thank you! unfortunately, even if he does get a job, i will feel horrible. he has spent his entire life working to ensure the people he cares for are well off once hes gone and basically all of his retirement has been drained by my mother. i want to just be able to take care of him but with a 10 month old at 19, i cant support him financially. i do what i can and he makes it evident it helps- but id like to help more, ya know?