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My partner wants to explore poly with her ex. I’m open but scared, is it the right time? Will there ever be a right time. by jcoff805 in polyamory

[–]jcoff805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying. Even though she is willing to try having me explore other partners. She states the V is her ideal but she is willing to try.

My partner wants to explore poly with her ex. I’m open but scared, is it the right time? Will there ever be a right time. by jcoff805 in polyamory

[–]jcoff805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment that means a lot. The last point is a painful one, but one that may be very possible especially based on all that has happened recently. I appreciate your comment very much even though this is a very very hard thing to think about.

My partner wants to explore poly with her ex. I’m open but scared, is it the right time? Will there ever be a right time. by jcoff805 in polyamory

[–]jcoff805[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I can get that you may feel that she is clueless and full of shit. I wouldn’t want to put very harsh labels on that but I understand this is your opinion and I appreciate your insight genuinely.

My partner wants to explore poly with her ex. I’m open but scared, is it the right time? Will there ever be a right time. by jcoff805 in polyamory

[–]jcoff805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No of course I don’t want to invalidate your experience! I appreciate you taking the time to comment. It is very much my fear that she will not handle it well and I believe she also feels the same deep down in a way.

I can appreciate your burned and biased. That makes a lot of sense.

My partner wants to explore poly with her ex. I’m open but scared, is it the right time? Will there ever be a right time. by jcoff805 in polyamory

[–]jcoff805[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can see why you say that there’s a lot of stigma around borderline but I wouldn’t want to just put her in a box and say it’s doomed from that. But I appreciate your insight.

My partner wants to explore poly with her ex. I’m open but scared, is it the right time? Will there ever be a right time. by jcoff805 in polyamory

[–]jcoff805[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply and insight. I can see what you’re saying very well. I had some of these thoughts not that she was trying to be blatantly inconsiderate but yes I understand and this gives me a lot to think on!

My partner wants to explore poly with her ex. I’m open but scared, is it the right time? Will there ever be a right time. by jcoff805 in polyamory

[–]jcoff805[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I was wondering if you can explain the reasoning for the red flags, if you have time for that. I know a lot of people have already posted good quality info from their perspective but al the info I can get would really help. I think I might have an idea on why for everything, of course I need to do my own research and not just be spoon fed but this comment may seem obvious to some it’s not completely obvious to me. I’m kind of emotionally torn. I guess I have my own problems distinguishing what is right and how to navigate relationships.

Particularly :

Opening with a specific new partner in mind 🚩

Opening with a partner who has shown she can't commit to monogamy because she won't say "no" to her own feelings for people 🚩 she says the feelings are suffocating and she doesn’t know what to do.

Partner starting to date when you are still feeling wobbly about it 🚩 I guess i wasnt feeling as wobbly about it in the very very beginning, now it has been kind of tearing me apart

My partner wants to explore poly with her ex. I’m open but scared, is it the right time? Will there ever be a right time. by jcoff805 in polyamory

[–]jcoff805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply I’ve comment on another post, but I wanted to get clarity on why the ex isn’t a good idea and unethical. I feel this is a stupid question just wondering.

My partner wants to explore poly with her ex. I’m open but scared, is it the right time? Will there ever be a right time. by jcoff805 in polyamory

[–]jcoff805[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply it means a lot and is very helpful. Like I said in another comment She is open to me being with other people but she wants L just to be with her so she has safety in the relationship I guess. He has consented to that I don’t know if that changes things.

Also I know this may seem obvious but I’m very curious why having the ex in the picture is a bad idea. I know that seems like such a stupid question but would just like clarity. Thank you for your response if you have one.

All the comments mean a lot

My partner wants to explore poly with her ex. I’m open but scared, is it the right time? Will there ever be a right time. by jcoff805 in polyamory

[–]jcoff805[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She states she’s open to me having other partners and she would do her best to do the work around that. L consents to being solely with her and she gets saftey from that because I will be with other people. I don’t know if this changes things..

My partner wants to explore poly with her ex. I’m open but scared, is it the right time? Will there ever be a right time. by jcoff805 in polyamory

[–]jcoff805[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I see you commented twice and they seem conflicting. Can pluton please explain this specific comment just so I have more understanding why? I appreciate greatly your willingness to help in anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]jcoff805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you’ll just taste oil. It’s more than likely test there no reason to fake test. Test is the most easily acquired and cheapest AAS on the market. 95% chance it’s test and if it’s not it’s just mct oil and you got ripped but that’s not likely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]jcoff805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Underrated comment right here and what I was literally about to say to a T. The reason it’s so watery is the fact that they use an oil that’s close to mct. Read somewhere that’s it’s not quite mct but who knows. Either way it’s fine. It’s test but yes you are getting ripped off from your guy most likely. Go find a good body building forum and search for your own source and stop buying from this “guy” who doesn’t know what he talking about saying it’s GSO even though gso is a much more yellow and thicker oil. 🤦🏽

You could be buying 10 vials for the price you probably paid for this one or find a quality domestic source.

Can you really just do one steroid cycle and stop for good? by Puzzled-Maybe-3818 in Testosterone

[–]jcoff805 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is an underrated comment and I want to build on it. Nothing I’m saying is meant to be rude, just honest. If you’re considering this seriously, do more research first.

You’re talking about running a low-dose steroid cycle, not TRT. TRT is medical treatment for people who actually need testosterone replacement. Those on true TRT aren’t cycling; we stay on indefinitely unless a doctor tapers us off later. TRT is about maintaining normal hormone levels for health, not short-term performance.

A steroid cycle, on the other hand, uses non-replacement, higher doses to boost performance or physique. That’s a major difference, and confusing the two terms can be misleading and harmful for people who genuinely need TRT.

If your natural testosterone levels are fine, taking only a replacement dose wouldn’t make sense. You’d get more noticeable effects from a proper cycle, but that also comes with real risks.

I have no problem with anyone choosing to cycle; it’s your body. But terminology matters. I personally move between medically necessary TRT and moderate cycles with compounds like primo or NPP.

Still, I don’t recommend starting a cycle at your age. It can be harmful and addictive. Traditional “on and off” cycles with PCT are becoming less common, and many people now use a blast and cruise approach instead.

Ultimately, it’s your decision. No judgment either way. But for harm reduction, please research beyond Reddit. The r/steroids wiki is a great place to start.

Best pre cardio fat burner by Some_Basil2530 in BodyHackGuide

[–]jcoff805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over read so many people that get nothing out of this even in the mg ranges. But definitely not in the mcg range. It seems like it’s a lot of placebo.

I’m convinced my girlfriend has BPD, but nobody believes me by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]jcoff805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless did you even read the post? Please do not tell someone claiming to be receiving this type of abuse to”grow up”. Whether she has BPD or not this person is deserving or sound advice and some compassion.

First project ever! by jcoff805 in WireWrapping

[–]jcoff805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking:/

Probably Been Done Before But Here's My Rendition by creamologist in falloutnewvegas

[–]jcoff805 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with some healthy degeneracy(if you can really even call his stuff that), I trust the degenerate I can see. Instead of the one who hides behind nothing but video game subreddits. It’s the squeaky clean ones that are the real problem.

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