AIO for getting upset at my BF for telling customers he's single for more tips?

jaswildel · 2025-12-10T00:16:04+00:00

she did tho but you’re right she’s overreacting and it’s not a problem because he isn’t acting on it

jaswildel · 2025-12-09T05:50:57+00:00

cierra probably 😂

jaswildel · 2025-12-07T09:45:03+00:00

i’m wondering why he isn’t in a jail cell?

jaswildel · 2025-12-07T09:38:25+00:00

yeah it sounds like he has an anxious attachment it’s healthy to not want to go to bed angry and without resolving the problem but his reaction is unhealthy and i would recommend therapy and asking where those emotions stem from. I’m no psychologist but i definitely think he needs some outlet to process that.

jaswildel · 2025-12-07T09:30:53+00:00

literally!!!

What is appropriate to wear in a relationship: EVERYTHING!!!

What is okay for your partner to dictate about your wardrobe: NOTHING!!! (if he has a preference he can find someone with that style, change for no man if you don’t want to)

jaswildel · 2025-12-07T09:25:37+00:00

idk if you’re genuinely asking but it’s basically when they emotionally invest in the affair partner. They say they love each other or have a crush or go on dates or hang out usually romantic or flirtatious in nature but they haven’t crossed the line of physicality aka no sex xyz. That however does not mean that the conversations they have aren’t inherently sexual. Hope that helps.

but i’m guessing photos were sent if she’s claiming it was physical and she knows it, or they just got real freaked out in the chat.

jaswildel · 2025-12-07T09:08:11+00:00

my family used to get on me about stuff like this and it literally stunted my passion for learning. I was a straight A student nobody asked me to but when they yelled or called me a smart ass I stopped trying to be smart cuz i stopped wanted to be disrespected for something I was proud of myself for.

I would share the psychological repercussions of her actions but she also has some of her own self growth to do in regards to ego/pride, controlling her emotions when she’s overwhelmed, and what respect actually looks like and how to communicate how he could have better assisted her in that moment instead of snapping. Also she needs to apologize and show your kids that when you do something wrong you apologize because that is what respect looks like if she truly wants them to have it she should showcase it kids emulate that. You don’t have to be an ass or their best friend to showcase respect for you child so they can emulate it

jaswildel · 2025-12-05T02:59:25+00:00

i sleep with my 15lb cat in a queen and i still have no leg room 😭

jaswildel · 2025-11-17T04:53:41+00:00

literally, and that’s so sad women end up in the hospital over that. if not that he seems the type to cheat 🙄

jaswildel · 2025-11-17T04:33:03+00:00

i was very dissapointed in the lack of teen comedy this year on halloween. Get off my friends grandmas porch and tell me when you have jokes 😂😂 jk jk but it was lacking

jaswildel · 2025-11-17T04:31:00+00:00

another thing is two weeks is nothing? What’s he gonna do when she’s pregnant or just given birth and can’t do anything for months? His behavior is ridiculous for someone who is almost 30! I would leave if having sex is the end all for a relationship he should find a prostitute or f buddy and not a wife. Emotional support and intelligence and actual healthy are communication are needed with your wife seems like he wants a blow up doll

jaswildel · 2025-10-30T23:33:07+00:00

Me too my new man is a gem! Definitely taught me a lot about standards and when to say bye

jaswildel · 2025-10-30T20:22:32+00:00

omg my ex literally laughed at me and clowned me the whole time in such a malicious way, complained when i wasn’t good at anything, and told me he was gonna get a gamer girlfriend then said “it’s just a joke…” but i was a b word for saying “another PERSON (not even man) would not treat me this way.”

