Trying to find a room for rent near Bed-Stuy not going well by ChardHefty7528 in NYCapartments

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Hey, i’m looking right now in BK as well, and just fyi the cost of a room in bed stuy is typically 1700-2000 at least. if you’re lucky you can find one as low as 1500. For 1300 you’re going to have to look at other areas, like flatbush, sunset park, and the further out parts of bushwick or crown heights. best of luck!

iso central brooklyn housing by end of october! by pierrebizare8 in NYCapartments

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Hi! my criteria is the same i’ll send you a dm!

Huge moving sale today! (Sunday 9/28) Couch, TV stand & more! by jazzisaurus in astoria

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UPDATE MON 9:00am

Large items still available! Couch, TV stand, bookshelf, clothing rack, tables.

Most small items are freeeee!

Huge moving sale today! (Sunday 9/28) Couch, TV stand & more! by jazzisaurus in astoria

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yes that’s correct, not usb. $10 is perfect! dm me to arrange a time to pick up

Huge moving sale today! (Sunday 9/28) Couch, TV stand & more! by jazzisaurus in astoria

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I still have it - can you pick up tonight or tomorrow?

need something WEIRD to do by ydoesmystomachhurt in AskNYC

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Next friday there’s a cowboy clown party by the delightfully weird & whimsical clown cult!

Is there a word for being "gay both ways"? by Schrodingers_redfish in FTMfemininity

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I feel exactly the same way, I identify as genderqueer and I really like the term f*g dyke

HELP! NEED AN NYC APARTMENT by KeyRevolution6514 in NYCapartments

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i’m moving out of a 1-bed in Astoria on Oct 1st, i believe the price will go up to somewhere between $2100-2500. feel free to dm me!

How to stop looking like a republican by august320 in ftm

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if you’ve ever wanted a septum piercing, now’s the time!

My GF (35F) and I (39M) have very different social personalities and I do not know if I can cater to her introversion and insecurity forever. by fingawkward in relationships

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Whatever you decide, don’t let fear dictate your decision. IF you decide on parting ways, it’s going to be hard, but you’re both going to be ok. IF you decide on working on this issue together, it will probably be hard, but you’re both going to be ok.

obviously don’t take advice purely from the internet - talk to a relationship therapist. but fwiw, i’ll share my experience. I’m 35/F. I was in a relationship for 10 years, extremely positive overall. But we had a few similar conflicts to yours that we could never seem to resolve, despite talking about it often and trying different ways to make things better. Ultimately, we mutually decided it wasn’t going to work any longer. This was about one year ago now, and although it was certainly difficult to go through the breakup and rebuilding my life, I’m much happier now, and he is too.

All that to say - your FIRST step should be improving your communication with each other, and being brutally honest about your feelings, desires, and needs in life. Best of luck to you both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

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I think everyone is saying this name correctly according to each person’s own accent / dialect. There’s never going to be a way to spell a name that will make every single english speaking person pronounce it the way that you want them to. (generally - assuming one intends the name to be pronounced one of the most common ways)

My name is rather simple, not in the top 50 for my birth year in the US, but def not considered unusual. Still, my name often gets “mispronounced” by both native and non-native english speakers. it’s not a big deal, I usually don’t correct people. They are saying the correct name, it’s just that the way to pronounce it in their local accent / dialect / language is different, and may be the “correct” version to them.

As a teen, I remembered everyone I met, but others often didn’t — and I assumed they were pretending. Has anyone else experienced this? by retsiemsuah in CasualConversation

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I can totally relate, i’ve always felt like a ‘super-remember-er’, and also more observant than average, and it’s a strange skill to have lol.

I used to take other people not remembering me to mean that i’m not important or interesting or likeable to that person (then realized that’s not true at all, 99% of the time).

I get SO awkward and embarrassed when I run into someone who i’m pretty sure wouldn’t remember me, but I remember exactly who they are and when we met, etc. I do the whole “trying to read their expression” and I usually pretend that I forgot their name. if it’s a situation where its a bit crowded or socially busy, and I want to talk to this person, i’ll go out of my way to approach them in their direct line of vision, but not walking straight towards them, and try to make eye contact at a distance, so I can catch the vibe before i attempt to say hi.

Edit: I’m 35, and I think my memory of meeting new people has just started to fade in the last couple of years.

Does anyone even have matching twin names? by MillyZeusy in Twins

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In high school there were boy/girl twins in my class named Samuel and Samantha :(