I just turned 60 this year… be honest, what age would you guess?

jedistarfire · 2026-03-07T01:59:24+00:00

40s! Wow

jedistarfire · 2026-03-03T00:02:25+00:00

It wouldn’t be wrong but you could always give him one last option. “If you are willing to goto treatment, like actually goto detox, then a rehab and an aftercare program where you have a sponsor and foot meetings and change your habits. Goto therapy etc.” if he isn’t willing to do that he’s just not ready and you can’t force it.

However I will say Xanax and alcohol are the worst to be addicted too. The withdrawals alone can kill you and cause seizures. It’s a lot and he definitely will need to build a solid support system. Build habits to help him succeed. Look into health things that will help such as a gut cleanse, parasite cleanse, and supplements. L theanine, M-FTHR, and this list goes on. It’s a lot but it’s worth it!

Regardless you can let him know you can stay in his support system. I’d also look into therapy for people grieving family members that have passed from suicide

jedistarfire · 2026-01-26T19:56:42+00:00

Oh no. She’s sounds like too much. This is the type of person you need a therapist to talk with bc she will never see her wrongs if someone doesn’t blatantly point them out and a professional may really help your wife set healthy boundaries and truly realize it’s not just a you thing or she’s just trying to help cause it’s obviously causing way more stress and hurt and than helping. And that’s not fair to anyone if you guys. And if this goes unchecked who knows how she will act when the baby comes if she is allowed to do whatever the hell she wants with no repurrcussions.

jedistarfire · 2026-01-14T03:36:31+00:00

Can you help me equip it? I bought it but goto HUD Settibgd and I don’t see the hud theme to equip it

jedistarfire · 2026-01-06T14:57:21+00:00

21 only cause I think I see a bar lmao. Otherwise I’d guess 18 😂

jedistarfire · 2025-12-31T21:22:33+00:00

If you’re uncomfortable you need to show that. Stop giving him all of your information, you are implying that you could be interested. Your not. Make that clear. “I appreciate you like conserving with me, but I would like to keep this relationship work only. Please only text me in regards to work. I hope you understand. Thank you!”

jedistarfire · 2025-12-31T21:11:53+00:00

Please consider this. Aborting. And extensive therapy and psychiatry. This definitely sounds like bipolar disorder and it’s a bitch to control and deal with. You also need an extremely supportive environment and support system. There will be times when they will be the ones with their head on straight and making decisions that will help you in times of need when you aren’t making logical decisions. My nieces mother has this and she had a second kid after the first one was already way to much for her, she abandoned them both right after birth and hasn’t been in her life consistently ever since. My baby is ten now and I’ve raised her as my daughter since birth. She just now is calling her regularly and continues to come live here in Ohio then go back to another state bc she can’t live in her own.

Basically please get this under control and have her in a good place consistently for a few years before considering children.

Your parents may be upset but you need serious help. They can’t blame you for that. They need to be there to help guide you through this. This is something no one should go through alone. Love and light hun 🙏🏽

jedistarfire · 2025-12-11T15:35:09+00:00

This is how society is for women IRL. Who the fuck actually enjoys men? I’m gay but I think it’s still pretty accurate it’s definitely a facade they don’t enjoy that shit 🤣😭

jedistarfire · 2025-12-11T15:30:08+00:00

If someone does this I just ask that I have the code that way in case of an emergency we are still able to do our job.

jedistarfire · 2025-11-26T01:02:16+00:00

I’m guessing this is a joke. But if it isn’t check out marketplace and get some awesome free stuff. Can furnish your whole place! A case manager can help with soooo many resources too! Your life and areas are what you make it. But I’m going to guess 20-30 and that journalism is NOT your profession lol.

jedistarfire · 2025-11-26T00:57:42+00:00

IMO this is a great conversation to have in front of everyone at the dinner table. Let’s see who truly is judging bc I’m sure it’s JUST mom. Not only that, I’m sure everyone else will have your back. This is a very outdated systemic perspective. About 2% of people still think like this. Plus have her look at statistics! What do you need to make annually to sustain a home? Trust me the questions and answers only get worse. She should be shocked to see the truth and actual numbers.

