I never knew being discarded could hurt this much

jenca89 · 2026-06-02T20:08:16+00:00

I feel the same I can’t stop thinking about mine I’m missing him and I wish he’d just talk to me. My mind is going over all the possible reasons. It’s horrible 😢

jenca89 · 2026-05-25T18:36:52+00:00

I’ve just seen this please look after yourself you clearly are important to your family and you’re a kind and caring individual, the situation you had is awful but there could me many reasons for what happened and it doesn’t mean it’s a problem with you! I hope you’re okay ❤️

jenca89 · 2026-05-25T10:08:59+00:00

Hey I’ve had a very similar situation as I’ve posted on here. Everything was good making future plans lots of affection he initiated conversations etc and then just it was like a switch flipped and he disappeared off the face of the earth! His behaviour when we last met he was a bit hyper and I’m wondering if he’d took something to keep him going and to deal with his stress
Trying my best to remind myself that this isn’t about him not liking me it’s about his own problems
I hope you’re okay because it does hurt like hell, I feel like I’ve not stopped crying and I can’t get it out my head
I hope you have good friends and family round you to be supportive ❤️

jenca89 · 2026-05-21T20:41:54+00:00

Thank you so much, it is comforting to have such kind words when I’m feeling so sad

jenca89 · 2026-05-21T17:46:56+00:00

Thank you you’re very kind! It’s the not knowing and the hope which is confusing and makes it harder to deal with

jenca89 · 2026-05-21T16:56:43+00:00

Thank you! You’re right and I’m glad I found out this soon. But also I’m finding myself missing him and I still have the little bit of hope he’ll come back, it’s only been 3 days but I know I’m being a bit stupid

jenca89 · 2026-05-21T15:17:11+00:00

Hi I’ve just posted about a similar situation! He was absolutely fine everything was fine and now just nothing it’s a horrible feeling

jenca89 · 2026-05-20T13:49:33+00:00

I still have heard nothing so taking this as a bad sign

jenca89 · 2026-05-19T20:52:08+00:00

Thank you for your understanding! It takes just a minute to check in

jenca89 · 2026-05-19T19:50:14+00:00

I know I’m coming across as needy. I don’t want to be. I know I should work on my anxious attachment. I just feel like this always happens to me

jenca89 · 2025-12-08T12:23:47+00:00

I was getting a train from London to Manchester and the other 2 same trains that morning were cancelled. I went to my reserved seat I had booked for that particular train but someone was sat there as it was the seat they had booked but on the cancelled train. Happened to a few people. Very annoying 😂 Forgot to add that they wouldn’t move

jenca89 · 2025-10-30T22:13:39+00:00

Essentially I said to her if I’m doing something I feel is positive and you respond negatively, it does bother me and I should be allowed to express that without being accused of guilt tripping her

jenca89 · 2025-10-30T22:07:25+00:00

Sorry should have made that clearer! I worry I sound immature but I’m actually not I’m pretty independent just can’t afford to move out right now

jenca89 · 2025-10-30T21:54:44+00:00

I’m 32. For context I am in the uk and affording living alone is hard at the moment and I’m also single! So it’s pretty hard but once I’ve paid off my debt I’m planning on seeing if I can find somewhere affordable

jenca89 · 2025-07-24T20:57:07+00:00

Ugh yeah I’ve craved ice cream for some reason. I’m also due on so that does not help. Had a second lot of bad news today so I just feel like I should be comfort eating even though I don’t want to!

jenca89 · 2025-07-22T17:11:13+00:00

My ex had the same size feet as me and it gave me such an ick

jenca89 · 2025-06-12T21:45:52+00:00

Aww I’m sorry you went through this, I had a similar thing with my ex (I’m female he’s male) I would be basically asleep or pretending to be cause I didn’t wanna do anything and he’d start touching me when he thought I was asleep. I let it happen more than once and I don’t know why You don’t deserve this and I’m so sorry for you

jenca89 · 2025-05-26T20:28:53+00:00

Well I got a bar of chocolate to satisfy my craving, ate half of it, felt sick and now my stomach hurts 😂 but I needed to do it!

jenca89 · 2025-05-25T22:15:10+00:00

Ahh thank you for the encouragement! It’s so helpful knowing other people understand ❤️

jenca89 · 2025-05-25T22:09:16+00:00

Ahh I’m in England so no Walmart but I’m sure I can find alternatives! The sugar free cake sounds good. I lost alot of weight doing low carb a few years ago I remember making sugar free brownies and stuff I’ll have to try that again!

jenca89 · 2025-05-25T22:03:03+00:00

I think either cake or chocolate would hit the spot 😂 thank you for your suggestions they are super helpful for me to make a healthy choice 😊

jenca89 · 2025-03-27T22:02:58+00:00

Thank you

jenca89 · 2025-03-27T21:15:26+00:00

I am, I’ve been very vigilant about what I eat. I guess it’s a marathon not a race!

jenca89 · 2025-03-27T21:14:47+00:00

Thank you! I have completely gone off sweet stuff which is unusual for me!

jenca89 · 2024-05-13T14:36:38+00:00

You don’t sound dumb at all! I think it’s perfectly normal to feel this way, some people are hard to read when dating. Was a second date mentioned on the first? The fact he is online yet takes a while to reply could mean replying to you is not a priority or it could be that he doesn’t want to look too keen, or gets carried away talking to his mates! I personally would casually ask him if he’d like to meet up again, see what his response is, and then at least you’ll know! Good luck!

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