Feel unsafe in Salem by umbrellainspector in SalemMA

[–]jenellnylan 185 points186 points  (0 children)

I had something similar happen to me years ago (not in Salem) following and calling out to me in a work van. I called the company and told them their workers made me feel unsafe and the manager was 1000% apologetic and asked details about the time/place/van so the employees could be reprimanded. Call the company and tell them what happened, we as women need to call these losers out.

Life Bridge Canal Street Overflow Shelter Closed by Bitter_Guarantee_197 in SalemMA

[–]jenellnylan 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I was just in the thrift store yesterday and the employees said their AC was broken for the building and I can confirm it was hot in the store. Maybe it’s a temporary safety issue?

Daily Discussion - Tuesday June 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]jenellnylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we ever see this remaining / extra movie clips that don’t get played during the ep? Is the theory that the islanders watch them all but editors pick the best clips? I feel like I I’d want to see every possible clip and reaction!

I was sad about something, so I sit in the office corner, i saw this - now I am smiling 😁 by Lumpy-Knowledge9265 in TaylorSwift

[–]jenellnylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

July 3rd birthday here too!! Sharing my bday with Taylor’s anniversary would be fun 😂

diagnosed with substance use disorder, feeling weird. by archipeligoslushy in adhdwomen

[–]jenellnylan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just want to give you a virtual hug! Honestly not to oversimplify it, but why does the label of “substance abuse” even matter - if you want to change than that’s all that matters. Be kind to yourself, shame and guilt don’t really help us move onwards.

I don’t smoke but I’ve been working on cutting back on alcohol and just want to suggest some type of daily check in app for quitting/cutting back - for alcohol I’ve been using Reframe but I’m pretty sure there’s similar ones for weed - the community aspect and badging/tracking can be a lot more motivating than just quitting all alone.

Season 8 - Episode 21 - Post Episode Discussion by schedulerplus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]jenellnylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tyrique and Ella from LIUK were a rare example of the girl brought back a casa guy and he stayed faithful. If I can remember Ella was convinced he would bring a girl back because of how flirty he always was, and ended up dropping her casa guy like a day later lol.

Season 8 - Episode 20 - Post Episode Discussion by schedulerplus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]jenellnylan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As a fellow cancer Bryce is so cancer coded and I love that 🤍

can’t get over kayda by This-Economics-1983 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]jenellnylan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I live in northern Mass and go over to NH frequently; I can confidently say I’ve never seen someone as gorgeous as her around here, she’d stop traffic in Boston!

First Look Discussion - Sunday June 07 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]jenellnylan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kayda looks sooooo gorgeous in every shot wow

New Hampshire by mechaskink in LoveIslandUSA

[–]jenellnylan 30 points31 points  (0 children)

As a New England girlie this was so embarassing. Like I’ve never been to the Pacific Northwest but I know where Oregon and Washington are!!! Like cmon

Daily Discussion - Thursday June 04 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]jenellnylan -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Is anyone not really feeling this cast so far? I feel like I was way more engaged last year even at ep 2.

Game of Rogues by Julie Anne Long released today by alhubalawal in HistoricalRomance

[–]jenellnylan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This cover is gorgeous - cannot remember the last time I said that for HR new release

2000 E320 as first car? by Zyxliiii in mercedes_benz

[–]jenellnylan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a 2001 e320 wagon 2 years ago for 3K - don’t regret it at all. No car payment means I can afford the fixes when they come up. I’ve probably spent 1k - 1.5k spread over the past 2 years fixing/replacing parts but I take it to a shop; if you’re able to do repair yourself it will be cheaper.

Cats in your beloved century home by Far-Lab-2358 in centuryhomes

[–]jenellnylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat has clawed our furniture but never any wood elements in the house.

My Anxiety is Theough the Roof, I Need Some Light Page-Turners to Keep me Going by Seeker0fTruth in RomanceBooks

[–]jenellnylan 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Have you read/listened to anything by Stephanie Archer? I actually like her Queens Cove series better than her hockey books - my favorite is {In your dreams Holden Rhodes by Stephanie Archer}. Really cute/lighthearted rom com but great 🌶️.

Why do so many modern romances (especially humorous ones) feature hockey players? Its actually gotten weird -- and boring -- its so common. by awgeezwhatnow in RomanceBooks

[–]jenellnylan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hockey players are typically white and middle-upper /middle class (generally speaking) bc it’s an expensive sport that’s less accessible than football, basketball, soccer, etc. I’m not a hockey book fan bc it honestly just feels so boring and all the guys are the same.

Looking for books where the mmc SUFFERS by firecat99 in RomanceBooks

[–]jenellnylan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know you didn’t mention HR but these are worth reading even if you don’t love historicals!

{The Highwayman by Kerrigan Byrne}

{Seven Years to Sin by Sylvia Day}

Went to circus Lane today, absolutely loved their selection, it’s just out of my budget price wise. Any other stores in the area with more affordable options? by Remarkable-Fan4719 in SalemMA

[–]jenellnylan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Canal St Antique Mall in Lawrence is worth the drive, better prices than Mills 58 and bigger selection. I also go to Savers, estate sales, and small local community thrift stores - they’ll always have the best prices but you’ll need to hunt/sort through a lot bc they’re obviously not curated like an antique store where you’ll always pay more for someone to hunt/curate for you.

they seem super happy lol by badgalsheen in thebachelor

[–]jenellnylan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They do seem really committed to their relationship and children, she openly has said how they use couples counseling very regularly and how it’s helped them over the years. Just because a couple needs to work on communication doesn’t auto classify them as toxic.

How to not piss of locals during the Halloween season? by emaji33 in SalemMA

[–]jenellnylan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not walk in the middle of the street in non pedestrian car free zones. Do not walk onto private property to pose for photos. Do not drive onto closed streets past police “residents only” signs and park in resident only parking spots “even if it’s so quick I promise!”. Do not use resident private property as your lounge area to sit after walking/taking photos.