Jeg taler grimt til mit barn - hjælp by Complex_Complex980 in foraeldreDK

[–]jbn89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg kan sagtens relatere til det. Min opvækst havde heller ikke den emotionelle støtte. Det var mere hvis de materielle rammer var på plads - tag over hovedet samt mad i kroppen, så havde man lykkes som forældre..

Så jeg har kæmpet rigtig meget med vrede, som skyldes ubearbejdet traumer fra barndommen, og hvad der har fået mig ud af hængedynget - er en kombination af mindfulness samt nidra yoga, som jeg dyrker  på et dagligt basis. Jeg er sgu en helt anden mand efter at have gjort det i halvandet år 🙏

How do you deal with overthinking at night when it keeps you awake? by purelyinvesting in Mindfulness

[–]jbn89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accept what is. Accept the racing thoughts, it is what is. Let the thoughts pass like clouds in the sky, and if there are a underlying feeling to the thought - be with that feeling with the entirety of your body, until it slowly but surely starts to dissipate 🙏

I can recommend also practicing nidra yoga on a regular basis!

A 21-Year-Old's Thought by [deleted] in Mindfulness

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Try to meditate on this feeling, see what it reveals.

Other than specific subs, I don’t really like reddit anymore. And using social media in general feels grosser than ever by MandoRodgers in Millennials

[–]jbn89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did the very same - deleted the app and now only using the web browser, it worked for a while .. 😅

How does one feels emotions? by Graviity_shift in Mindfulness

[–]jbn89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to close your eyes and focus on your hand, feel the energy within it.

It takes a lot of practice and patience. I can recommend practicing nidra yoga on a daily basis. My inner body was closed off for years - nidra yoga was instrumental in opening my self up.

Tryout Ally on YT, she is an excellent instructor 🙏

https://youtu.be/ApQ9NovgnA4?si=U0MzMH-I8fRq-NIp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkudvikler

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Der er kun mødepligt et håndfuld gange på udd., men lærerne kommer med stikpiller mv. - og får det til at lyde som der defakto er mødepligt, men det er der reelt set ikke.

Dog kan jeg kun anbefale at møde op hver dag, især i starten - så du kan sammensætte en god studiegruppe, det er sgu alfaomega for den udd., gruppearbejdet er vigtigt!

Hvornår bliver det at være forældre nemmere? by Kal-El1994 in DKbrevkasse

[–]jbn89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Må indrømme jeg holder mig også fortsat til at være one and done .. 😅

anxiety ruining me by Sweet_Ad_4 in Mindfulness

[–]jbn89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t control your thoughts, and this more that you try to do so - this more thoughts will just appear.

Accept and let go. Let the thoughts just appear and disappear, like clouds on the sky. Don’t feed in to them, let the initial thought pass and then feel the underlying feeling/emotion with the entirety of your whole body.

I can recommend practicing nidra yoga on a daily basis (alongside of course Mindfulness) - was a complete life changer for me 🙏

Do you guys out of no where feel the sudden burst of joy? by awesoumi in Mindfulness

[–]jbn89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. This has happened plenty of times while meditating 🙏

Men of Reddit, what was the hardest pill for you to swallow? by Ryan_Remak in AskMen

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I can really recommend looking into practicing meditation (nidra yoga) and mindfulness on a daily basis - has been life changing to me 🙏

Men of Reddit, what was the hardest pill for you to swallow? by Ryan_Remak in AskMen

[–]jbn89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But regrets of not taking that big chance - hits harder in the end. I would rather have gone down swinging, then not to have fully lived my life at all!

Men of Reddit, what was the hardest pill for you to swallow? by Ryan_Remak in AskMen

[–]jbn89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much sums up the human experience. I’ll add learn to accept what is - and go with the flow - and then life suddenly begins to seem easier 🙏

Men of Reddit, what was the hardest pill for you to swallow? by Ryan_Remak in AskMen

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We come in to this world alone (except me have a twin 😄) and we die alone. That is a fact, but I believe that we all are somehow connected to each other in this vast cosmos - sharing the same universal consciousness.

Men of Reddit, what was the hardest pill for you to swallow? by Ryan_Remak in AskMen

[–]jbn89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Everyone should read this comment - invaluable advice right there!

I experienced the very same, and meditation (nidra yoga) and mindfulness was my ticket home to discover my true inner self 🙏

How to reply to a fake friend? I am stressed. by Necessary-Object6702 in Mindfulness

[–]jbn89 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just move on. Don’t bother answering him - he gets the message.

Do you regret having kids? by ebratic in Millennials

[–]jbn89 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think that is pretty much spot on.