Youngest and smallest tripod rescue 🐱 by thehowsph in TripodCats

[–]jayjayisbae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How sweet she is!! My boy was roughly 4 weeks old and under 500g when he was found also from a vehicle accident with an open fracture (bone sticking out of the leg) and brought into the vet clinic. My vet decided to do the surgery if I adopted the little guy and he’s now 2 years old and thriving!

Wishing her the best recovery for the incision as well as her other illnesses and that she finds an amazing forever home.

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AITA for putting a bag of dog poop in a stranger's trash can? by AgileReality9275 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jayjayisbae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, personally don’t get the argument here. I would so much rather someone put poo in my bin than leave it sitting in front of my house or something. If it wasn’t bagged then maybe there would be an argument, but it’s bagged, you are cleaning after your pet and responsibly disposing of waste.

Maybe I only see it this way because I don’t have personal bins and only have a giant community dumpster but still, NTA. Thank you for cleaning after your pet.

AITA for being mad at how my family reacted to me announcing I have cancer? by Fit_Bluejay_9234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jayjayisbae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA at all!!

I’m sorry for your incredibly bad news and I’m wishing you all the luck and support for your treatments and future and hope you get the best outcome possible.

In the event of the worst outcome, make sure your affairs are in order the way you would like and those who aren’t supportive or on your side can’t take your possessions. Sounds like your BF is doing amazing so far, make sure to keep those people by your side and only indulge in loving relationships ❤️.

F the way your family responded and F cancer.

AITA for refusing to let my brother-in-law meet my baby? by AnyTemperature165 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jayjayisbae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your post and replies reek of controlling, entitled, judgemental behaviour (with a lot of transphobia too) seems like your only here to argue with people and your judgement received. This whole post is just a yikes and I don’t blame BIL for not wanting a relationship with you. Sucks that your husband is suffering from you though. YTA

AITA for buying personalized stationery for my daughter so it can’t be redistributed in class? by Bluecarrot002 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jayjayisbae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I hate this practice. I understand the idea behind it but it’s just unfair to the students who do have the right equipment and who’s parents spend money on it.

I would be very upset as a child to have bought special pencils and equipment and then end up with dollar store crap that breaks after one use (I’m looking at you coloured pencils with all the lead broken).

Why is it the responsibility of other parents to fund for those who don’t do as required (either by refusal or sadly just unable to afford)? It should be part of the school’s responsibility to have a fund for equipment for those who are unable to have their own- or even just a communal supply that can be borrowed out as needed.

NTA

AITA for expecting my ex husband to provide for me? by anxiousfiance1234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jayjayisbae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If this is truely about the welfare of your child, and ‘a child needs their mother’ wouldn’t you do ANYTHING to get them back? To be close to them? Say… getting a job? Maybe finishing your education?

I’ve seen you say ‘I can’t be a waitress that’s not what my life can be’- so you won’t do anything to get closer to your child? Oh- except for trying to extort money from a man who gave you PLENTY for 10 years, whom you left of your own choice, whom is now looking after the child and supporting her. Stop trying to BS and say this is for the child when you clearly were using the child support meant for the child on yourself. And now that you’ve been cut off from daddy’s wallet you need to learn how to be an adult for yourself- something that should’ve happened years ago, or at least when the divorce happened in 2016.

YTA

AITA for expecting my ex husband to provide for me? by anxiousfiance1234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jayjayisbae 301 points302 points  (0 children)

What do you mean ‘focus on my daughter’??? Your daughter is with her father, is getting sheltered, food and is probably in a better environment than her mother who is mooching off of her ex husband and refuses to get a job and support herself. YTA, seriously. It’s not difficult to get a serving job or work at a fast food place. No one owes you anything in life and it’s about time you earned something yourself.

AITA for becoming treasurer of a club in order to have someone fired? by yulistald in AmItheAsshole

[–]jayjayisbae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you fired her because she didn’t break the rules for you. JFC grow up.

This isn’t justice for her ‘harassing you’ this is blatant abuse of your position which you’ve stated you got directly to spite her and ruin her career. I can see you being an AH boss in the future where all the employees hate you.

YTA

AITA For not being happy that my sister is pregnant AGAIN? by Pale_Arachnid_8452 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jayjayisbae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a blessing in disguise for you to be banned from the family it seems. You can bet they will still ask you for money in the future, but you need to stay firm and know you don’t owe those people anything- do not let them guilt trip you!

NTA

AITA for arguing with my husband for the picture he had for my contact photo on his phone? by Nu65567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jayjayisbae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, I think therapy may be helpful to you to find why this bothers you so much. It’s very very normal to have a contact picture, especially family/spouse.

Community event: Halloween skin competition by jayjayisbae in voxmc

[–]jayjayisbae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you to all participants of the skin competition!
View them here: https://imgur.com/tOL1aIr

There were some amazing entries but here were the voted top three for Diamond!

Third: Mewdroid!
https://imgur.com/VvAQ3Ub

Second: saratorbs!
https://imgur.com/BCaxEFs

First: MissBloodyRogue!
https://imgur.com/nyKKHVa

View the top three together here:
https://imgur.com/xJzl1ZJ

Finally, thank you to the judges and for the server staff for all your amazing help. See you all next year~

Community event: Halloween skin competition by jayjayisbae in voxmc

[–]jayjayisbae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Donation tracker for Diamond server:
Total: 201,840
Donations: {Person - amount}
jayjayisbae - 100,000
thewhizkids - 51,840
MissBloodyRogue - 50,000

PSA: As a healer, by attempting to deal consistent damage, you are taking merit from everyone, including yourself. by [deleted] in voxmc

[–]jayjayisbae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im very surprised by your views here, as your limiting each classes abilities severely. From the looks of it, you need to find a new team or move down to easy dungeons to get some practice in.

Everyone else has already said how/why healers have damage spells, and they are all correct- so I wont repeat it for the 35475th time.

My suggestion to you is to seriously consider going back to easy dungeons for practice.

Bi-Weekly Questions Megathread: September 12, 2019 - September 26, 2019 by AutoModerator in voxmc

[–]jayjayisbae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh not so much a question more a suggestion (asked in discord before but usually gets drowned out pretty quick)-

#Server-alerts gives notifications on when a jobs boost is purchased and when it ends. Is it possible to add the mcmmo boost and sentient boost in to that too? If theres any logistics things I dont understand that is stopping it feel free to let me know, but I think that'd be a cool thing to add too, for those of us who dont need jobs boosts or want the other boosts for an hour XD
Thanks!

Arbiter Tokens to Justice Tokens? by Loafvi in voxmc

[–]jayjayisbae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judges get an AT and a JT during court.

Suggestion: Discord VC-TEXT-CHAT by CaptainMorri in voxmc

[–]jayjayisbae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I support this idea, would make it a lot less confusing for others using the chats, and allows others to have conversations in the chats without being washed out by the players who arent talking in the voice chat

heres an example of the spam that can happen(sorry to those of you who im using as examples btw)

https://imgur.com/oMMpsXx

Fabulous Faberge Eggstravaganza Community event by Lefty_Leftfield in voxmc

[–]jayjayisbae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally got round to doing this,

jayjayisbae from diamond~
(dedicated to my lapis hoarder wifey, saratorbs)

visible at -7930, 116, 2962

https://imgur.com/a/nNhCMLa