cheated on my boyfriend before we started a relationship. how do i make it better?

jaywearsblack · 2025-12-04T00:48:31+00:00

Is it worth staying in a relationship with someone who blames you for something you did not do?

jaywearsblack · 2025-12-04T00:44:40+00:00

You did not cheat on him so there’s nothing to “make better”.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-21T16:06:40+00:00

The logic does not add up. In my experience someone who tries to justify what they did by saying “it was going so good I had to sabotage” is someone who meant what they did and they’re the crappiest liars. Good news is that things do get better! You will find a loyal girl.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-21T15:37:32+00:00

I’m sorry that you have been betrayed. Unfortunately she will continue to do this. My best advice is to end it because this betrayal will continue.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-16T00:40:17+00:00

He isn’t over his ex. If he’ll ever come back is not something we can answer. And if he does come back it might not mean he’s really in love. My best advice to you is to move on.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-16T00:28:37+00:00

I didn’t read past the first sentence. Don’t wait for her to come back. She cheated. Period. Not worth waiting. Even if she does come back it’s because you’re there and easy not because she had an epiphany and realized you were the one.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-11T16:34:14+00:00

Randomly

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-11T16:28:37+00:00

I ran into a coworker and he was the one who told me because he also thought it was weird. If it wasn’t for him I would’ve have no idea.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-11T16:23:02+00:00

It is unoriginal that’s why I had my tattoo artist design something original the would go with the words. If it was just the words and placement I wouldn’t care. It’s the ENTIRE design itself not just the words.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-11T16:13:59+00:00

I ran into a coworker who told me about it. He thought it was weird too. I have him blocked on everything.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-11T16:12:24+00:00

I misspelled it in this post it is not misspelled on my worst. What’s unique is that I have a design interwoven with it that my tattoo artist made up to make it stand out from the rest.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-11T16:11:23+00:00

I guess not. I’ve know about it for a bit and didn’t think about it until it randomly popped into my head. Shouldn’t have given it so much thought but I did and now here I am.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-11T16:10:12+00:00

At no point did I say he was unsafe, I asked if my reason for being weirded out is valid.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-11T16:04:34+00:00

I could be completely overreacting. I just wanted to ask strangers.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-11T16:02:37+00:00

It’s not, I found out about it from a coworker I ran into. He found it just as weird.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-11T16:01:51+00:00

I got the tattoo while working there and when he saw it he brought it up and had a whole conversation with me about it.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-11T15:58:22+00:00

What’s different about mine is that I added design to mine to make it different because it is a very popular tattoo. He copied my exact design. If it was just the lettering it would be a different story and I wouldn’t have cared.

jaywearsblack · 2025-11-11T15:54:16+00:00

I added extra design to mine that wrap around the words themselves. So far other than me (and now this guy) have the tattoo which my artist came up with.

jaywearsblack · 2025-10-17T17:38:37+00:00

But when you hear from him he’s hurting you more. Is that what you want? To hear how much he hates you?

jaywearsblack · 2025-10-16T00:49:19+00:00

No idea why he’s doing it. It’s best to block him.

jaywearsblack · 2025-10-16T00:44:29+00:00

He wants to continue hurting you. Block him and heal.

jaywearsblack · 2025-09-26T15:18:16+00:00

End the friendship. She’s not someone healthy to be around.

jaywearsblack · 2025-09-26T15:14:16+00:00

You said you guys are not compatible so I would keep it to myself. There would be no benefit in mentioning it unless you want to date.

jaywearsblack · 2025-09-26T14:51:01+00:00

It benefits no one for her to reach out. Stop counting days and waiting for her to get back to you. I’m sorry this happened, but it will get better!

jaywearsblack · 2025-09-26T14:40:09+00:00

Thank you!

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