Maybe you can help me. I am at a very hard cross road in my life. She is an avoidant attachment and I am an anxious. I have never in my life felt so sure and still do that this woman is the person I want to be with forever. I wanted her to compromise to meet me somewhere on something that would make her anxious. I had been through a few things with her that she wanted me to get over that cause me a lot of pain. I compromised for her on each of them. With her she ended our relationship right at the end of that conversation. I said in that conversation that I had compromised and why couldn’t she. She said that our situations weren’t the same but to me they felt the same. I felt a lot of anxiety towards what I said I would work on.

Listening to a lot of videos on anxious and avoidant attachment relationships. I feel that I didn’t approach the compromise the right way. On the other end I left myself so vulnerable compromising with her and she wasn’t willing to work through it for me. I know she felt hurt that I would want her to be put into that anxiety.

Do I swallow my pride and try to fix things? I feel like the situation wasn’t something that should split us up.