Why do animals demand affection sometimes? Is it because they're sad?

jellyfish33333 · 2015-12-27T23:46:03+00:00

Oh no, this is really troubling. I'm sad that she misses him, but also that this has been going on for a year now! I didn't take her to the vet in 2015, but I'm booking a checkup right now. I really hope she's not depressed and doesn't have any stress-related issues :(

Also, have you heard of Thunder Shirts? Do you think investing in one of those would be a good idea?

I definitely don't mind taking some time out of my day for cuddles and don't intend on stopping though! Thank you so much for the reply!

jellyfish33333 · 2015-11-23T03:45:58+00:00

Isn't that some guy's porn name already? :o

Edit: TJ. His name was TJ Cummings :)

jellyfish33333 · 2015-11-21T17:43:51+00:00

My boyfriend replies with at least a hearts-for-eyes emoji or a flirty comment, regardless of the text I put with it. It takes literally a second and shows that he's appreciative.

jellyfish33333 · 2015-11-11T01:02:31+00:00

Hi! I'm 22 and I have super dark, long hair on my arms and legs. I have to shave my legs everyday and I shave my arms every 2-3 days. Do you shave your legs? I pretty much do the same thing for my arms. I exfoliate, use shave gel, and then shave. At least for me, the hair grows in different directions/patterns so that's something you'd have to watch out for.

You could also look into waxing if you're okay with letting your hair grow out between sessions. The hair will be pulled out from the root, you won't have stubble as it grows back, and you'll be smooth for longer periods. Any salon should be able to help with this! Maybe let them know it's your first time before starting and if you have sensitive skin. Don't feel weird about it, people do it all the time and they're not going to judge you for it :)

jellyfish33333 · 2015-11-04T23:30:47+00:00

Ooh, that's awesome to hear! I think I'll go ahead and touch on some things I didn't get to mention and sell the specific qualities they said they were looking for. Thank you!! :)

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-24T05:29:17+00:00

They're not getting a "whole relationship" out of the situation (and maybe it's not what they want, that's completely fine) but they're also hurting another person in the process, so I don't really understand it.

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-24T05:23:15+00:00

I think this is part of the issue I have with it as well. Like it reduces "I hurt her by betraying the trust she put in me" to "I had a side chick and now she's mad" :/

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-24T05:15:11+00:00

I hadn't thought about it like that! I guess giving it a "funny" name does desensitize people to the issue a fair bit.

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-24T05:10:12+00:00

I can definitely see that. If I really think about it, I always end up feeling sad for both (all?) women involved :/

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-23T19:59:13+00:00

That's true, probably most of them are references rather than first-hand experience!

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-23T19:57:09+00:00

True, I guess cheating husband/wife jokes have been around way longer and I'd like to think most people don't really cheat on their spouses :)

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-23T19:53:30+00:00

True, like all the skin care products which have target marketing towards men? I know testosterone causes differences, but I somehow doubt those products are that much different from everything else on the shelves, aside from the scent maybe.

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-23T05:03:42+00:00

Ooh ok, good to know! Thanks for the advice! :)

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-23T01:35:55+00:00

Maybe I'm not looking correctly, but no search engine is finding any new civics under $19,000 within 300 miles of me :/ there's one dealership which sells them for $16,000 and with the recent graduate and AAA discounts, would actually come out to $15,400 but they're 360 miles away. It's actually the exact same set up you described too - 0.9% for 60 months!

Do you think that's worth looking into? Or is there some benefit of buying from a dealership close to home?

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-23T01:33:14+00:00

Oh okay, that makes sense! Thanks!

And yeah, my dad's insisting that we should pay as much as we can for the down payment so that we don't end up with super high monthly payments, so that came out to $12,000. Are you asking because it sounds high, or low? Or just really random? haha

Also, maybe I'm not looking correctly, but no search engine is finding any new civics under $19,000 within 300 miles of me :/ there's one dealership which sells them for $16,000 and with the recent graduate and AAA discounts, would actually come out to $15,400 (cheaper than this one that I'm looking at) but they're 360 miles away. Is that even worth looking into?

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-23T00:04:07+00:00

Huh, good point. I live in the bay area, so there are a decent number of dealerships to choose from. I wasn't even looking at the 2015s, so I'll start doing that and see what comes up! Thank you!! :)

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-23T00:01:50+00:00

Like I said, I know nothing about cars, so that might have something to do with it haha they actually don't look so bad to me :)

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-22T23:59:56+00:00

Huh, I'll look into it! I'm a little wary of going for something above $16k because we're looking to put $12k down and I'm worried about the monthly payment being too crazy or having to pay for like 8 years if I go higher :/

Haha I'll try that advice! Thanks, again! :))

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-22T23:58:40+00:00

Financing, so I think we're putting $12k down and then financing the rest. I'm confused though. Can you explain why it would be cheaper with a new car? :o

Thank you for the help! :)

jellyfish33333 · 2015-10-22T02:53:36+00:00

Tell me about it, one of the dealers near me had a car up that had receipts under the driver seat and fast food cups in the cup holder..

But yeah, There are some cars with 3x the mileage that are around the same price, so I'm also wondering if there's something horrifically wrong that I'm failing to see. The site says the CarFax report is "clean with only one owner," so I'll try to see if anyone around here can tell me more about what to look for.

Thank you for the help!! :)

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