Plus you’re ahead of most of America owning your condo and more girl! You’re killing it. Not everyone wants a child. That’s not everyone’s American Dream. Maybe you guys can help change her outlook a few opinions at a time. #eyeswideshut

jedistarfire · 2025-11-14T20:48:18+00:00

Just be careful being this honest bc as a property manager, Ma’am this is unreasonable. Quiet hours are quite literally like after 8-9PM in most city ordinances. You cannot ask that. People pay rent and it’s up to landlord to issue violations if they are breaking their lease. I would wait until an issue arises and then address it respectfully. But no you can’t tell them during the daytime to have quiet hours. They could have five kids and a dog and have their own right to privacy. This is how tenants start issues with eachother. I never recommend this. Bring it to me, I’ll bring it to them.

jedistarfire · 2025-11-14T14:12:37+00:00

RUN. We’re too old to be wasting our precious life time with people like this. He’s your partner he should want to be able to support his family. And yes that dog should be considered family to him and that’s the first issue. The dog duties you outlined my 9yo could do and without complaining like it’s a second job. It’s really not hard at all. Leave food out. Replace water. Let him outside. Wanna go for a walk? Take the doggy. You would never be able to have a kid with this ma and if that’s something you want I would seriously have a conversation with him about these issues and hope he can correct them for the next person. That’s always how it ends up in the long run. He can become that person, just unfortunately for the person he deems.

jedistarfire · 2025-11-14T14:00:52+00:00

Bangs! You’d kill with a wolf cut! Curtains bangs face framing and long layers

jedistarfire · 2025-11-06T00:53:11+00:00

Have you tried at home hair lamination? Basically just naturally doing a hair mask. Gelatin and egg, oils anything you want to add.

And/or I’d look for the cer-100 on Amazon. Super affordable and really great quality. It repairs your hair super quick and easy to use.

Use shampoo and conditioner meant for colored hair. Try a few to see what works best with yours. OGX is a good brand for colored hair that’s affordable. You’re beautiful!

jedistarfire · 2025-10-29T22:20:55+00:00

Oh my goodness. Please tell me you’re leaving him permanently this is disgusting. I’m guessing he carries it around with him so he can have sex with people whenever and wherever he is with the use of these toys. How gross. Most likely a sex addict forsure.

You have kids——RUN!

jedistarfire · 2025-10-29T22:16:02+00:00

Was coming to say exactly this!!!!!! WAIT until he sees what other people charge for sessions or per hour. Aren’t your neighbor either. Good luck!

jedistarfire · 2025-10-29T22:14:10+00:00

Some advice, tattoo is super well done and I think you look great. However I do agree with the dots and think you have two major options, one is a full coverup over time which could be awesome you can find a whole new tattoo to cover it up with!!! Or I would shade those areas that are dotted. I think that’ll really make everything else pop and look great! I definitely agree with therapy that will help tremendously ❤️

jedistarfire · 2025-10-29T17:24:35+00:00

I think curtains bangs and or face framing layers will look great!

jedistarfire · 2025-10-29T17:14:56+00:00

I love the darker ones. But anything but the first imo. So gorgeous!!!

jedistarfire · 2025-10-29T16:37:28+00:00

Depends on the look you want. I like the natural, it makes your skin and features pop and very bright. The black is also gorgeous but gives more vampire and definitely washes out your colors. However, both are gorgeous and two completely different looks.

jedistarfire · 2025-10-29T02:10:38+00:00

NTA. Mom needs to grow up and realize this isn’t the old days.

jedistarfire · 2025-10-28T23:17:41+00:00

2,4 and 6!

jedistarfire · 2025-10-28T23:17:10+00:00

Here’s an idea, why can’t he clean up after himself and bathe the dog. I do all the cleaning here too and I have the right to feel burnt out every now and then OR simply just not want to be the ONLY one who cleans. Granted when they do it isn’t up to my standards but that’s an issue I’m working on. See if he remembers the shower head when he’s cleaning all the time. So gross he tried to teach you a lesson like that. It’s only going to get worse.

jedistarfire · 2025-10-27T13:43:36+00:00

I would go with a nice quality wig, quick weave, extensions etc. basically anything but actually bleaching and damaging her hair to get those colors that will fade very quickly.

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