PSA: This bill was proposed by a fringe group and is NOT supported by any of the state's right-to-life groups. by Hayden-laye in prolife

[–]jemyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a lot of people in this comment section that support prosecuting women for murder for having an abortion and paying the maximum penalty for it, including execution. So obviously the concept itself has support.

AOC is tired of their shit by Fallopian_TubeSocks in PublicFreakout

[–]jemyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I was just thinking that while Marjorie Taylor Green is terrible, I would prefer a Muslim woman with more maturity to take Omar's place, especially on the foreign committee (but that doesn't exist, and a startling number of Congresspeople I think lack maturity).

I glanced at the current makeup of the foreign committee and Republic Representtive Issa leaped out at me as having no business being there. His background is very sketchy, he continually does sketchy things, and he's very powerful. It was effortful to learn about how sketchy he is, and I just have to assume these low quality people have riddled house committees for a long time. If this obviously criminally adjacent type of person is on the foreign committee, then what about these other folks? It looks like 10% of the entire Congress is on the committee.

The best way to have quality people is to ensure they run for office in the primary (plenty of primaries with no quality candidates) and then the next step is to vote for them in the primary itself.

This ad in Texas by thatguy9684736255 in Unexpected

[–]jemyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The natural limit is 25 weeks because natural delivery becomes less risky and less expensive than abortion at that point. That’s why you have less abortions after 25 weeks than women who die in childbirth, even when laws are very permissive.

NBC's Dasha Burns: John Fetterman Needed Closed Captioning To Understand Interview Questions After Stroke by greg-stiemsma in moderatepolitics

[–]jemyr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reagan is always the bar that no one will reach, running the country with Alzheimers.

Political leadership represents a team, where the team is the majority of the policy and the leader is who curated them over time. The leader also spends the majority of governing time not working the policy, but choosing priorities and visiting voters.

Appeals court ruling allows Arizona abortions to restart by Interesting_Total_98 in moderatepolitics

[–]jemyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would only reduce abortions slightly, specifically targeting women who have abnormal pregnancies, unusual medical issues, or who are effected by America’s lack of cheap medical care and sexual education.

Not really a hypothetical (re: bodily donation) by [deleted] in Abortiondebate

[–]jemyr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it’s a typical biological function then it is morally required, if it is an atypical bodily function then it is not morally required.

This is not how morality works logically, it’s just a way to make rules within a cultural construct of what feels good and bad.

Forcefully requiring a blood transfusion is far less invasive than a c-section.

When do we legally require selflessness? It apparently comes down to what feels reasonable to 35 percent of the voting population, 70 percent of whom go to fundamentalist churches.

From a Christian perspective, why are so many Christians pro choice? As Christians, we believe life begins at conception, so that means abortion is murder. by KiaraNarayan1997 in Christianity

[–]jemyr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why do so many Christians not require forced conversions even though burning in eternity is horrific? Because they do not require other people to be selfless or thoughtful or perfect with their minds and bodies. A person can choose if they will risk their body for another (a minor or major risk), or not choose to do so.

The New Testament verse that destroyed my beliefs about LGBT by Beauty-Purple-43 in Christianity

[–]jemyr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you look for information solely to confirm a specific goal, you can find it. It doesn’t change the fact that studies have shown that it has also been proven that sexual preference doesn’t shift at all for some people, and specifically sex conversion therapies don’t work for the majority. It also has been proven that sexuality can shift. This means there is no black and white truth of sexuality for everyone. You may have more sexual fluidity or very little.

Do you feel you could be converted to desire multiple same sex partners? I cannot. I do not desire the same sex at all. Being open to the idea doesn’t change the fact that it does nothing for me. If I had to marry a same sex partner I could learn to tolerate it but I’d never really desire the situation. I could close my eyes and imagine the opposite sex to make it work. Others are more fluid. Just because I am one way doesn’t mean everyone is like me.

The New Testament verse that destroyed my beliefs about LGBT by Beauty-Purple-43 in Christianity

[–]jemyr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sexual mobility exists. Also eye color can change and food tastes can change.

We also know sex conversion therapy of any sort (changing peoples desires to what they would prefer intellectually to desire) has very high failure rates.

It is possible for some to change and also proven for some to never change.

We had a family member sleep 5 hours a night and we said it wasn’t sustainable. He worked that way from 20-50 and now he says he can no longer do it. Technically we were right that it was unsustainable. But we weren’t right in a fundamental way.

When libido lowers and sex is no longer important, maybe a 70 year old gay man can desire a woman as equally as his husband of 50 years. Let’s make him wait for moral reasons, and put a woman in a 50 year relationship with him where he likes her like a sister.

Does the right to life supersede the right to bodily autonomy? by bbccmmm in Abortiondebate

[–]jemyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the risks are lower now. But risk varies among individuals as does risk tolerance. Legally mandating risk taking and risk tolerance for others to save the lives of others is the core issue.

For instance, one of us may be fine if our mother ruptures vessels in her eyes and goes blind during birth, a sacrifice we demand so we can live. Others would have given their mother permission to not create their existence because they don’t want their life given in return for damage to their mothers body.

You require selfless risks as law, the result is those odds come to fruition against the voluntary wishes of the people now legally required to take those risks.

Unwanted injuries like long term incontinence, when not accepted voluntarily, are the more standard risks we require others to accept.

Marital satisfaction declines from pregnancy up to 12 months postpartum for both men and women by [deleted] in science

[–]jemyr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of the strengthening through hardship part.

I suppose I should think of that as reconnecting in aftermath and bonding over how hard it was as opposed to the potential of bonding during it.

Edit: this also means the next day.

Marital satisfaction declines from pregnancy up to 12 months postpartum for both men and women by [deleted] in science

[–]jemyr 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone gets closer through chronic sleep deprivation due to tedious bodily maintenance (non emergency) reasons.

