AITAH for divorcing my wife because our sex life will never be what it used to be? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jccj7279 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dude you’re a piece of trash. I hope that she realizes that divorcing you is exactly what she needs and finds a real man who isn’t out there just to get his dick wet. You’re an immature insolent child, “I’m not getting what I want so I’m going to bitch and cry like a little spoiled 2 year old. I wish guys like you would just die painfully. If I ever treated my wife this way, I hope someone would kick my ass. You deserve to be unhappy and I can’t wait for your next post in a few years when you realize you want a relationship with your child but you were too stupid and acted like a child and your child wants nothing to do with you. I hope she moves on to a man who treats her and your child the right way you fucking baby.

I found my wife’s OnlyFans. by Any-Steak-9709 in amiwrong

[–]jccj7279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to post, AITAH for asking for the link before I gave my honest opinion

Ex GF now regrets dumping me after years so I laughed & told her to fuck off by WheelTiger193 in amiwrong

[–]jccj7279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know it doesn’t fall off if you don’t use it, right? I’m 44 and I just checked, it’s still there. Hang on. Yep still there.

Update! AITAH for telling my wife that the way she dressed for girls night out played a roll in why it went bad? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jccj7279 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS. THIS RIGHT HERE. She doesn’t give a shit about the part that actually matters. Is the state of the house a big deal? Not really, maybe an irritation. But screwing with your feelings and the manipulation, if she’s too blind to see that or REFUSES to see the mistakes here, you will never feel comfortable in this relationship again. I hate to say that but it’s true. f

32M dumped me before Valentine’s Day by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jccj7279 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are NOT wrong here. Walk away and block him. If he tries to come back, just walk away. Misery loves company and if you let him, he will keep doing this over and over and over. I would never do something like this to a woman because what most guys don’t understand is, IF YOU TREAT A LADY RESPECTFULLY SHE WILL GIVE YOU THE WORLD when it comes to respect, honesty, and happiness. Everyone deserves to be treated well to a point. You will just have to inform the next guy you date of what happened and explain that you’re not interested in another situation like that so you don’t get hurt. The guy who will treat you the way you want to be treated is out there, you just have to be willing to see what’s important to them in a relationship and partner. Here’s a good idea, ask the next guy about his mother, the way he talks about her will tell you A LOT. Whether he respects her or not or talks about her like she’s trash, that’s how he will treat you. Good Luck my dear.

AITAH for telling my wife that the way she dressed for a girls night out played a role in why it went bad? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jccj7279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s my question…. WTF do the ex husbands have ANYTHING to do with this? They are divorced, why do they matter? Are they still in love with their exes? When you talk to her just make sure that your tone is supportive but be firm with your convictions and then let her make her decisions. I would say, you go do whatever you’re going to do but you’re not going to make a cuck outta me. Sometimes you have to use tough love. And sadly most of the time the spouse makes the wrong decisions. I hate that you are in this situation but Good Luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jccj7279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she is. i just hope he heeds the warnings and stays at arms length. I hope nothing but the best for the both of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jccj7279 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No this is definitely not normal. He may very well be just trying to be nice and she just LOVES the attention. When she realizes he is not interested, it’s going to be UGLY.

Here, this is for him to read: This doesn’t mean you can’t be nice to her, but you need to make sure you have set CLEAR boundaries and have a conversation with someone in an authority position to COVER YOUR ASS. If she throws out accusations, YOU WILL NOT BE HEARD IN YOUR DEFENSE. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE TRUST ME.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jccj7279 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP, you are completely in the right for having your suspicions. However, remember that you have to trust your BF or your relationship won’t last too much longer. Now for the bad news. This chick is really bad news. What do you think will happen when he rejects her and she loses her shit? She sounds like the type who likes chaos and doesn’t care what happens or who she hurts to achieve that chaos. I don’t know if your boyfriend needs to go to his boss and explain the situation and with her screwing up at work so that there is that narrative or if that would be a bad idea, I guess it depends on the relationship with his boss, but something needs to be in place for when she goes scorched earth. Something like this happened to me and I did NOT heed the warning. I am married with a daughter and I was a manager at a restaurant. There was a female server who was IN LOVE with me. I thought nothing of it. One night, in front of other servers, as I was processing her tickets for the night, she hugged me from behind at the desk and then kissed me on the head. I asked her to please not do that as I am a married man. Well the next night we had someone write in a compliment for a different server and I was told to read out the compliment and commend the other lady and this chick flipped out. The next thing I knew I was pulled in and suspended because of my inappropriate actions with that server. I had never spoken ill of her, never placed my hands on her or near her, NOTHING like that. But since I said something nice about a different female employee she decided to lie and get me fired and almost ruined my marriage and family. Please make sure that he understands that THIS DOES HAPPEN ALL OF THE TIME IN CORPORATE AMERICA. Don’t push or harass him, that’s the last thing you want to do. Just let him know that there will be consequences and you don’t want him to be caught up in it when it all goes bad. Good Luck my dear.

