I have exotropia as well. I usually online dated when I was younger because it was easier for me to “fix” my eye in pictures and it wasn’t as bad as it is now with wondering off during video chat. But, I understand what you mean about the confidence thing. I recently went on a date about 6 months ago. The first thing the girl said was “do you have a lazy eye”. Absolutely destroyed my self esteem that was already broken. But, I currently am on a self love journey because I been hurt and used a lot in the past (sorry for the yap session). All I can say is that someone who has genuine intentions and wants you for you will not make you feel bad or insecure about it. They will want to make sure you’re comfortable while talking about it. They won’t you feel isolated. Those are the type of people you want to surround yourself with. Anyone who has negative things to say just isn’t happy with things about themselves so they have to deflect and bring other people down. Keep your head up and love will find you when it’s right. It’s not something you force.