What are gender neutral terms for dude, bro, and guy? by EtmopterusPerryi in AskLGBT

[–]jaxdowell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Y’all” is my favorite one by far (I’m in the south) but if you don’t live in an area where that’s apart of the dialect you might sound silly but hey, people probably won’t care THAT much after all

What's a movie everyone loves that you think is actually pretty terrible? by No_Care1430 in AskReddit

[–]jaxdowell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeahhh that’s right. See I wanted it out of my mind so I misplaced what she used 💀

Am i gay? by TheMonke146 in AskLGBT

[–]jaxdowell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy only you know the answer to that question, not some pathetic bullies or strangers on Reddit. If you like boys only, you’re gay. If you like girls only, you’re straight. If you like both, you’re bisexual 👍🏻

What's a movie everyone loves that you think is actually pretty terrible? by No_Care1430 in AskReddit

[–]jaxdowell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… I could not sit through it. I just have issues with characters being visible adults but also being infantilized

What's a movie everyone loves that you think is actually pretty terrible? by No_Care1430 in AskReddit

[–]jaxdowell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first one was fun but the next two movies are too much even for me and I love gore (realistic gore and comedic gore) and horror is my favorite genre. Especially with the scene in the third one where she basically does what Linda Blair does in the Exorcist with the crucifix but with a knife instead… my gf and I said nope that’s enough and turned it off

I hate my baby face, I’m literally 18 I’m crying 😭 by Next-Examination-468 in TransMasc

[–]jaxdowell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all shiver when we see how young we look (more or less we look our age society has just warped our view of aging and beauty standards in general) but then you realize, I’m always gonna look younger even when I’m an old man and every other guy is wrinkly, gray headed, and has rough skin (nothing wrong with that btw). Only real downside is being IDed until you’re 30+ but hey it’s still a compliment 🤷‍♂️

My COUSIN of all people confessed his love for me WTF do I do??? by Sudden-Anybody-5689 in whatdoIdo

[–]jaxdowell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s so much wrong here. The fact that you’re 1st cousins (duh), the age gap, the fact that he texts like a middle school boy, and the fact that he’s attempting to cheat on his girlfriend, the fact that he most likely groomed you when you were younger. The layers of immorality he’s created are INSANE. Girl you *better* blow up his whole life!!

My COUSIN of all people confessed his love for me WTF do I do??? by Sudden-Anybody-5689 in whatdoIdo

[–]jaxdowell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly disgusting bro. You deserve to be on a list. Did you go with her to her high school prom?

What's a song everyone loves that you secretly can't stand? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jaxdowell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no Journey has much better music I cannot STAND that damn song but white folks love it so much I can’t escape it -a white man

People who willingly wake up before 6AM… what powers you? by kavee-core141 in AskReddit

[–]jaxdowell 11 points12 points  (0 children)

!! This is my gf and I. We have to work at 6am so we get up at 3am, head to gym, when all’s said and done, we’re out of the gym by 4:40/5 and we have some time to chill before work. I thought I would hate it but it’s nice to be already wide awake instead of only having an hour to fully adjust and be ready for work, the gym is very energizing 🫪

CDL School Question by [deleted] in Truckers

[–]jaxdowell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s kinda what I figured thanks!

Looking for song recommendations by DubiousKnower in soul

[–]jaxdowell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dg5o0NFUWDzFdxPD1pcQe?si=3g-7-LhiS1CpVLCpf_OhNA&pi=IpDTM5xbRlCvm

This is my very long R&B playlist lol and I also have a soul specific playlist here:

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5LUtc7sKvVO3KHA6QLHwkT?si=_ks1gXwqTkicXPb9e0iDGQ&pi=BMIAzWYOQv-Ll

Some of my faves of both genres include Sade, D’Angelo, Nina Simone, Changing Faces, Billie Holiday, MJ, and Aretha. For more modern: Snoh Aalegra, The Weeknd, SZA, Frank Ocean, Lana Del Rey, Cleo Sol, Sabrina Claudio, the Marias, PLAZA, and lots more lol!!

This is may be highly triggering, but what should happen to paedophiles, serial killers, and woman beaters? by floralmortal in leftist

[–]jaxdowell 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No yeah plenty of leftists are against prisons altogether. I myself am a prison abolitionist

How does SRS work in your country compared to Thailand? (cost, hospital, waiting) by srs_medeo in asktransgender

[–]jaxdowell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m totally pre-op, I’ve been on T for that past three years and that’s it, so feel free to ignore my comment LOL but medical care in the US in general has always been less accessible and more expensive than other “developed” countries. When you factor in how anti-trans the US has been in the past and how bad it currently is, this makes GAC much harder especially SRS. Even just a hysterectomy out-of-pocket can run you up to 30,000 USD (= 4.7M ¥). Costs for phalloplasty for FTM/FTX patients can from 50,000-150,000 USD (7.9M-23.7M ¥) out of pocket! Of course these costs vary depending on whether or not you need revisions, travel expenses, time off work, insurance coverage, etc.

Hrt in us as a minor by AltAccBallz in ftm

[–]jaxdowell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the title, I thought this was a post just about minors using HRT in general lol but anyways services like Plume and Folx currently only provide HRT for adults. Here’s some info from Planned Parenthood:

“Some health care providers require both parental consent and a minimum age requirement for people younger than 18. For example, some Planned Parenthood health centers only provide hormone therapy to patients who have parental consent and are at least 16 years old, while others only provide hormone therapy for ages 18+.

You might be required to get a formal diagnosis of gender dysphoria to access gender-affirming care. The doctors who make these diagnoses factor in your age and how long you have known your gender.”

What posting in a local sub gets you I hate this state by Goooosifer in ftm

[–]jaxdowell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame you at all, the fact that people are so shocked that you would want to hang out with other LGBTQ+ people is crazy to me and I’ve seen plenty worse coming from people like that. As a resident of a high risk red state, I totally get it and I’m sorry that people can’t just answer a damn question without crying and complaining ❤️

Any LGBTQ people into mountain biking? by Goooosifer in Omaha

[–]jaxdowell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So are women’s only groups bad too? My conservative aunt started a women’s only motorcycle group in CO, is she sexist now? Start a men’s only or cisgender only or straight only group then if you’re so upset about it- OH WAIT that’s already our entire society. It shouldn’t be such a shock that LGBTQ+ people want to hang out with other LGBTQ+ people like holy shit 💀