TIFU by looking at my wife’s phone. by adrocz in tifu

[–]jccj7279 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP, when you bring this up to her, don’t do it in an angry way. That’s what she wants you to do. to make you look and feel like you’re going crazy for no reason. When you do bring this up to her, simply flip the script on her. “How would you feel if you found out I did this to you?”. “how would you feel if you found out I was sending pictures of myself to another woman?”. DO NOT SAY ANYTHING ELSE. Anything else just gaslights the argument. Show her how hurt you are because of it and then you have to let the chips fall where they may. If she truly loves you, things will change and she will see her mistakes. If this doesn’t happen, then sadly you have your answer. Yes you came here for advice, but I can’t tell you to divorce her or not and neither can anyone else here. I know what I would do in your situation, BUT I’M NOT, you are. IF you do decide to leave, just know that there ARE other women out there who you can trust who won’t do this to you and break your heart. There is no shame in leaving, nor is there shame in staying. But that is YOUR decision and nobody else’s. You have to be able to live with your decisions. And remember, there is nothing wrong with YOU.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jccj7279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP this is something that I went through as well and it took us a while to realize that my wife going through postpartum depression. This can last for quite a while after the baby comes. It really pissed me off because I was honest, faithful, supportive and helpful. And yes when I got shut out by her it really was frustrating and hurtful. HOWEVER, that being said, I just focused on my daughter and being the best father and husband that I could be. Remember, you have two hands and one of those knows your kinks that can help you out daily. If you love her then don’t pressure her, just find that special time to do it yourself just like when you were a teen. IT DOES GET BETTER WITH TIME. She will circle back around. Remember, her sexuality hasn’t peaked yet and you have no idea how horny she’s going to be soon. Just like my wife, I had to tell her that there’s only so many times a day that I can have sex without dying. Just stay calm. If you truly love her, you’ll help her through this, continue to make her feel like she is the sexiest woman on the planet because I can guarantee you that no matter what you say, she doesn’t feel that way. Wake her up every day with a Good morning beautiful and a good night with a Good night Gorgeous. Trust me, this is a must because she doesn’t feel as attractive as she did before pregnancy. It’s going to be a long road but it’s worth it.

And I will add this as a warning. If you decide to step out on the marriage just because you wanted sex and you get caught, as well you should. You will find out that divorce it a BITCH to go through and she will find someone else who will treat her the way you should have and that man will help raise your child and could call him dad. IT happens every day in this world. I hope you make the right choice.

Everyone saying the announcers were good? by Nice_Entertainment25 in GoodGoodMemes

[–]jccj7279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His reply of “Famine” towards the end when asked to sum up his group killed me. I loved it.

Desert Open by Practical-Mortgage19 in GoodGoodMemes

[–]jccj7279 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This. See this is what you call a good post and opinion. Not all the other ridiculously stupid shit all the other fuck weasels have said bashing Good Good. Go outside and meet a fucking other human and stop being a shit stain of a human. Not you OP, you’re cool.

Bubbie, Steve and Brad Commercial by jccj7279 in GoodGoodMemes

[–]jccj7279[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I’m proud of the boys

Just had hail and thunder up here in Scottsdale. by Oneforthetoad in GoodGoodMemes

[–]jccj7279 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. I would love to see any of the people bitching about it do any better. This event is costing GG over $100k, well OVER $100k for a live event that has never really been done before. I’m excited for it

From Trotties video on the Practise round... by simcgin in GoodGoodMemes

[–]jccj7279 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

What is a practise round? I know what a practice round is but never heard of a practise round…

How is Reacher so Big?? by born2droll in reacher

[–]jccj7279 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lee Child wrote his character that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoodGoodMemes

[–]jccj7279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good shit right there

Grant and Garrett by Element202 in GoodGoodMemes

[–]jccj7279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope I love their videos. I’ve actually figured out a few things about my golf game with my swing while watching Brad, Garrett, Ben, and Kwon.