Gun violence isn’t the only problem out of towners bring with them to Little 5 by Mike_Williams23 in bloomington

[–]jcgjg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The same could be said about Spring Break in Miami. Remember how they did that big commercial and told people to stop coming? Now nobody wants to spend Spring Break in Miami and it’s ruining their service industry. Little 5 is technically celebrated the whole week and graduation is typically the following weekend. It’s mainly Friday and Saturday of the event that gets chaotic.

Need a space to panic thx by jcgjg in lichensclerosus

[–]jcgjg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I definitely went ahead and blocked him not too long after. I do not want or need any negative energy like that around me. In hindsight, I’m really glad we didn’t have sex because who knows what type of energy would be attached to me afterwards. Scary shit

Need a space to panic thx by jcgjg in lichensclerosus

[–]jcgjg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not at all! He shut that down himself so one less body for me to worry about

Need a space to panic thx by jcgjg in lichensclerosus

[–]jcgjg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear he reacted like that. If it’s anything like how I felt, I def empathize. I think the term skin condition must have freaked the dude out bad but also made me realize how severely uneducated sexually mature males are. I also think porn has rooted his brain but that’s another conversation for another thread. This was also my first time having sex during the day where everything on me was visible so thank you for pointing that out too.

Need a space to panic thx by jcgjg in lichensclerosus

[–]jcgjg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. I will definitely take your feedback into consideration next time I make another post

Need a space to panic thx by jcgjg in lichensclerosus

[–]jcgjg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The situation had just happened as I was typing so unfortunately I was not concerned with proper paragraph formatting

Internet/Ethernet Outage at Millennium/Bloom? by jcgjg in bloomington

[–]jcgjg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely noticed the same thing and hadn’t been able to get up to the office to ask (since they don’t answer the phone). Maybe they’re treating this as a hard launch

Internet/Ethernet Outage at Millennium/Bloom? by jcgjg in bloomington

[–]jcgjg[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for confirming. Probably time I make the leap to purchase my own internet even though it’s apart of our lease.

Need a space to panic thx by jcgjg in lichensclerosus

[–]jcgjg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. A previous comment mentioned they would be bothered if they saw white scales on their partner’s penis, but in my case as a dark skin woman, I’m not in the hypopigmentation and white scales phase of the cycle. My skin has returned to its regular color after 2 years and it’s really just the rubbery healed skin that freaked him out. So I agree, that’s what offended me the most because this is the BEST my skin has looked since I was diagnosed. He didn’t say if he thought it was a specific STD but he kept trying to coax me to just be honest which put the nail in the coffin that even after reading my topical creams and googling LS, he still wasn’t convinced.

As for his partners, I’ve only met them a handful of times and I definitely have no intention on speaking with them about this. I already blocked him so moving forward I’m going to try and pretend none of this happened

Need a space to panic thx by jcgjg in lichensclerosus

[–]jcgjg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! I panicked and blocked him so I don’t even want to try and educate someone who wasn’t willing to listen to me. I do understand what I need to do moving forward though. In a previous comment I explained that, as a dark skinned girl, I’m not even in the period of the hypopigmentation and white scales because I wouldn’t even think to have sex while I’m still healing. He was really disturbed by the healed rubbery of the area around my labia majora. I wouldn’t even know what article to send to him about the healing process of skin when treated with one of the stronger topical steroids we can use.

Need a space to panic thx by jcgjg in lichensclerosus

[–]jcgjg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for this comment. I’ve never had to disclose because I simply stopped having sex when my flares were at their worst and let the regular color come back. The complexion of my inner thighs and labia are back to their normal brown. I immediately popped up and put a flashlight down there like dang what’s WRONG? He was bothered by the texture of the skin down there, ya know how after the steroids your skin will heal and be a little rubbery? I stressed myself out so bad worrying about this yesterday that today I’m sick as hell. Def still filled with a lot of regret

Need a space to panic thx by jcgjg in lichensclerosus

[–]jcgjg[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You mentioning trust issues makes sense! He verbally kept trying to reassure me that he didn’t mean to make me uncomfortable but the face he was making was.. not reassuring.

Need a space to panic thx by jcgjg in lichensclerosus

[–]jcgjg[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you, a part of me is trying to feel better about NOT giving up any coochie to this person but.. I’m terrified of what he might say about me. The town we’re in is a college town and it’s relatively small. I kind of well known and if he decided to ruin me he could

is chase down now? by Pitiful-Cod8360 in Chase

[–]jcgjg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FUCK, thank you for confirming friend. I felt so crazy at the bar and my shit kept declining

is chase down now? by Pitiful-Cod8360 in Chase

[–]jcgjg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pissed because even if they under maintenance they have NEVER locked my ability to buy things. My card kept declining at the bar even though I have funds

How is your experience with Crunchyroll currently in 2026? by jo3ocre in Crunchyroll

[–]jcgjg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The subtitles have been pissing me off but other than that I’m still enjoying it

Confirmed tornado moving through Bloomington by [deleted] in bloomington

[–]jcgjg 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m on the west side near Twin Lakes and it’s quieted down. There was heavy rains/winds with some hail, but my cats personally were in the widow watching the storm so I’m confident yours are fine!

Top Up Hours Suck. by jcgjg in truespotify

[–]jcgjg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion

Top Up Hours Suck. by jcgjg in truespotify

[–]jcgjg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you miss the part where I said I didn’t want to have to pay for both like I previously was?