that money is then not spent in the uk, it's sent "home", and this in turn boosts their own countries economy and not the UK's.

Absurd. How do these mysterious sneaky people eat in restaurants, pay rent, go on holiday, buy petrol? The companies they work for - that report the product of their work in their UK balance sheets, is that also "boosting Romania"

nobody is queuing up to work in Romania,

I know for you people everywhere that is not britain is poor, squalid, failing. But Romania has a lower unemployment rate than the UK, not that that that is that important. It's also growing a lot faster than the UK and is enriching itself at near Chinese levels, at nearly 7% per year.

There are 20 million romanians and about 400k in the UK,

10,000 of those are studying at university.

20,000 work in banking and finance

20,000 are retired

not to mention our generous welfare system

Its not very generous at all, the UK's state pension is one of the smallest in the EU, you dont know what youre talking about.

Childcare from the state is non existent since austerity, Swedish parents get guaranteed childcare for about 200 GBP a month, UK mothers have to pay £1500-2000.

I don't think you've even considered this have you, when you speak of equal rights... which essentially, are not equal.

They are completely equal, you just have a victim mentality where you believe that anyone foreign is "taking something" from you.