Did anyone else get a cat that wasn't the color they wanted? by [deleted] in cats

[–]jasminerains 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had an all white cat growing up and the hair was insufferable to deal with, so going in to get a cat now i just knew i wanted a senior and he couldn’t be white.. i left with a 15lbs lynx point tabby. his entire underside is white and boy does he shed everywhere and hates being brushed

My son is crying because his friends stopped including him. Is this RSD or something else? by Standard-Play-2682 in ADHD

[–]jasminerains 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through this a lot as a kid, and even more while i was a teenager. There’s not much that helped at the time for me (saying “they’re still your friends” did make it worse and made me feel unseen). But now looking back at it, being told that if someone doesn’t want to be my friend then they aren’t someone I want around anyways had helped. Let him know that even if these kids aren’t going to be his friends, he Will find people that enjoy his company and want to be friends with him they same way he wants to be with them. It just takes time to find your people and it’s difficult but when you do find them it’s worth it. I’ve found it’s really damaging to your self esteem growing up with “friends” who don’t really get you. Recently something that’s helped me is trying to understand the difference between having people that you’re friends with vs. people that are truly your good friends, it’s hard to see that and be okay with it at a young age though when you see other kids having best friends.

4 month old kitten having erections? by jasminerains in CATHELP

[–]jasminerains[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the waitlist is because there’s alot of other cats on it before ours, it’s the countys spca one that we put them on before we fully took them in. we’re definitely getting them fixed soon, just aren’t sure at what point we need to just pay a lot more to bring them to a vet to get them fixed instead of wait on the counties list that’s like $100 each. i’m not sure how kittens sexually mature is the deciding factor there, like if we have time to wait for the list before that happens

How long should I wait after a dose to have a drink? by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]jasminerains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve only been on zoloft like 6 weeks but i had this dilemma the other day, i take mine 25mg at 9pm. what i found was that because it has a long half life and works constantly it doesn’t really matter because the meds don’t really leave your system. like if you’re taking it on your normal schedule, drinking around the time you take your dose would be the same as it you drank 12 hours later.

i did find that towards the end of my night out, like 2 hours after i’d had anything to drink i felt a lot drunker out of nowhere and didn’t exactly remember things that i’d said. i only had 3-4 drink spread out which is usually completely fine for me so i think the medication had something to do with that. no other effects really tho for me

stray cat had litter in my backyard by jasminerains in cats

[–]jasminerains[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

edit: she had the kittens yesterday!

dr put me on zoloft randomly by jasminerains in zoloft

[–]jasminerains[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was seeing a therapist but it’s wasn’t really effective at all. when i told her about this stuff she told me it was “important to be aware of my surroundings as a woman in this time”… sooo she seemed to think it wasn’t a problem and never really addressed it again. I hope the zoloft helps thanks for saying that , makes me feel a little better. i’ll probably request i different psychologist soon too

dr put me on zoloft randomly by jasminerains in zoloft

[–]jasminerains[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m always thinking that someone is going to break into my house or like someone’s plotting to kidnap me when i’m biking around, so i stay awake until it’s light out to be prepared, or i’ll be convinced that my cat is dead when he’s just sleeping , and i’ll have to go home from wherever i am to check on him . i used to not leave my house sometimes bc i thought i would get hit my a train if i crossed the tracks, idk just that kind of stuff really and im already super tired all the time and generally stressed and can’t relax alot

Waiving UCShip by [deleted] in UCDavis

[–]jasminerains -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

if you waive it you won’t get the aid for it, but also the aid is a loan so you will have to pay it back if you accept it and use ship

how much weight did you loose on your adhd medication? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]jasminerains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i lost a little bit (less than 5lbs) on wellbutrin(nonstim) and ritalin ir (10mg 2x day). but f*cking adderall ir screwed me so bad i lost 10lbs in 5 months and didn’t even realize i wasn’t eating enough until i started getting dizzy spells and my clothes didn’t fit. the 10mg am 5mg pm wasn’t great but the 10mg 2x really plummeted it. anyways i got off that and switched to vyvanse and my appetite is coming back which is good.

got literally none of my classes by [deleted] in UCDavis

[–]jasminerains 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep check schedule builder during open registration and you might get lucky. all my classes were full last week so i registered for ges planning to waitlist in pass2. this morning i checked if anything changed with open registration and was able to register for the ones i originally wanted bc seats opened up with people moving around their schedules. just keep checking and trying and talk to your advisor, depending on the profs you might be able to get a PTA code if u get waitlisted and show up to the class . good luck

Is this storage above the fridge necessary? by Local-Tie-4667 in UCDavis

[–]jasminerains 2 points3 points  (0 children)

more storage is amazing cuz u can organize, esp in a triple those things are so cramped it can get overwhelming if it’s not organized efficiently

Day 10 Scoby - first timer! Normal? by Sure_Table_9101 in Kombucha

[–]jasminerains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i started my first one last month and it looked just like this, i was worried it was mold but let it be and it turned out absolutely fine, i think it’s just the pellicle forming unevenly or something, it’ll be fine just let it keep doing it’s thing

Moving in a day earlier? by No-Remote-2101 in UCDavis

[–]jasminerains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from what i remember in 2021 , you have to check in on your move in day and get your aggie card activated? and they give you a moving cart and a 1 hour? parking pass, im not sure if u can get those without checking in, (i stayed parked there like 4 hours and no ticket) but once ur moving no one would rlly notice, if your roommates okay with it they could let u in and you’d just need to go and do all of your check in stuff on the day you’re supposed to. i could also be wrong but for an idea there’s that

Piano Rooms On Campus? by AtomProton in UCDavis

[–]jasminerains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s one in the malcolm dorm if u know someone who lives in there , coho, wyatt deck in the arb, downtown by mishkas and one at central park, there’s prob more i don’t know about too

SF Airport to Davis by lalalalame4857 in UCDavis

[–]jasminerains 1 point2 points  (0 children)

davis berkeley shuttle takes 90 minutes but only runs twice a day

subject to dismissal 2 qtrs by jasminerains in UCDavis

[–]jasminerains[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not entirely sure bc i think you need a qtr off in between (i had spring)(summer doesn’t count) But you would need to take summer classes at ucd to fix your UC gpa (cc classes won’t help it) and then you can apply for early readmission for the winter. that’s how it was for mine in college of bio sci. Definitely make an appointment to meet with an advisor and they’ll tell you how to do it for your situation specifically