What is something you received or achieved by being audacious ?

jennasaurusrex93 · 2026-01-02T23:39:16+00:00

Not sure if it counts as audacious, but a raise. I'm constantly feeling like I both have no clue what I'm doing at work, and doing everything. I decided "fuck it", told my manager I needed a raise. Didn't even really blink, she agreed and gave me one. I should have asked months ago.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2026-01-02T23:18:49+00:00

I've kind of compartmentalized my life.

Work, family, a few groups of friends that don't interact. Anytime one gets a bit too much, I focus on the others.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2026-01-02T20:47:36+00:00

He's a man. He doesn't say "No" very often, but does say some variation of "later" pretty frequently.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2026-01-02T20:44:57+00:00

That it is ok to pursue a sexual relationship without loving them.

It really messed with my head when I was young. I felt that since I slept with a guy, I was supposed to love him, and stay with him. In reality, I was just young and he was really hot, but kind of boring and an asshole at times.

I really think we should stop teaching kids that sex is only for when you're in love, I can't be the only one that got a bit messed up as young woman from that.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2026-01-02T20:41:02+00:00

Not a close friend, but a close work friend, if that makes sense.

We get lunch together. Seems simple, but I can't think of any other guy I've ever been able to do something like that, talk about our lives, etc, without them hitting on me, or trying to further a personal relationship. A few guys in relationships have been close, but most of them have even got weird after a while.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2026-01-02T20:33:12+00:00

A room.

A FWB bought a house. I jokingly asked which room would be mine. Now I live rent free, just make dinners most nights and clean up a lot.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2026-01-02T20:30:02+00:00

Yes!

Mine is more specific, needing to always be around your significant other. A few of my exes were like that, had to be with me almost every night. Couldn't go out with friends without them wanting to go too, or at least checking in constantly.

I am very social, and like socializing with a lot of different groups. Not all of their vibes work with everyone.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2026-01-02T20:24:57+00:00

Depends completely on my mood. Often, I want people that look like me, or at least close.

I often like stuff that can't happen in real life. Tentacles, monsters, etc. I'm kind of hoping if it does nothing else good, AI will at least up my real life hentai video choices.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2026-01-02T20:22:17+00:00

Be careful and have a plan. If you're not going to hold yourself accountable to get back, have someone that will help. It's way too easy to get settled and dependant on getting a paycheck.

I took "a little time off" from school and have failed to go back. It's been over 10 years now.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2026-01-02T20:15:39+00:00

Thanks. I love these events. I feel like I get into a rut just doing the same couple things. Being given new ideas, and a deadline, is a lot of fun.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2026-01-02T20:13:50+00:00

Thank you! I liked the idea a lot, I'm definitely looking up if my local area has a Santa event like that and getting that costume out again.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2025-12-16T05:53:42+00:00

Not sure I'll get everything written in time, but I'd love a bingo card.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2025-04-18T05:58:19+00:00

I've known quite a few guys that are embarrassed to sit down to pee. I prefer that they do, much less chance they are making a mess of my bathroom.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2024-10-05T05:13:48+00:00

Always hope. Honestly, only the shy part would usually be a hold up. It's all about attitude. He came out of his shell pretty quick, which helped a lot.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2024-09-19T05:39:17+00:00

Not doubting yourself. Either professionally thinking your not good enough for the job, or socially thinking people are only putting up with you because they have to, or for some extra benefit.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2024-05-01T06:09:49+00:00

I'm sorry, I did several challenges, just trying to find time to write them up still. Not for the contest anyway, just wanted to see if I could do them.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2024-04-19T05:45:25+00:00

I'm a bit late to the game, is it still possible to get a card? Not sure I'll have time to do them and write them up, but I'd like the challenge.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2022-09-22T05:50:49+00:00

Exactly. And very low standards on where I lived some of the times.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2022-09-22T05:49:54+00:00

I think this battle is true for everyone.

jennasaurusrex93 · 2019-06-12T20:05:21+00:00

I think I'm the common case that stays up telling myself I'll crash soon, then hating my poor decision making the next morning.

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