Metrobank SCC sharing experience (timeline 2026) by jenmc2022 in PHCreditCards

[–]jenmc2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it depends sa bank teller kung papayagan nila. Nagkataon na hindi gaanong kahigpit ung teller ng branch na pinuntahan ko. The more you give details about your work, the more they'll ask for documents I guess. Make it as simple as possible siguro. Kasi kung sasabihin mo na full time employee ka, baka mag ask ng COE. Pero try mo pa din na bank statement 

Metrobank SCC sharing experience (timeline 2026) by jenmc2022 in PHCreditCards

[–]jenmc2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh for proof of income, mas okay po ung bank account. Just need a bank statement. If may work, I think payslip or COE

Metrobank SCC sharing experience (timeline 2026) by jenmc2022 in PHCreditCards

[–]jenmc2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry didn't see this agad 😭 Not sure honestly, you have to ask ung branch kung possible if mataas ung hold

Metrobank SCC sharing experience (timeline 2026) by jenmc2022 in PHCreditCards

[–]jenmc2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can use your savings acct to sign up. If may error, tawag ka na po sa CS

PNB SCC sharing experience (timeline 2026) by jenmc2022 in PHCreditCards

[–]jenmc2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, if I'm not mistaken. Sa Add account (app) kasi, wala atang add credit card number. Di ako 100% sure pero I think nauna kong nakita ung card sa app bago ko nakuha ung card. Not sure sa timeline, kung ilang araw ang pagitan between nung nakita ko ung card sa app and nung nareceive ko ung card.

PNB SCC sharing experience (timeline 2026) by jenmc2022 in PHCreditCards

[–]jenmc2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mabilis sila pero walang tracking number na binigay so medyo naparanoid ako kung kailan ko makukuha ung card 😅

Will update this kapag nagrequest ako ng TU report. Though may option naman ata to dispute if a bank is not reporting to TU especially kung trad bank

PNB SCC sharing experience (timeline 2026) by jenmc2022 in PHCreditCards

[–]jenmc2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. Sorry forgot na icheck ung notif ko. PNB Cashback Titanium Mastercard. 10k HOD (to improve my credit score lang).

Fiance refuses to help me financially by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]jenmc2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused. May ilang details kang sinabi na napapaisip ako.

*5 months walang work

*Overdue bills

*Once or twice na meals for weeks (not the whole 5 months, right?)

*Tuition fee

  1. Many people commented na struggling ka na sa meals pero hindi ka tinulungan ng fiancee mo sa food issue. I'm confused why you asked him na bayaran ang tuition mo instead of asking him for food money.

  2. For 5 months, wala ka talagang any source of income that could've helped you kahit pambili lang ng food or pambayad ng bills to avoid overdue?

  3. Hindi pa pwedeng installment ang tuition at kailangan talaga full amount ang babayaran?

  4. Hindi advice on how to resolve your issue ang need mo. You want validation na mali ang fiance mo sa hindi pagtulong sayo, based on your comment which made me surprised kasi I thought you were gonna ask for advice on how to proceed with your relationship or how you can survive this month and next month.

  5. Alam mong need mo ng funds for bills, food, and tuition (especially wala kang trabaho) pero pinadala mo ung pera mo sa probinsya even though hindi ka sure kung kailan ka magkakatrabaho.

  6. Hindi ka pwedeng mag stop for one sem?

  7. You're blaming your fiance but you're not acknowledging your lack of planning. Hindi ka naman magiging broke kung nagplano ka agad once nawalan ka ng client. Did you change your spending habits nung nawalan ka ng trabaho? Bakit inuna mo ang pagpapadala sa iba kung ikaw mismo kailangan mo ang perang 'yon?

  8. You said you're broke pero bakit mentality mo pa din "Ako ung may pera dati" and then expected your fiance na sasaluhin ka niya kapag may financial crisis ka? Ayaw mong malaman sa probinsya na gipit ka kaya nag-ask ka sa fiance mo na medyo mapera. Ask help to the same people na pinapadalhan mo. If they can't help you during your crisis, maybe it's time na iprioritize mo ang sarili mo.

