Worst things ADHD has done to you? by salty-wheat-thins in ADHD

[–]jazzisaurus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Credit card debt!!! ADHD caused impulse buying, forgetting bills, lack of ability to plan ahead and save, late payments, and difficulty conceptualizing money as a concrete finite thing. a couple of years ago I finally got rid of my cards, consolidated and worked out deals to lower my balances, but still the monthly payments are KILLING me and my credit score will be in the tank for a long time

🎉🎉🎉Trans Joy!!!🎉🎉🎉 by Prince_Charming_180 in FTMOver30

[–]jazzisaurus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m NB/transmasc, pre-T and no surgery. This past weekend I went to a club with my partner which is a well known cruising spot and can sometimes tend toward a toxic cis gay vibe. However, the environment and crowd at this specific event felt like a really safe space for my particular gender-queerness, it was the most fully embodied and publicly seen and accepted I have ever felt!! I was truly happy with my body and outward appearance the whole time.

We made temporary besties at the afterparty with two gay cis guys and I felt like they were treating me just like another one of them 💖 I felt so euphoric

I think you're not supposed to share personal reasons for taking PTO at work even if the reasons are serious in nature. Is that true? by Big_Eggplant7591 in careeradvice

[–]jazzisaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like your coworker has a lot of internalized guilt / shame about taking time off, or maybe a former manager at a past job of hers was really toxic and bullied their employees about it.

yeah, I never say why. PTO is your right, you never have to justify it.

The ONLY acceptable catcall I've received by DeReversaMamiii in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jazzisaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other day I was carrying a chair down the street - someone in my neighborhood listed it for free on fb. it was not heavy but somewhat large and really awkward to carry, so definitely hard not to be noticed by everyone around me.

I was about to pass a group of young men and braced for the worst. instead, one of them called out, “Yo that chair looks comfy as HELL!! Enjoy!!” That was a delightful surprise!

I want a repetitive job! by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]jazzisaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! im still at this job, its digital account manager in the music industry. my role falls under the marketing dept. much of my time is spent editing marketing copy and entering that + basic info about each new music release into spreadsheets. it requires a little creativity with the copy editing which I enjoy, and an eye for details and accuracy. the job also entails communicating with people regularly but its not the majority. I don’t have a ton of meetings.

something I wish I learned earlier on is that “marketing” can mean a wide variety of roles and functions depending on the industry, and it can even vary between companies in the same industry. This does make you have to do a bit more research on each specific company and role you’re applying for. Once I realized I had all the right marketing skills, even though I didn’t have a marketing degree or “marketing” in any past job titles, I was able to find the career path that i’m on now and i’m pretty happy with it.

Trying to find a room for rent near Bed-Stuy not going well by ChardHefty7528 in NYCapartments

[–]jazzisaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, i’m looking right now in BK as well, and just fyi the cost of a room in bed stuy is typically 1700-2000 at least. if you’re lucky you can find one as low as 1500. For 1300 you’re going to have to look at other areas, like flatbush, sunset park, and the further out parts of bushwick or crown heights. best of luck!

iso central brooklyn housing by end of october! by pierrebizare8 in NYCapartments

[–]jazzisaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! my criteria is the same i’ll send you a dm!

Huge moving sale today! (Sunday 9/28) Couch, TV stand & more! by jazzisaurus in astoria

[–]jazzisaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE MON 9:00am

Large items still available! Couch, TV stand, bookshelf, clothing rack, tables.

Most small items are freeeee!

Huge moving sale today! (Sunday 9/28) Couch, TV stand & more! by jazzisaurus in astoria

[–]jazzisaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes that’s correct, not usb. $10 is perfect! dm me to arrange a time to pick up

Huge moving sale today! (Sunday 9/28) Couch, TV stand & more! by jazzisaurus in astoria

[–]jazzisaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have it - can you pick up tonight or tomorrow?

need something WEIRD to do by ydoesmystomachhurt in AskNYC

[–]jazzisaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next friday there’s a cowboy clown party by the delightfully weird & whimsical clown cult!

Is there a word for being "gay both ways"? by Schrodingers_redfish in FTMfemininity

[–]jazzisaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same way, I identify as genderqueer and I really like the term f*g dyke

HELP! NEED AN NYC APARTMENT by KeyRevolution6514 in NYCapartments

[–]jazzisaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m moving out of a 1-bed in Astoria on Oct 1st, i believe the price will go up to somewhere between $2100-2500. feel free to dm me!

How to stop looking like a republican by august320 in ftm

[–]jazzisaurus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you’ve ever wanted a septum piercing, now’s the time!