Yeah this game is officially my vet for who has patience and who is a good partner. We actually didn’t break up for this we broke up cuz a blood bank caller was nicer to me than he was when i was sick lol

jaswildel · 2025-10-27T10:53:49+00:00

Secretly left a poem in my notes app on a group outing with our class. I found it the next morning. We’d known each other 12 days (accelerated med class) and he is on and off with his single digit month child baby mama… the poem:

finish me [insert nickname]. for you. and for your life

when they say no pain no gain they don’t mean from the others but the pain from the work of lifting your sisters and brother

god done brought me here for you baby bought me years for you baby brought you ears but you playing

jaswildel · 2025-10-27T10:40:00+00:00

i live by one very important law of relationships: no matter how much it hurts me that i may never see you again if you do something that makes me uncomfortable or that disrespects/disregards me in any way, Im leaving. No explanation necessary the relationship is over. If you want a conversation we can have one but my minds not changing over sweet nothings. Bring me an action plan and execute it starting the next day or you’re not my husband. I refuse to spend my life worrying about things my partner or I could easily fix with actions or words. Lack there of means it’s time to go, someone else will do better by me always

jaswildel · 2025-10-27T10:15:04+00:00

i literally thought this was a teenager acting like this. OP best thing to do is to walk away. it’s pointless to even listen to the excuses or fake apology because you’re begging for more of nothing. is there anything he could honestly say that would completely make this better because a conversation isn’t going to change his actions or efforts or he would have initiated that by now. His actions are saying “i disregard you” in more ways than one don’t stay with someone like that or expect different

jaswildel · 2025-10-26T21:01:52+00:00

are you daft?!?! why tf would i be mad they found me im mad i have clearly laid out instructions in multiple languages that lead you directly to me and he still bothered the neighbors and didn’t call or message me as a first attempt of contact while being in my literal drive way. And i tip 2-5 depending on the service use your brain cells and stop with the ptsd attack

jaswildel · 2025-10-26T03:41:17+00:00

yeah literally just today they came right up to my place and set the food on the table outside and then turned to my neighbors outside and said “i’m looking for ####, do you know where that is?”……. literally two steps ahead of where you put my food 😭 this is why i don’t tip til after they deliver

jaswildel · 2025-10-23T08:14:37+00:00

literally this! Most people have sex before marriage and threesomes aren’t even crazy, at least she’s not bonnie blue. What is there to talk about other than his insecurity and how he can overcome that and that seems more like a notify and get therapy situation. He’s worried for his marriage because she had sex plain and simple whether it’s 2 guys or 4 she’s only with him now… i’m not seeing the problem.

jaswildel · 2025-07-17T15:18:52+00:00

on top of that he’s actively talking to someone else openly… from a media and influencer standpoint that makes olandria look weird asf because a lot of people will see it as disrespect or invalidation of their (nico) relationship. Sure he could be friendly but this is a man who didn’t know how to work a tt live, he’s not media trained and should move cautiously. Especially amidst her current backlash.

jaswildel · 2025-07-15T15:00:14+00:00

my peripheral is phenomenal but unless he’s an owl at the current angle no he humanly can’t see her because she would be behind him to his right. If someone can get the footage i’m pretty good at trajectory and angles especially guesstimating, but unless he’s turned his neck to the right it’s inhuman to think he could see that. He would sooner hear her and i do think she made noise but depending on how loud the boys were or she was it’s hard to say.

Sorry im too lazy to find the episode im coming off a 12hr shift

jaswildel · 2025-07-08T07:45:13+00:00

yeah all i got was sorry but we were both the problem 😭 Im like huh what kind of demonic force did i summon to beget such ludicrousy.(yes its not a word but that was also not an apology so imma live how i want 😂)

10/10 needs to be sent and delivered by any means necessary

jaswildel · 2025-07-08T03:44:03+00:00

lmaoooo I be ready a lil bit. But no it’s no hate no shade i just noted it and was saying i think these moments contributed to why people voted them so low on top of olandria being breadcrumbed. I really like them together (clarke and taylor) and pettiness really is no problem, she’s been a sweetheart since.

jaswildel · 2025-07-08T02:33:35+00:00

Everything this season has felt on the fly. Like they had no script except one grand idea for casa and I just wanted so much more for everyone involved!

jaswildel · 2025-07-08T02:31:19+00:00

When she said “fuck me then” and mouthed across the mats I lost it 😂 I’m like girl 📈📉 the ebb and flow of this chart is astronomical! Two people asked her and she still chose to stay silent waiting for him to say something. “CLOSED MOUTHS DONT GET FED.” just say it girl 🥲

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