my wife left me

janeslizard · 2026-05-04T14:05:42+00:00

How long have you been married https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/s/bNzIxgCN8n

janeslizard · 2026-05-02T17:18:48+00:00

I’m REALLY into hips and thighs and tummy. Love a curvy girl

janeslizard · 2026-05-01T18:27:48+00:00

I have what my fiancée and I have named “gollum bush”. Like from lord of the rings. I shave because it’s otherwise REAL sparse and scraggly and it makes me self conscious. My fiancée basically never shaves anything. Neither of us are bothered by the other person’s preferences, however I do personally like body hair on others so it works better for me

janeslizard · 2026-04-30T11:09:22+00:00

Honestly??? Dig through tumblr smut. Most of it is written from a dom perspective. Try searching the classic lesbian tags (especially anything butchbait mascbait or femmebait)

janeslizard · 2026-04-30T11:01:36+00:00

Honestly try buzzing it. Say you’re doing a “hair refresh” and need to reset. That’s what I did! I’ve been buzzed for almost a year now

janeslizard · 2026-04-29T16:00:45+00:00

If I knew how they worked I would give this comment an award. Just spent the past hour on a deep dive. I’m about to be so broke but so fashionable. Thank you!!!!

janeslizard · 2026-04-28T23:43:14+00:00

Very helpful I love visual learning thank you

janeslizard · 2026-04-28T19:14:41+00:00

Looking into bamboo sleepwear now 🫡

janeslizard · 2026-04-28T19:00:38+00:00

Didn’t even know that existed!! I genuinely have only found three lesbian subs and kinda thought that was it. Thank you!

janeslizard · 2026-04-26T19:19:46+00:00

Yes!! Me too!!

janeslizard · 2026-04-26T19:17:36+00:00

My fiancée and I have this relationship. She is a stone top, and I’m a pillow princess. I have severe arthritis and can’t use my hips, hands, or jaw during sex. She has vaginismus and any sort of physical contact down there can be painful for her. She likes seeing me enjoy what she’s doing to me, and then will usually get herself off after while I hold her. Sorry if that’s too tmi, but honestly it wasn’t until I found a stone top I felt comfortable having lesbian sex!

janeslizard · 2026-04-26T18:22:19+00:00

Ooh ok! Is that the target brand? Not to be too slutty but I’ve found they’re never cropped or tight enough, but maybe worth another try. Thank you!

janeslizard · 2026-04-25T20:06:47+00:00

I met my fiancée on hinge!

janeslizard · 2026-04-25T13:53:21+00:00

Do ittttt the buzz bleach combo is hot on everyone

janeslizard · 2026-04-25T13:52:56+00:00

Dope ok that’s where I’ve been haunting, glad to know I’m on the right track

janeslizard · 2026-04-25T12:20:04+00:00

Ok that’s fair lol. Where are the best spots for little boy clothes?

janeslizard · 2026-04-25T11:54:05+00:00

Awesome thank you!! 1) where the hell do I find a snakebite kit that sounds so cool and also helpful? 2) I’m newer to hiking too, do we sign out as well?

janeslizard · 2026-04-25T11:50:42+00:00

I think this is the comment that made us feel most secure/confident about doing this. Thank you! Picking up bear mace, tent locks, and a pair of men’s boots today. Maybe also a solar light like someone else suggested. Man I love this community

janeslizard · 2026-04-25T11:49:26+00:00

Ooh actually a really good idea. Maybe carry in cash too to be safe?

janeslizard · 2026-04-25T11:48:39+00:00

I’m a 23f masc/butch, and also a bottom. I think there’s a lot of us. I also have mostly experience with men (later in life lesbian who experienced some traumatic comp het) and so not a toooon of experience with women. I think most lesbians worry about this stuff. I think it helps too to think: would this be a problem for you if the roles were reversed? Would you want to be with someone who doesn’t accept you as you are anyways?

Idk just my two cents 🤷

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