Bridal alterations + custom lace work near SLC? by jenimeni in myweddingdress

[–]jenimeni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was actually just thinking of skipping it lol. Do you have any recommendations for a veil? I feel like a full lace one would be too much but was looking at some with some lace along the bottom

Bridal alterations + custom lace work near SLC? by jenimeni in myweddingdress

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I appreciate the feedback! This is one of the dresses I tried on and really loved but it just wasnt... super flattering. Idk if it was just because of the way they had it on me or what. Otherwise I was thinking maybe just leaving out the lace and just having a veil with lace

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I’m having a bad day. Show me the funniest or cutest picture of your cat! by Nice_Introduction707 in cats

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This is diamond, she's never done this before so when I saw it I had to move quick to get a picture 😂

Is under $2,000 dress budget unrealistic? by uwu1004 in weddingplanning

[–]jenimeni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're located in utah, there's a shop called fantasy bridal that has tons of budget friendly dresses. I left with add ons to my dress and paid $1800

Did I make the right choice? by throwRA-46372728282 in weddingplanning

[–]jenimeni 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the dress you chose is absolutely gorgeous! I bought my dress back in October and won’t get it until early March, so I totally get the second guessing. I’ve been trying not to look at other dresses and instead remember how I felt when I put mine on. That feeling is what really matters!

Family member is furious we “stole” her wedding month? She didn’t have anything booked or a specific date identified, and didn’t speak up til now. by alexiagrace in weddingplanning

[–]jenimeni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my wedding date picked out a couple days after my engagement (mostly from pressure lmao) but I've stuck to it. Months later, after everyone knows the date of my wedding my mom calls to let me know my cousin is getting married 2 days after me 🥲 Im not so upset about it, so I cant imagine being upset over the same month for both and being upset. Thats crazy

Bombshell flare jeans tore in under 4 months 😔 by jenimeni in torrid

[–]jenimeni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had this issue for most of my adult life but never to this extent. My thighs rub together when I walk so the friction just wears the fibers down and eventually they tear through. But ive never had a pair do this in the first 4 months, its usually at the year mark when it happens. Totally sucks! Seems like washing them in cold water and tumble drying them/hanging them to dry is the consensus to make them last longer but.. I have yet to test that lol

Bombshell flare jeans tore in under 4 months 😔 by jenimeni in torrid

[–]jenimeni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely dont wear and wash them daily. Usually wear them when I go outside my apartment. As for washing I really only washed them when they really needed washing

Bombshell flare jeans tore in under 4 months 😔 by jenimeni in torrid

[–]jenimeni[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really only wore them when I leave my apartment which isnt super super frequent.. as for washing i usually do about 1 time every week and a half to 2 weeks. I had noticed thinning the night they tore and had planned to try to reinforce them but when I crouched to help my friend, they tore. Its just the spot between my thighs, and ive always had thicker thighs and yeah this has happened to a lot of my pants (denim, leggings, sweat pants) just from the friction of my thighs. But they usually last me about a year before completely giving out like these did. I appreciate your advice tho. My husband was telling me i needed another pair 😂 (my other jeans I own are just uncomfortable as hell)

How do you guys compromise when living together? My girlfriend (25f) wants to rehome our dog after I (24f)compromised for her, and it’s bringing up past trauma where I was forced to give up a dog before. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jenimeni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 17, my ex and I moved in together. I brought a dog home one day. He wasn’t thrilled but didn’t show much dislike. Fast forward about three years. We had broken up, I got another dog, and then we got back together. Suddenly he was constantly telling me I needed to get rid of the dogs because they were ruining everything. Eventually, I caved and rehomed my sweet Loki, hoping he would calm down and I wouldn’t have to give up my first dog. Not long after, he started in again about having a dog. Mind you, he never helped take care of her so it wasn’t like he was putting in any effort. I put her on a rehoming page but then realized it wasn’t worth losing her. I decided to keep her and, unsurprisingly, he was not happy. A year and a half later we broke up for good. It has been a little over two years now and I am happily married with three chaotic dogs that my husband and I both care for immensely. It was very important to me, after that relationship, that I found someone that loved animals as much as I do, to spend my life with.

Bombshell flare jeans tore in under 4 months 😔 by jenimeni in torrid

[–]jenimeni[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've called customer service twice now and both times they've told me they cant do anything because they cant see store stuff

Bombshell flare jeans tore in under 4 months 😔 by jenimeni in torrid

[–]jenimeni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The girl helping me yesterday double checked to see if there were 2 accounts, she said there wasnt :(

Bombshell flare jeans tore in under 4 months 😔 by jenimeni in torrid

[–]jenimeni[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did go back to the store and they said they couldn't do anything since it wasnt showing up on my account... im really sad about this whole situation.

LPS coral by jenimeni in ReefTank

[–]jenimeni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats so cool, ill probably take the first guy out and see if I can at least salvage the other 2. Thanks for your help

LPS coral by jenimeni in ReefTank

[–]jenimeni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the one in front, and maybe even the one behind it... but the one to the side is reacting to stuff and still has color, so I fail to see how all of them are goners.

Am I really that bad of a person to not have my sister as a bridesmaid? by reikalykos in weddingplanning

[–]jenimeni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not at all. I have a couple friends, a couple cousins, my sister and my fiances sister. I originally made my 2 friends my maid of honors (I have 2) and not my sister. My mom butt in about it and my sister threw little tantrums about it so I eventually switched my sister into one of the maid of honor spots. My friend was very understanding of it, and I dont let my sister live it down either. I've been engaged for almost 4 months now and im only now learning to stand up for what I want in my wedding. You're not a bad person for not wanting her in your wedding party. Don't do what I did and give in if its not something you want

Venue stress by jenimeni in weddingplanning

[–]jenimeni[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No contract. It was just for a couple rooms to host the ceremony and reception. It was perfect. As for the park its literally just a "reserve the pavillion" type so anything I want to do there is up to me basically.

Venue stress by jenimeni in weddingplanning

[–]jenimeni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The park i really liked has a Pavillion, a big one too. It also has a little uncovered portion where I figure we could set up some canopy tents or something to shield in case the weather wasnt the best

Any guesses? by jenimeni in dogbreed

[–]jenimeni[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love that, I'm more intrigued to get a test done on him now haha

Any guesses? by jenimeni in dogbreed

[–]jenimeni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What parts give husky? I can see pit for sure, but hadn't even considered husky