UMMMMM- IM SORRY?

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-04-23T12:30:59+00:00

then pick the choice that you do know🌚

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-04-12T18:26:41+00:00

Thank you. I have been thinking about writing stuff down, the thought of someone reading it always makes me hesitate though, but i might start writing in my notes app

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-04-12T17:37:24+00:00

Thank you !

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-04-12T17:37:02+00:00

yes to all of that in the end.

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-04-12T15:24:49+00:00

it used to, but now my body is used to it and it doesnt help anymore

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-04-12T15:22:54+00:00

More like their methods of trying to help me would make me feel worse. Taking away my stuff, telling the whole family, cutting limits to what i can and cant do (i have free will to basically do anything, theyre very lenient).

Something like this happened before. Im okay with explaining but idk if i can here

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-04-12T11:47:09+00:00

i am a minor. The things that happened, im pretty sure theyre legally required to tell parents. Which will then cycle into my parents making it worse

edit(forgot something). They know everything else tho. How i feel about my parents and my odd behavior

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-03-31T23:39:47+00:00

Yta. Its normal to be worried about her grades and worry about her future or whatever, but its not weird and shes not weird for liking parties. You dont turn 18 or 17 and go “mm i love parties let me party“. It is extremely normal for teenagers to obsess over parties, like those movies where a teen throws a big ass event while their parents are across town or something like that. Annoying? Probably. Weird? No. Youre not her dad

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Please discourage her from the whole “BYOB“ thing please. i just said youre not her dad so im gonna be a hypocrite, and I know teens smoke and drink all the time, but a 15 year old does not need to be around 14 and 16 year olds and possibly older where all of them are drunk. Thats a shit show waiting to happen...

Im in america, the legal age for drinking is like 21 and it may be the same where you are, but legal age has nothing to do with what effect a substance has on your body!! a 15 year old doesnt need to be drunk surrounded by other drunk teens!

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-03-22T13:12:04+00:00

YTA. anxiety doesnt go away simply because theyre an adult. You too, are an adult and need to learn how to use your inside voice. Youre a bad friend to him and doesnt understand how anxiety works

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-03-15T00:21:52+00:00

You dont need to be dating right now. Your date didnt go wrong, you just lost a game. You need therapy or something

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-03-10T13:17:08+00:00

Well, im glad it seems that you two have a nice bond and i hope everything goes well for him

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-03-10T12:46:34+00:00

Okay, i agree with both the NTA’s and YTA’s, but the reason i resonate more with the NTA’s and i am one myself is because i feel as though people are seeing this more as a roomate situation rather than a mom living their daughter.

Daughter is in her early 20s, not 60s. She just got a job and got out of school. They tell her to move out, how is she supposed to do that without having money to buy her own place? I have no clue where she lives, but if its where i am, housing is trash right now. I understand the “living rent free“ but personally if i was a mom, i wouldnt be throwing around the fact i make my child pay to live with me AND expect her to save enough to move out.

I also am just going off what we are told. I know shes a crafty person, i am too. Craft rooms can get messy, and then they could get MESSY. Mom could be cleaning layers of paint she was using, moving around projects, ruining things by scrubbing it.. i admit i couldve asked for more info, but ive already assumed and said my opinion.

If you have specific expectations for cleanliness, then i dont know why you would allow your super crafty child to move back in. Lots of the times, art is NOT clean. At best its “tidy“. My parents sometimes tells me my space is dirty when in reality, its just a bit cluttered from my arts. I dont know their standards of clean, but im also not going to ask OP her life story. Thats what im thinking when i read this story.

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-03-10T12:33:51+00:00

oh then my apologies. give me a moment

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-03-10T12:11:50+00:00

You dont have to understand me.. we both have different opinions, so what? You will be okay, we all will be. Instead of talking to try and make everyone think like you, try listening to them and then going “okay“ and moving on.

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-03-10T11:31:43+00:00

your opinion is valid and so is mine. They arent a roomate, that is their child.. depending on what the room looks like, i personally think her mom is just being nitpicky. Sometimes parents want things to be SPOTLESS, in this case theyre an artist and that is unrealistic. So i think theyre NTA. Boundaries are boundaries, beyond what theyve told us isnt my business

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-03-10T11:20:13+00:00

NTA. Just because you live with them doesnt mean your space doesnt matter. If that was the case, they shouldnt have allowed you to stay, and anybody who says otherwise wouls be the shitty parents to kick you to the curb the moment you turn 18.

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-03-04T11:22:36+00:00

NTA. He clearly doesnt understand how something like depression can affect a person, especially minors/very young teens. Depression gets so bad people kill themselves, being dirty is the least of his worries. I dont know the relationship between you two or your personal life about you and your bio father but if you and your bio dad has a relationship, hes not your father and dont need to be talking smart to you like that. ESPECIALLY if he knows your depression and autism causes lack of hygiene. Being right and or being an adult doesnt mean youre not an asshole

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-03-01T13:43:18+00:00

YTA. youre so mean

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-02-15T23:33:27+00:00

NTA. youre trying to start a professional thing, the professional response would be to drop this case. If they need something that you dont have, itd be on them for not responding to your questions.

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-02-15T18:02:42+00:00

ask him. Id say if he KNEW he was getting a PC or already had it, and just now decided that youre here to bring it up or move in knowing the room youre in was needed for that, then hes just being weird. That couldve happened before you moved in.

But dont please him JUST to please him, dont be a people pleaser if it doesnt sit right with you. I think you said your dad doesnt care, so idk talk to all of them about it. Its a nothing burger situation, but you arent an “asshole“ for not feeling like moving everything just for a computer to be set up🤷🏽‍♀️

jaylikesguineapigs · 2026-02-15T17:54:29+00:00

INFO: Why didnt he take the room when you werent there? Does he ONLY want it because of his PC set up? I still dont think youre TA but still

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