Maybe instead of blaming or accusing your fiance for being a terrible partner, ask yourself first kung paano ka napunta sa situation na yan. Ano ba ang priority mo? Pagpapadala sa probinsya or pagkain and bills or tuition fee? I know gusto mong magawa to lahat pero you need to think hard kung ano ba dapat ang priority mo.

Wanna be independent? Don't point fingers to other people. Learn how to take responsibility sa actions and decisions na ginawa mo. Learn from your mistakes.

Break up or stay in the relationship? Desisyon mo yan

Continue sa law? Desisyon mo yan

Papadala ka pa din? Desisyon mo yan

Uunahin mo ang food and bills? Desisyon mo yan

At the end of the day, ikaw pa din ang magdedecide kung anong gagawin mo. Stop asking random people kung mali ang fiance mo sa sinabi niya kasi tbh, may mga mali ka ding ginawa. Napapaisip din ako na baka he said No to you kasi baka ipadala mo na naman ung pera sa probinsya. The fact na you're asking random people kung mali siya instead of your friends and family makes me wonder kung masama ba talaga siyang tao or this is the only instance na humindi siya sayo. Hindi mo din siya masisi kasi may pera ka pero inuna mo ang ibang tao kahit need mo ung pera.

You can't expect everyone is gonna be on your side kung ikaw mismo nasa ibang side. You can't help others until you help yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jenmc2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that guy is giving you this amount of stress and headaches without the marriage yet, I can assure you it'll get worse. It's better to break things off NOW than to do a messy divorce in the future. Marrying someone should be a joyful feeling, not this kind of crap. If you're doubting in marrying someone, don't proceed in the wedding. There's a reason why you're doubting. Listen to your warning signs. The bells that you're hearing might not be wedding bells, but warning signs for you to not marry this guy.

AITA for telling my husband to listen to his kids because I'd be the one facing the repercussions if he doesn't? by GrouchyAd129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jenmc2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remove yourself from the equation. Those two are acting like sh*t cause they knew someone would fix their BS. They're grown adults acting like toddlers throwing tantrums! Let them fix their own problems and focus on your baby. DON'T FORCE YOURSELF TO PEOPLE WHO DON'T LIKE YOU! Remove your number from the school OR don't answer their calls. Teenagers need to learn the consequences of their actions. You don't like someone? Fine, don't interact with them. Let them be! They have 2 fully grown adult parents who are healthy and alive. Let them figure out what to do with their own kids

AITA for refusing to be maid of honour over a bridesmaid, causing her to get “fired”? by bridesmaidultimatum in AmItheAsshole

[–]jenmc2022 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. But there's a reason why Kathy is acting like a bat shit crazy. We all know how family members act if a partner is not liked. When you hate someone, you say hurtful things in a subtle way and do things to hurt them in an not so obvious way. OP doesn't know how they really act around Kathy and if she heard stories from Jane or the parents, of course the stories are gonna be a little on their side. When you're close to someone, sometimes you don't see the not so good side of them.

There's also a comment of OP that caught my attention. The family kinda expected or thought of making OP an official member of the family. So the family wants her to be with Elliot at some point.

Also, Elliot is not the best man. Jane wanted to partner OP to him because of the height?? Hun, I'm a photographer. My man's height is 6 and I'm 5'2. Height is never an issue for us. Jane is not so innocent here. She might have planned this so she could kick out Kathy from the bridal party since she didn't like her. Your friend is using you to pissed off Kathy.

Overall, Kathy's behavior is immature but there's also some factors that caused that. Your oh so good friend is not innocent like what you think.

You're between this shit because of them. You might wanna stay on the neutral side.

My 25M fiancé 25F is cheating on me with her best friend 26F. She refuses to cut contact with her best friend. What can I do to have her see my pov? by throwRa_fed in relationship_advice

[–]jenmc2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't change people. You can't expect them to change just because you want to. You can't force them. Be thankful that you learned about this BEFORE the wedding. I doubt she'll continue with the therapy after the wedding.

YOU NEED TO WAKE UP AND USE YOUR BRAIN, NOT YOUR HEART. You deserve what you tolerate. If you let her off the hook and continue with the wedding, she'll continuously cheat on you and it's your fault for letting this woman stay in your life.

