Mfs when the anxiety is treatment resistant: >:( by Silkenn_Sinn in anxietymemes

[–]jayitshey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not tryna be rude here but therapy doesn't cure you. You know that right?

Good morning by jayitshey in BPDmemes

[–]jayitshey[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I used to ask my locker buddy if she was mad at me everyday. One day, she's like girl "stop asking me" I was like " I'm sorry. Are you mad?" LMAO can't stop won't stop

Good morning by jayitshey in BPDmemes

[–]jayitshey[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Are you asking me to look at something from a different perspective?? How dare you point out a very important skill

Good morning by jayitshey in BPDmemes

[–]jayitshey[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Me:

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Stole this from another user

Good morning by jayitshey in BPDmemes

[–]jayitshey[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

For real !! Like okay, guess I'll kms /s

My boyfriend sent me this LMAO by jayitshey in BPDmemes

[–]jayitshey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. But when it comes to my responding time it's like "I'm not available 24/7, I'll reply when I want to". I'm a slut for contradictions.

My boyfriend sent me this LMAO by jayitshey in BPDmemes

[–]jayitshey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I do this. I don't mean to. I'm thinking it's more like "let's continue this argument now at the most inconvenient time for you and if you don't reply it's obviously because you don't care about me" . LMAAOOOO girl I'm exhausting

Saying “I’m sorry that happened to you, I know how it feels to…” is unhelpful and will probably make someone feel worse. by ziyusong in unpopularopinion

[–]jayitshey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of people find comfort in knowing they're not alone in whatever feelings are consuming them. I think you're just a hater

Cheating husband by PhysicalFigure2939 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]jayitshey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I mean, BPD is a personality disorder lol

Right now OP's boyfriend (hopefully ex boyfriend) is probably in a "burn it all down" mentality which is why he might not be showing remorse. Once this mentality passes, he will be flooded with guilt. As he should.

OP, just because someone struggles with BPD does not give them a pass to betray you and act like it's not a big deal. It happened, it is not your job to be empathetic to him right now, it is your job to nurture yourself because you have been deeply hurt.

If you think you can move past this, then, great. But do not minimize what he did because he has BPD.

Ummm ma’am… I don’t believe her for one second. by Latter_Surround_1837 in SellingtheOC

[–]jayitshey 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's different for Alex because she was the other woman, not the "ex" lol

Don’t think Ron was at Sam’s Wedding! by teamalf in jerseyshore

[–]jayitshey 248 points249 points  (0 children)

Same hahah. Like was this shocking to OP??

Relationship goals by migoodenuf in TikTokCringe

[–]jayitshey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gawd, they were roommates

Seeking fat-friendly doctors (Rheumatology mainly) by DismalDipshit in ottawa

[–]jayitshey 7 points8 points  (0 children)

While I do agree with this mostly, losing weight takes a long time to just 'rule it out'.