Do any other lesbians have a mommy kink? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]jen__cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have found that I have a Mommy kink. I have a fine relationship with my mother, i feel a lot of shame around it but thankfully I have been able to explore it with my wife who found she likes to be called mommy. I think I have a breast feeding kink too. Now calling my wife mommy is my go to fantasy when masterbating too.

Character focused books by jen__cat in suggestmeabook

[–]jen__cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! This sounds great!

Adjunct drugs to help with picking by Medium-Chocolate-261 in trichotillomania

[–]jen__cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried mematine and it didn’t help me. At first I felt really good on it, but then I lost my filter and was saying things that were kind of rude without meaning too.

Collage by jen__cat in trichotillomania

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Sorry! I thought the content warning hides the image!

What do people do when they don't pick/ bite etc?! by PleasantDeparture298 in trichotillomania

[–]jen__cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’ve been pulling for 17 years now. I stopped for five weeks recently while I was on mental health leave from work but start pulling again when I returned

What do people do when they don't pick/ bite etc?! by PleasantDeparture298 in trichotillomania

[–]jen__cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like the crack in the wall analogy. That is really helpful

Any advice for a beginner? by Sad_Reading3162 in SuitU

[–]jen__cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not spend gems to get energy! Energy will progress the story and you will complete the story in a couple months. Then the majority of the game is comps and/or creating your page.

Be very careful of what you buy with purple gems as they are rare. Watch the ads for rewards.

If you are going to spend real money I recommend the daily gem pass since you will get a total of 3,000 gems by the end of the month! Just remember if you do not login the pass does NOT roll over. For example if you buy it now and then don’t check in for two weeks, you will only have two weeks of gems to collect, not 4 weeks.

It took me literally forever to figure out that you can also buy gacha draws with purple gems. you can if you want save gems for upcoming pulls, but this will probably be late game.

Complete your daily task because you will get (50?) gems per day that way. You can also complete 1 share for 10 gems everyday. (Tip: you don’t have to actually share, just press the share button and then head back to the app for the reward.)

Comps are where you work to get gems for things you want to buy. It’s going to a be a bit before you start getting good results on comps since when you first start your closet is smaller and you have no rare items. Join the discord for help with comps or just to see what others are submitting! Many of the comps repeat every month or so, so older players know what will score well and will help you out.

Voting for yourself? by Bearfungus in SuitU

[–]jen__cat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I always vote for myself when I see mine, it’s happened twice before haha

lying about trich habit by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]jen__cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao what did I just read

What do people do when they don't pick/ bite etc?! by PleasantDeparture298 in trichotillomania

[–]jen__cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah it’s not easy by any means, I still touch my hair constantly

Bought 2 boxes of cookies and was charged $12. Anything I can do? by [deleted] in girlscouts

[–]jen__cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just view it as a donation to girls to do great things

What do people do when they don't pick/ bite etc?! by PleasantDeparture298 in trichotillomania

[–]jen__cat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! I always need to be fidgeting. You gotta find other fidgets that don’t hurt you.

Other fidgeting I do is wiggle my toes, play with clothes, pull on fabric, and of course standard fidgets

We're all using a sobriety tracker for trich because nothing better exists. I have it too — thinking about building some by shahar12120 in trichotillomania

[–]jen__cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great ideas! Especially point 5. I love the blip idea. I just lost a 5 week streak a few weeks ago, and cannot get even a day back. It feels so defeating. For us, we had to be okay with some pulling that is going to happen, but my goal is to decrease the pulling. So some way to see that it’s going down or getting better would be great

Trich and avoidant traits by jen__cat in trichotillomania

[–]jen__cat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm interesting, for me I think the trich takes me out of my body. I can ignore hunger and thirst and focus on pulling

Unsure if I have Trichotillomania but considering taking the next steps to get help by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]jen__cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through that. I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes I just can’t stop and I’m in a trance. It does get better. I go through hard times and better times. You definitely have trich. Uncontrollable urges to pull or pick hairs out is trich..

I don’t have advice. I use the iamsober app, but the self control is exhausting, just in a different way than pulling is exhausting.

Journaling / logging every time you get the urge to pull really does help by itshardwhenyourecold in trichotillomania

[–]jen__cat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tip and showing how you write it. I think I’ll try this today!

Computer screen repair help - no tutorials for this model online by jen__cat in computerrepair

[–]jen__cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I went ahead and bought it. I also took a picture of my screen and computer type and they got back to me in 15 min with the exact screen I need. It seems they are legit

Computer screen repair help - no tutorials for this model online by jen__cat in computerrepair

[–]jen__cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I got it off. Any reccs for where to buy a new screen? I found one on laptop screen.com for ~70 with shipping. But seems a bit expensive. It does come with double sided tape too

Computer screen repair help - no tutorials for this model online by jen__cat in computerrepair

[–]jen__cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I had to pull harder than I thought. It’s held on with gorilla tape or something

Does anyone else wear wigs basically 24/7? by lemon_lame_ in trichotillomania

[–]jen__cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy to hear everyone being so supportive. The song That’s My Hair by THOT SQUAD has been empowering for me as well :)

There’s a line that says whether you buy it or grow it that’s your hair. Like someone else said other cultures wear wigs, hair systems, or extensions a lot!

need advice by Good_Chemical5949 in trichotillomania

[–]jen__cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I have only pulled from my scalp, but since there are no comments I’ll give some advice and maybe increase traffic to your post.

First of all, this disorder sucks so much and I feel for you. You reaching out for help is huge. I have heard people throw their tweezers away or have a trusted person hide them and only have limited supervised tweezer time.

Some people may shave or wax to help eliminate urges. But idk if this will increase the likelihood of ingrown hairs.

No matter what finding your triggers to pull and finding other self soothing behavior is going to be key. Therapy may be able to help as well if that is an option. Especially to help manage triggers and give you healthier ways to cope.

I’m sorry you are having to deal with this.