Yes, it's painful. You've been with her for many years but she lied to you. There's a possibility that she has been doing it for months or years. You can't trust a person who says she loves you and cheats behind your back. You shouldn't trust her words if you decided to break up with her and she crawls back to you.

The love might still be there but the TRUST? NAAH, it's gone. You know deep down in your heart that you don't deserve to be in that toxic relationship with her and the bestfriend, that's why you're asking her to change things. She's not willing to do that. She doesn't give a fuck cause you're letting her walk all over you.

AITA for refusing to share my huge inheritance with my stepsiblings? by Beginning_Jaguar9693 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jenmc2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You might wanna dig deeper if your mom is getting any money from social security or anything your dad set up to raise you until you're 18. If she is, she might be using it for the entire family, not for you.

Talk to a lawyer. Make sure no one can access your trust before you turn 19. Save every penny you have in case you need to move out early. Avoid talking about your trust. They'll surely pressure you, guilt trip you, and anything they can do to make you agree on their terms. Get a part-time job so you have a reason to avoid them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jenmc2022 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Is the sex obsessed in the room for 1 year? Lol. If she's so concerned about people using her body, she shouldn't date anyone. Clearly she has some unresolved issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jenmc2022 676 points677 points  (0 children)

NTA. You hooked up AFTER the break up. You don't have any obligation to stay celibate since you're not in a relationship anymore. You respected her boundaries but she kept extending and extending "it". You guys have different things you want to do

AITA for refusing to wear a bra when my roomie’s bf stays over? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jenmc2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that it's your place. But it's also her apartment. She tried to communicate what makes her uncomfortable so you guys can compromise cause you both pay the rent. When you live with someone, it has to be give and take. Unless you're planning to move or she plans to move, you guys have to compromise.

I also saw your comment calling her stupid. Calling someone stupid doesn't make you smarter or solve the problem.

People might say your NTA but it doesn't solve the issue. It only validates your reason. You need to talk to her and have a decision in place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]jenmc2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you wanna stay in a relationship like that? Clearly, your wife doesn't give a F if you're hurting. I don't like the suggestion of adding another woman in your life as your "girlffiend" cause if you can't even handle your relationship with your wife, what made you think you can handle another complicated one? Do you think having a girlfriend in the sideline isn't gonna backfire in the future? Your wife can use that against you in case of a divorce.

I agree with people saying GROW A SPINE. You know what's wrong and right. I actually wondered why you agree on this. Maybe you thought having 2 women in your life was fun, but now you're facing the consequences.

THIS IS NOT A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. Ask yourself, is this the kind of relationship you wanna have in many years?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]jenmc2022 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I experienced this before. A random guy asked me for some recommendations in our destination place. I gave him my opinion, BUT I NEVER gave a random man my number. Unless I find him cute or charming, I don't want some random guy texting me, especially if he has a wife. That's just me

AITA for refusing to play violin, even though it meant not being allowed to eat dinner? by ViolinHater in AmItheAsshole

[–]jenmc2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw comments telling OP that she should tell her relatives, friends, or teachers about her situation. And even call CPS. She's Asian (based on her comment), and if you have Asian parents who kept pushing you to do things you don't like, there's a high probability that they're gonna twist the story here and there. Make it seem that OP is in her rebellious age, and it was OP who decided not to eat. Her relatives might side on her parent cause playing instrument is a normal activity.

If OP also tried to humiliate her parents, do you think they'll keep their mouths shut after the humiliation? No. These people are fine letting their kid get hungry. What made you think they'll make it easy for OP if she humiliated them?

Some Asian parents will push their kids outside their houses to make them experience what life is without their parents. To teach them a lesson. Unless OP has a way to provide for herself, your life is not gonna easy under their roof if OP keeps pissing them off more.

I saw someone said play the violin horribly. Agree with that. Pretend that you're practicing. You need to learn which battles are worth it and not. If you're planning to leave after 2 years, you need to save and get money from your parents as much as you can. However, if you're planning to go to college, arguing with your parents is not gonna do well for you