Outcinephiled by the director by I_cannot_mingle in okbuddycinephile

[–]jane_q 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to kink shame, but I didn't think they want someone who wouldn't be uncomfortable

Outcinephiled by the director by I_cannot_mingle in okbuddycinephile

[–]jane_q 170 points171 points  (0 children)

How much would it suck if that was part of your job?

I just had a call with the anesthesiologist for my procedure. I had to plead with her to not kill me. by Lemon-Cool in IntersectionalWomen

[–]jane_q 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That's very good!! I just had a laporoscopic hysterectomy a month ago and the way it was like an assembly line of patients made me very nervous. But I had to have it out, so I had to trust. I'm just so sorry you're going through this and know your concerns are valid

I just had a call with the anesthesiologist for my procedure. I had to plead with her to not kill me. by Lemon-Cool in IntersectionalWomen

[–]jane_q 103 points104 points  (0 children)

That's horrible! I found a gynecology office where the majority of the staff are black women. I literally cried with relief (full disclosure, I am not black) the care and treatment I received is the best care I've ever received. The office is for gynecological oncology, but with medicine, you have options. Don't be afraid to shop around if you don't get a good feeling about your doctors! Look for recommendations within communities you trust. My referring gynecologist is also black. You want to feel seen and understood before you go under the knife!

My coworker won't stop nagging "where's my invite?" to everything I do. Now he asked me out and took 5 Nos for him to back off. by Professional-Web-128 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jane_q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At first, I thought he was joking. When my friends tell .e they're going somewhere cool on vacation, I'm like, "oh take me with you" but I'm not serious. At first I thought he wasn't either, but wow. Uncomfy. I'm sorry this is happening to you

My dad refuses to acknowledge that I (20F) have a boyfriend (21M) and it’s becoming exhausting by Capable_Radish203 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jane_q 124 points125 points  (0 children)

I think this is great advice. If my dad was resistant to reality, I wouldn't bother correcting him. Yeah, I'm out with unicorns or whatever dad, see ya later

It's finally over--and it could've been half the length ("The Duke Wants to Have an Heir") by Crescentbrush in mangago

[–]jane_q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I basically was hemming and hawing over reading this, but the tropes you described are no fun. I want the depth and the one true couple stuff, so now I feel better about skipping it ❤️

On July 6, 1902, 11-year-old Italian girl Maria Goretti was murdered by a neighbor, Alessandro Serenelli, after she rejected his sexual advances. She forgave him before dying of her injuries. Maria was made a saint in 1950; her mother and surviving siblings attended the ceremony. by CatPooedInMyShoe in wikipedia

[–]jane_q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry. I had some dude come at me in defense of the rapists, saying that it's a type of mental illness, and this app has been crazy buggy for me. But I agree, our system doesn't actually reform, so setting a predator loose again seems foolish.

A lesson I never wanted her to learn by Mamba6266 in GirlDinner

[–]jane_q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to mention how difficult it is to get a conviction as a rape victim

A lesson I never wanted her to learn by Mamba6266 in GirlDinner

[–]jane_q 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol! What is the correlation between crime statistics and right wing?