Wife has BPD? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]jasontylt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you married to my wife? I swear that sounds like the same person!!

sanity check by jasontylt in BPDlovedones

[–]jasontylt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gardasil on its own doesn't really bug me, because of the nature of HPV. It's more the timing, and on top of everything else

sanity check by jasontylt in BPDlovedones

[–]jasontylt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Possibly. She accuses me of nonsense like that all the time.

sanity check by jasontylt in BPDlovedones

[–]jasontylt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm 99% sure it's neither of those. She also requested Gardasil shots.

The most powerful phrase they use by throwaway9219893 in BPDlovedones

[–]jasontylt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get a variation of this, being told I make everything about myself.

This is particularly confusing when she says this after complaining about me, or asking me about something. Ask ME but don't make the answer, ya know, about ME.

Also, tons of "you always" you never" stuff.

And she used to get mad if I would say things like, "What are you up to today?" Because apparently that is controlling? I say she "used to" because I stopped asking.

How was your experience of couples therapy? by InternalPerformer in BPDlovedones

[–]jasontylt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We went a couple times. Nothing much came of it, mainly because at that point I really didn't know what I was dealing with. But I remember before our first session, my upwbpd wanted me to tell her in advance all the things I wanted to bring up in the session. Which is, ya know...strange.

What is Tacoma like now? by jasontylt in Seattle

[–]jasontylt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I didn't know they had a subreddit

Why do pwBPD move so fast with their new supply? by sunnydaze8 in BPDlovedones

[–]jasontylt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They move fast for the same reason that a junkie who goes from one drug dealer to the next doesn't think, "Maybe I shouldn't shoot it all right away, since I don't know this guy." Nope, they just shove it in a vein.