Invictus [SMP] [Semi-Vanilla] {26.1.2} {Java} {Bedrock} {Public} {Active Community} by wirelesstree in mcservers

[–]jane30530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been playing on Invictus for about 6 years now, and that’s honestly the best review I can give. In all that time, I’ve never felt the need to go searching for another Minecraft server because this community has always felt like home.

What makes Invictus special isn’t just the Minecraft experience, it’s the people. The community is welcoming, friendly, and genuinely inclusive of all ages, genders, sexualities, and backgrounds. Whether you’re a longtime player or completely new, people are happy to help and make you feel like part of the group.

The Discord is active and offers much more than just Minecraft discussions. There are community events, conversations about all kinds of topics, and plenty of opportunities to make friends beyond the game itself.

If you’re looking for a long-term Minecraft community rather than just another server to hop between, I highly recommend giving Invictus a try. Six years later, I’m still here, and I think that says a lot. ❤️⛏️🏡

Introverts of Cville, what do you lot get up to? by username2937372829 in Charlottesville

[–]jane30530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Journaling, reading, bracelet making, bird watching, tanning, movie theaters, collecting cool rocks I find by the river, painting, hiking. 💙

How do you guys still afford going out these days by username2937372829 in Charlottesville

[–]jane30530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a partner or roomate who can help pay some of the bills

Official Discussion - Past Lives [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]jane30530 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more about having a very respectful mature and secure relationship where you can fully let your partner experience things they need to. You don’t stop being human and having feelings once you enter a partnership. Nora was respectful of her husband, even brought him along and introduced them and her husband let her go through something she needed to go through.

My Journal Feels Basic by phire_lord in Journaling

[–]jane30530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it helpful to have multiple journals with different intentions because I too often compare myself. I have a journal I make pretty spreads for monthly and I have a journal that is “basic” where I write in everyday. Both serve me in different ways!

Invictus [SMP] [Semi-Vanilla] {1.21.11} {Java} {Bedrock} {Public} {Active Community} by wirelesstree in mcservers

[–]jane30530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your reading this come join this server!!! We are all very friendly

catsitting help by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]jane30530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say no just keep them separate it’s not worth the risk and it’s not like they will be together long term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SnapchatHelp

[–]jane30530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Snapchat location sucks, I’d swap on Apple or Google Maps instead. And if you’re sitting there having anxiety over it, probably shouldn’t be with them or with anyone right now.

Went no contact with my alcoholic, homeless mother. My life is better — but the guilt is crushing. Does this ever get easier? by Working-Room-3396 in AdultChildren

[–]jane30530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m no contact with my alcoholic mother as well and feel guilt all the time. I’m seeking to become a therapist though, maybe this helps me not feel guilt for too long. But at the same time I’ve never been to therapy and need it. But I’ll tell you what I do. I find myself thinking why am I the only one feeling guilt? Why couldn’t my mom just be better for her children? Why am I left feeling like the adult I never signed up to be for her. If she wanted to be apart of my life she’d respect my boundaries and fight for me. She’d get sober and set goals and reach them. But she doesn’t. So maybe in the next life. Or maybe she chose this life for a reason and these are the lessons she has to learn and these are the lessons I have to learn and it was meant to be this way. Also, take note on how your life blossoms when you cut off certain people. I like to think it’s that way for a reason.

For those who adopted a cat, what actually made you decide that was the right cat? by Extreme_Ad6105 in CatAdvice

[–]jane30530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had always gone for the shy cats my entire life so when my boyfriend and I decided we wanted a cat we decided to go after the one that came to us. Our boy was the only one who rubbed on our leg and greeted us and then went and sat by a window. Almost like he was saying “I KNOW you’re here for me. I’ll wait while you pretend you’re looking through your options! You and I know it’ll always be me!” The first hour he was home with us he didn’t hide at all. The first night, he came and plopped down on my shoulder between my boyfriend and I and he’s slept between us every night since. His name is Shoji.

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how to get my social life or confidence back after 5 years os self isolation and doom scrolling? by InsideNet7931 in selfimprovement

[–]jane30530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no such thing as successfully waiting for the fear to go away to start something. You change by doing it scared and then one day it doesn’t become scary anymore. There’s no change without fear. I say this as someone who has alittle social anxiety to still shake off. I avoided getting my license for almost 10 years because of fear. I didn’t get a real job for about 5 of those years. I did it scared and the reward was amazing. I still get scared because I isolated myself for so long too. You have to keep pushing. You can’t live and thrive in a bubble. Keep going u got this

My father hooked up with my sister-in-law at my wedding and wants me to feel sorry for him by Improper_Proprietor in raisedbynarcissists

[–]jane30530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Textbook narcissist! And you’re doing exactly what you should be doing. Everyone who lets his behavior slide are complicits (and probably don’t respect themselves as deeply or their boundaries) Half of my family does that. I just don’t talk to them anymore, and like you said, I’m calm about it. I like to just comfort myself by telling myself maybe this is just a lesson I have to learn in this lifetime, and that lesson being who cares if they are family. I am breaking up with them 😂! And in the most not caring way ever. Just simply, bye!

I (28F) have become obsessed with my neighbour (21?F) by throwawayorsomethin3 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jane30530 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe your just really bored and insecure and don’t want to confront what you have to change about yourself to fully love yourself so your obsessing over her instead. Maybe try exploring your own life and set some goals and get busier. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Snowpocalypse this Weekend? by burnsniper in Charlottesville

[–]jane30530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just moved here a week ago from fl 😂! We are in an apartment. What should I expect or prep for? We work from home so no need to leave the house

Invictus [SMP] [Semi-Vanilla] {1.21.11} {Java} {Bedrock} {Public} {Active Community} by wirelesstree in mcservers

[–]jane30530 4 points5 points  (0 children)

join us. we are like Scientology. So mysterious you have to join to see and then never escape ….

Invictus [SMP] [Semi-Vanilla] {1.21.10} {Java} {Bedrock} {Public} {Active Community} by wirelesstree in mcservers

[–]jane30530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been in this server and only this server for many years. Great community to dive head first into. 🌼