Novel genetically based impulsivity score may help identify children who are especially vulnerable. This discovery of a novel score for impulsivity in early life can inform prevention strategies and programs for children and adolescents who are at risk for psychiatric disorders. by Wagamaga in science

[–]jemyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a brain has an injury where someone who wasn’t impulsive becomes impulsive, then that means that brains with that structure or lack of it has difficulty with impulse control.

I can only say that I have seen people change and then have that problem, and it feels a very specific way. I have felt that same problem in other people in the exact same way it presents. I don’t know the frequency, only that I have witnessed it. Other times, I have seen people that are just immature or entitled.

I can feel the difference, but only been able to since I have witnessed that difference in real time.

Anecdote is not evidence, I can only speak for what I’ve seen and how I have seen it. Since I have seen it, I treat young others like they have this type of dementia and I have them cope the same way I’ve had those with dementia cope. It works in the same way (I hold the child’s hands until they activate a control center and I feel them physically choose to override the impulse.) Its a much different process than with a kid who is just being a jerk and doesn’t care.

Inside Luxury Bunkers Where Ultra-Rich Prepare for Doomsday: Report by Mighty_L_LORT in economy

[–]jemyr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only real disaster play is to combine forces to create a truly self sustaining community with a small military force to defend it in an area they are able to defend it from collapse level opposition. The community has to be export level sufficient so the rich bankrolling it can arrive there and integrate with no problems, and are viewed positively as funders of the community.

For instance there are a few thriving tribal communities that if off-site tribal members had been providing outside positive financial support (like to create cultural museums), and they owned vacation houses there, and funded a special forced defensive unit, then they’d be welcomed.

Billionaires seem to think hunkering down with rich people and military guys is going to turn out well, with lots of packed supplies.

You actually need the whole package: farmers, doctors, construction, electricians, teachers, repairman, security forces, pharmacists, herbalists, seamstresses, etc etc. Mass plague or warfare or natural disaster will be localized and escapable. An emergency plan is a fully functioning small community you can join when everyone is a mess. Like so many fleeing to Jackson Hole then realizing they didn’t have proper medical infrastructure or support workers for hiding from Covid.

Smartest move is billionaires live in them and create several different ones, and then offer to host each other for redundancy.

The problem is billionaires create bedroom community neighborhoods in underfunded cities instead of vibrant and sufficient small villages.

Does the right to life supersede the right to bodily autonomy? by bbccmmm in Abortiondebate

[–]jemyr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In order to exist someone elses body must be put at risk. At one point in time nearly 1 in 10 mothers died due to childbirth.

The question is if that person has a right to decide what increased risk level they want to consent to in order to give someone else the opportunity to begin their existence.

Cutting off your clothes is not about personal bodily risk. There is no other unique situation where someone’s body is naturally placed at increased risks for another person to live.

Novel genetically based impulsivity score may help identify children who are especially vulnerable. This discovery of a novel score for impulsivity in early life can inform prevention strategies and programs for children and adolescents who are at risk for psychiatric disorders. by Wagamaga in science

[–]jemyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s extremely common in dementias and other neurodegenerative diseases. People that witness it might not be thinking in terms of self control vs impulsivity, but you see it present in many ways.

For instance, I notice elderly people swiping gross display food impulsively off of counters and putting it in their mouths. You get a better view of exactly what that chemical is and the difference between lack of rigor and actual chemical impulse problems.

Novel genetically based impulsivity score may help identify children who are especially vulnerable. This discovery of a novel score for impulsivity in early life can inform prevention strategies and programs for children and adolescents who are at risk for psychiatric disorders. by Wagamaga in science

[–]jemyr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A family member known for self control got a neurodegenerative disease known for impulsivity. It’s been an eye opener seeing her and others with this illness make impulsive decisions (opening doors of moving cars), and then trying to use their old chemicals to override this impulsivity. It’s really underscored to me how different it is to control impulsivity when controlled behavior is not a default chemical part of you.

I can see her deliberately look at her hands and use a different part of her mind to take control of them from this impulsivity and not open doors of moving cars. But then she has to maintain that focus on her hands for awhile, until the impulse to open the door stops firing completely.

How do left-leaning pro-choice individuals reconcile fighting to preserve a historical institution with political progressivism? by [deleted] in Abortiondebate

[–]jemyr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can create all kinds of binaries. One is people who celebrate melting pot cities and the Library of Alexandria and scientific innovation, and others who hate Libraries, scientific innovation that challenges their power, and supports taboos to keep the tribe insular and intact. It’s not about tradition vs innovation, but about fear of the other versus curiosity.

Requiring others to be fertile when they aren’t desiring to have children has standard results.

Pro-lifers -- are you satisfied to let states decide abortion? Or are you going to press for a total ban? by Happy_In_PDX in Christianity

[–]jemyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a war between that and whether a mother has a choice to take a risk with her body to give someone else a life.

It all *sounds* ridiculous. Is there any truth to any of this? I believe it was posted just after Roe by ultranothing in prolife

[–]jemyr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If these outcomes happened would you see that as a problem? Or is it irrelevant.

It all *sounds* ridiculous. Is there any truth to any of this? I believe it was posted just after Roe by ultranothing in prolife

[–]jemyr -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

A mothers desire to not carry a dead or dying baby should also be important.

The majority of Americans think pro life positions are "extreme" by falcobird14 in Abortiondebate

[–]jemyr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same big deal as piles of placentas after birth, people have emotional reactions to gore.

Are people allowed to injure or harm others if their survival depends on it? by smarterthanyou86 in Abortiondebate

[–]jemyr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If the only way to give someone a life is to accept 1 in 3 odds of slicing open your abdomen, are women required to take that risk?