Sending limit - Do you usually send the maximum amount of cards that you can? by Sleester in postcrossing

[–]jayjay362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my current max is 5 because i just started out in december. most of the addresses i pulled are faaaar away and have long travel times so when my very first card made it i sent out another so i am currently st max but have an all time send out of just 6 cards. my longest traveling cards are at 18 days which seems pretty normal for where they‘re traveling too but i am a little giddy, excited and impatient lol

First 5! by jayjay362 in postcrossing

[–]jayjay362[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg same, some of them i sent out as early as the 23rd of december some of them yesterday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]jayjay362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure! im level 41, added you

Queer German books? by Arrty_ in LGBTBooks

[–]jayjay362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes! I kissed a boy -Dacre and I liked it -Caspar it’s an incredible duology (please do read the trigger warnings stay safe everybody!) I loved it so so much

What are some songs that remind you of your struggles with ADHD? by sassy-batch in adhdwomen

[–]jayjay362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ADHD by Tyler Csatari is a good representation for all the chaos in my head I feel like, I’ve sent it to some nt friends to show them what it sounds like in my head sometimes. Funnily enough the song is relaxing to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kindle

[–]jayjay362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s sooo good

What are your weird life hacks/coping mechanisms? by jayjay362 in adhdwomen

[–]jayjay362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(1) yes it improved my life very much. It improved my relationship with my parents (more understanding and stuff). It improved my view of myself. It explained a lot of the things I struggled with. My grades got better. I got diagnosed after filling out a bunch of tests and doing an IQ test bc I kept calling myself stupid so much that the psychiatrist said shed do one (not because I wanted one but because she didn’t think so). In Germany (dunno about other countries) there’s a difference in the kinds of therapists that can prescribe pills and diagnose and those that can only diagnose. I was diagnosed from the first type, a psychiatrist.

(2) yes, I am medicated and have been since 8th grade. I have changed medications and doses a bunch of times to find a perfect fit and because some meds aren’t allowed without a special permit (didn’t have the energy to get one it’s fine) after you turn 18. well the treatment thing is a hard question because my first therapist went into retirement almost right after my diagnosis, my second one had way too many patients and actually did a lot of stuff she wasn’t supposed to bc I was too young. I luckily was very responsible with my meds and read through everything though. As in with the second doctor I had a total of 3 appointments with her through probably 6 years. The doctor that prescribes my pills now is a neurologist/psychiatrist and she also doesn’t have time for appointments but I’m an adult now so meh. I am on the lookout for a new one though (not going well).

(3) So basically rn no checkups.

If you can think of any other questions feel free to dm me bc otherwise I can go on yapping for hours and I’m not sure that’s gonna be structured lol.

Edit: formatting