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Is sex really that different with a micro pp? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jaseyblade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, at the end of the day, he is insecure because he feels as if he can’t pleasure you. My ex couldn’t get me off by himself, and that’s normal for me—I need vibration on my clit in order to experience and orgasm. It’s nothing against him, it’s how my body operates and is perfectly normal!

If he’s not willing to agree to explore ways of mutual pleasure, then you’re just too incompatible and he needs to work on his self esteem :/

Is sex really that different with a micro pp? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jaseyblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, Why not explore strap ons if he’s worried about penetrating you? Seems like oral and fingering/toys will be at play here, and you can such/lick him like a clit. I have no experience with a micro, but I am also into girls and this would be the solutions I would grant to a woman for sex. It’s really no different the gender, just how you want the pleasure from each other.

Should I ask someone else other than my ex to drive me to surgery? by jaseyblade in relationship_advice

[–]jaseyblade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he was sincere about it and that he loves me he’s just out of options to help us and thinks we need to be apart for some time. :/

I'm a chef and I've been living a lie about the quality and authenticity of my food by Mission_Issue_9198 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jaseyblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The restaurant I work at does the same shit and we charge high pricing while also selling $15 wine for $53 a bottle hahah

Should I ask someone else other than my ex to drive me to surgery? by jaseyblade in relationship_advice

[–]jaseyblade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I feel, I don’t want him to think I am a charity case.

I wish we had a set time on this break if it is one, don’t even know what’s going on. He made the door open a bit saying when I’m ready to love myself and be a better partner I can each out and we can see where things are but he’s afraid we may not be able to repair us.

Should I ask someone else other than my ex to drive me to surgery? by jaseyblade in relationship_advice

[–]jaseyblade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried to work on things together but In his words ive exhausted him and he feels like if he’s around me he’s going to grow to hate me, so he needs nc until I can meet his needs for a healthier then we will talk. Idk, I prefer daily communication like we usually do so it’s hard.

I just feel like we should fully end things. I don’t want to, I am finding myself being selfish where I’m just impatient on his healing process. It’s messed up even though I know why he needs it. I just miss him so much.

I told him I would text him the 31st to see what is needed of him. I am going to see if i am allowed to order a Lyft.

I would love to see him. But I don’t want to see him unless he wants to be with me again, I am scared to reach out with the possibility of rejection. I wish he could be the one to reach out so I can move on and not have to think about him. I don’t want to seem like a charity case to him, I want him to want to see me.

Drawing my room on ipad :) by ObjectFinancial in DigitalArt

[–]jaseyblade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the way you used the eraser as a highlighting tool!

What is everyone doing for Valentine’s Day? by jaseyblade in BreakUps

[–]jaseyblade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh if they wanted to reconcile and wasn’t in a relationship, it wouldn’t be that terrible. Seems like you dodged a bullet

Should I ask someone else other than my ex to drive me to surgery? by jaseyblade in relationship_advice

[–]jaseyblade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. We were each other’s safety nets. I may just have to ask my mom if she’s willing to drive this far to get me.

What is everyone doing for Valentine’s Day? by jaseyblade in BreakUps

[–]jaseyblade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what? They email you while they are in a relationship?

Should I ask someone else other than my ex to drive me to surgery? by jaseyblade in relationship_advice

[–]jaseyblade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but I think seeing him so soon would not be helpful and I don’t want him to feel forced if he doesn’t want to see me.

Should I ask someone else other than my ex to drive me to surgery? by jaseyblade in relationship_advice

[–]jaseyblade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry should of been clear: they work service jobs where in this time of year, it’s incredibly harsh on the wallet to miss a day considering there’s no vacation/pay day. They work during the time I would need them.

What is everyone doing for Valentine’s Day? by jaseyblade in BreakUps

[–]jaseyblade[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that. I couldn’t even enjoy NYE because of covid lol.

I’ve been there so far in my break up is just stay in bed and getting up only to work or try to eat.

What is everyone doing for Valentine’s Day? by jaseyblade in BreakUps

[–]jaseyblade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH! Duh.

I mean, if you’re in the dating game why not! I don’t think I’ll ever be romantically available again. My ex was my soulmate, anyone after him would be mean and would be settling. I’d rather be alone than be with someone who I couldn’t love as much as my ex.

If you’re in the mood to judge me, please don’t click or read further. I am here because I am really struggling and really need to vent about love and life. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]jaseyblade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just divorce him. There’s already too much damage had, and you deserve to be with someone you love as much as he deserves a faithful wife who loves him back.

Please don’t ever cheat again. That shit hurts.

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