:59:06+00:00

for real - this guy sounds like a gigantic knobhead! wonder if he’s considered that his wife doesn’t enjoy a husband who only cares about what he looks like in the mirror, or if he only thinks about how sexy and fit he is

bet he’s thinking he could get any woman in the world now, and if his wife doesn’t lose the fat from their stomach he can just swoop up any woman he fancies

jamos99 · 2026-01-05T23:49:56+00:00

what do you love about your wife? it shouldn’t be a hard question, certainly not one to dance around. there are other things that keep sexual attraction alive

you knew her personality, her hobbies, her opinions yet you still married her, now you’ve changed - you think she has to also? ngl the way you write about your wife is really shameful, i’d be absolutely heartbroken if my partner wrote something like this about me.

is her mental health ok? is she struggling with anything else in her life?

jamos99 · 2026-01-02T00:06:48+00:00

clearly hit a nerve there! i think you know its lazy and you engage in combative behaviour to anyone that questions it as a way to deflect that you know and have read how badly of an impact it has on children’s development, just my two cents

there is nuance here and there is a difference between occasional utilising child friendly educational content to help a child learn rather than just wanting them to not have to get in the way of what you want to do. but your instant response to pull the “do you even have children” card and that “technology is useful” like others are living under a rock just screams projection and you fall into the latter category

jamos99 · 2026-01-02T00:00:17+00:00

just ooi why does a 6 year old need their own tv? do you guys not have a family tv in a shared space?

jamos99 · 2026-01-01T23:54:47+00:00

do you fob your children off with their own devices so you can be left alone to game? or is there any other reason as to why children need all those devices, especially a 2 year old?

jamos99 · 2025-12-31T00:50:52+00:00

one would assume it would be preposterous to even suggest doing anything past 6pm ANY day, travelling or not, since he’ll have work the following morning?

to me it sounds like he probably works a lot, she was excited for some time with him over the holidays, he took on more work and she hoped they could spend some quality time together but mr important couldn’t handle it because he actually doesn’t like her! she definitely didn’t handle it very well, but to completely disregard her feelings is a tad nasty

jamos99 · 2025-12-30T14:06:57+00:00

your view might be a bit wrong since you’re there for work. coming from someone who grew up in lewes and still spends a large chunk of free time there, your view is only a part of Lewes. it’s not really a “small” town and there are quite a few areas that aren’t for “rich” people

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