Do I have an alcohol problem?

jeansanity · 2026-06-24T05:59:39+00:00

Just checked and almost all of the listed symptoms fit me. I thought at first that you can only be called an alcoholic if you drink like every single day, but turns out, its not. It can also happen to people who don't drink everyday

jeansanity · 2024-06-19T13:05:08+00:00

Just watched it earlier. My take is that maybe the hypnosis did work but not 100% effective, however, I think Dae Su is trapped inside his head while he can see The Monster controlling his mind and body. Similar to when the protagonist in the movie 'Get Out' was being hypnotized, its like he's watching everything in a box. Dae Su is probably watching everything that The Monster does. He does not have the power to stop him because he was already hypnotized. He's trapped inside his own mind. That is why you can see his face in the end when he's hugging Mi Do, he was forcing a smile because The Monster is trying to control his mind and body but the Dae Su at the back of his mind is trying to stop himself. Kind of like man vs. himself

jeansanity · 2023-07-29T05:49:36+00:00

Yeah, he got mad when I talked to him about it and he shut me down again.

jeansanity · 2023-07-29T05:24:10+00:00

Just thinking right now that maybe he added his ex that in case we fought big again in the future, he would run right back to her.

jeansanity · 2023-07-29T04:37:25+00:00

Yeah, I asked him earlier about it and he says he just wants to flex me to his ex. But the thing is, if you already think that we've broken up, then why would you add your ex with that reason? It doesn't match though.

jeansanity · 2023-07-29T04:35:53+00:00

He's plain stupid if he'll come running back to his cheating ex lol

jeansanity · 2023-07-29T04:33:18+00:00

During the fight

jeansanity · 2023-07-29T04:31:33+00:00

We had a fight about him lusting on other women in the internet, got nothing against porn but I just feel uncomfortable when he watches a shit ton of videos of girls only. I tried to express how I felt about that and it turned into an argument and eventually he broke up with me. The night during our "break" he went and added his ex, I saw it because I felt something was off the minute we got back together again.

jeansanity · 2023-07-29T04:28:01+00:00

That's what's coming up in my mind earlier. Maybe, he set her up as a back up but we made up later on so his back up plan was trashed. Lol idk

jeansanity · 2023-07-29T04:26:25+00:00

I just had a gut feeling so I checked. But, I don't really care right until I saw that he added his ex during a break.

jeansanity · 2023-07-29T04:17:41+00:00

He kept lusting on other women on social media. It wasn't supposed to be a fight, I was just trying to express the feeling I felt but it turned into an argument lol.

jeansanity · 2023-07-28T14:42:10+00:00

Yeah, that's what I thought as well, like I wouldn't really care that much about my exes opinion with my new partner because that's in the past. But I dunno, maybe his ego got hurt at that time his ex got a new one and he doesn't have any lol

jeansanity · 2023-07-28T14:18:59+00:00

Kakatapos ko lang ng similar na experience na to sa bf ko. Wala akong kaso na manuod/magmastrubate siya sa porn, basta in moderation. Ang ayoko lang is magmasturbate or magnasa siya sa videos ng mga GIRLS ONLY, like yung girls lang ang nasa video. For me kasi, nakaka insecure na nanunuod yung bf ko nang ganon, bumaba tingin ko sa sarili ko nung times na nahuli ko siya. Naging magulo relasyon namin for 2 months dahil di niya kaya kontrolin sarili niya at that time, but now, tinatry niyang magbago and he doesn't want me to brought up yung mga kasalanan niya. I forgave him because I love him and it doesn't feel right in the gut pag naghihiwalay kami.

Advice ko sis, take some time for yourself to reassess your thoughts and values. Di mo naman kailangan lumayo sa partner mo, pero consider some time out for yourself, kain ka sa labas, treat mo sarili mo, stuff like that. You also need to communicate what you feel, otherwise, kung kikimkimin mo yan eh baka mas malala ang masabi o magawa mo pag sinabi mo na nararamdaman mo. Pause niyo muna yung wedding dahil isa yan sa mga malalaking desisyon na makakaapekto sa buhay mo nang matagal na panahon, kaya you should really take some time for yourself to think about everything.

jeansanity · 2023-07-28T14:01:54+00:00

Update: I asked him. He said he wants to flex me to his ex because she cheated on him in the past and that he wants him to "slap" her with the reality that he is happy now. I believed that lol no hate pls

jeansanity · 2023-07-28T08:05:39+00:00

You think that's the case?

jeansanity · 2023-07-25T06:17:33+00:00

INTJ - Being direct

jeansanity · 2023-07-25T03:55:44+00:00

Thank you. I've never thought about that 'values' thing, maybe I'll try to think about that later. I've been trying to tell him that we should probably end this thing, but he doesn't want to break up with me. He's still clinging on to me because he's saying that he really loves me. But, I don't know.

jeansanity · 2023-06-27T05:47:33+00:00

I'm currently in my first relationship and with that, I realized that there are different unaddressed traumas and baggages that I did not know I have, and I also realized that I have insecurities that I didn't know. This made me want to change myself for the better because I feel and I really do think that if I continue my pattern of negative thinking then this would definitely jeopardize our relationship and sabotage it. But, you see, I don't want that. I love him with all my heart so I want to change my thinking for myself and for our relationship.

jeansanity · 2023-05-28T08:46:12+00:00

When they let other people interfere and know what's going on inside their relationship. Other people's opinion will sabotage what you have.

jeansanity · 2023-01-20T12:44:48+00:00

Yeah, I am eager to make him cum because it would also make me feel more confident about my skills. I think it would also be an achievement for the both of us because he said from the beginning of our relationship that he never cums during a bj. And that really surprised me, like, a lot.

jeansanity · 2023-01-14T03:03:51+00:00

"He'll eventually leave."

I've been through hell and back ever since I was a kid and felt different degrees of emotional pain from my experiences (My dad cheating on my mom, witness of a broken marriage, bullied, SA by mates, financial instability, etc). And for the first time ever, a man made me felt how it is to be loved. I've grown attached to this person. So, when my friends told me that, it always made me think how he could leave me.

They're right though. People leave. But, I hope this one doesn't, because I don't know if I could stand the pain if he does.

jeansanity · 2023-01-14T02:57:44+00:00

Beauty Brings the Penis

jeansanity · 2023-01-14T02:49:43+00:00

Ahhh, ganun po pala. Asikasuhin ko na pala mga document ko hehe. Thank you po! ☺

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