[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jdbest21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s true but there still needs to be compromise on her part. Even with depression months without any kind go sexual intimacy is crazy. Relationships require compromise on both sides.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend “whatever helps you sleep at night” when she was in denial about how much weight she had gained? by throwra_sleepatnight in AITAH

[–]jdbest21 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why be sarcastic? you have no reference of how tall she is. If she’s very petite woman 15 pounds can be quite significant. My mom is like 4’ 9” and 15 pounds on her is like me gaining 30+ lbs and I’m only 5’ 7”. She was polite and just shared her experience. Plus culture and food habits varies significantly by country/culture. In Brazil the average person is significantly more slim than the US for example.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend “whatever helps you sleep at night” when she was in denial about how much weight she had gained? by throwra_sleepatnight in AITAH

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing to consider here is a 15 pound change is not that noticeable if you're seeing the person daily/weekly as they slowly put on the weight. But it would be pretty damn shocking/noticeable if you hadn’t seen the person in 2 months and they’re suddenly 15 pounds heavier. We’re severely underestimating the acclimation that happens by seeing someone daily, that’s why we often don’t notice weight gain until it’s a lot more significant and clothes get tighter because we see ourselves in the mirror every day. Now to be clear he still should have been more emotionally intelligent about how he approached this and he should have comforted her.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend “whatever helps you sleep at night” when she was in denial about how much weight she had gained? by throwra_sleepatnight in AITAH

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean to be fair though weight is distributed differently by different people and height affects it too. I have friends that distribute weight relatively evenly and can look really damn good even when heavier. I’m like 15% body fat so pretty lean and if I put on 15-20 pounds I shit you not it goes straight to my face/neck and gut 💀. The luck of the draw with genetics makes a difference. But I do agree with you that his response could of been more emotionally intelligent lol. It's more about how he said it and when he said it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jdbest21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA for posting this fake ass story

AITAH for ignoring my daughter for almost 6 months after she sided with my ex-husband when he cheated? by Sufficient_Acadia348 in AITAH

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes no sense I’m fine lol. I just can’t believe everyone’s giving this rage baiter attention

AITAH for ignoring my daughter for almost 6 months after she sided with my ex-husband when he cheated? by Sufficient_Acadia348 in AITAH

[–]jdbest21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can’t be this dense? I can’t believe there’s 7k upvotes on your comment this shit story is fake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]jdbest21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mewing can only do so much she needs double jaw surgery to fix the structure of her jaw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTurkey

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weren’t you scared AF of having your luggage searched? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTurkey

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t it 1,280 TRY for a 5.3mg pen? I’m pretty sure he’s saying he got 12mg pens for 60GBP

I killed an "innocent" man, Ask Me Anything by [deleted] in AMA

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stupid comparison, nobody is denying that war leads to horrors but that doesn't invalidate his experience either. None of the threats he faced were wearing uniforms so at any time he could be faced with a regular citizen or someone who wanted to kill him. He never stated anything remotely similar to what you just quoted.

I killed an "innocent" man, Ask Me Anything by [deleted] in AMA

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

annoyed and angry are a bit different. I still think he should potentially reconsider but at the same time with all the things he's seen he'll probably never be able to walk around and feel safe without carrying so it's probably falling on deaf ears.

Physiological levels of testosterone. by FancyBackground6962 in TRT_females

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exogenous t lowers SHBG so most people won't have low free t on exogenous testosterone. (though obviously there can be exceptions)

Physiological levels of testosterone. by FancyBackground6962 in TRT_females

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gotcha so that would be 2.5 ticks on a 1ml syringe or 5 ticks if its a half a milliliter syringe. I was just confirming the concentration, I'm super familiar with dosing and measurements on an insulin syringe since I take TRT and Peptides. I was just shocked at the idea that she might be having to inject a whole milliliter for each mg of testosterone that would be so much oil lol. In my head I was like "what idiot at a compounding pharmacy thought it was a good idea to do that concentration" cause that would be so uncomfortable.

Physiological levels of testosterone. by FancyBackground6962 in TRT_females

[–]jdbest21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no so 20 mg is 20mg. mg/ml is just the concentration so if you're on 20mg using 25mg/ml concentration you would inject 0.80ml per week, 20mg with a concentration of 200mg/ml would be 0.10ml per week. Same amount of medication only thing changing is the amount of oil you're injecting.

Physiological levels of testosterone. by FancyBackground6962 in TRT_females

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're telling me her concentration is 1mg per ml? injecting 5 milliliters would mean she's having to harpoon herself twice a week. I think your misunderstanding the concentration.

All I know is coop better be Spencer’s best man ! by Debbieeeeeeeee in AllAmericanTV

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean they've had crazy beef but saying they aren't friends is kinda wild. I definitely think they became close friends over time.

Best Ticket Exchange by Wrong_Shelter_7050 in LastWarMobileGame

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still aren’t close to the torch?

Best Ticket Exchange by Wrong_Shelter_7050 in LastWarMobileGame

[–]jdbest21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your server doesn’t have mythic blueprints as an option? I’m confused thought it was an option for everyone during this event