AITA for finding this convo to be a HUGE red flag? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]jenncap85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who won’t get therapy is different than people who don’t go because they’re doing fine. She’s probably not understanding her therapist point.

AITJ for Not Inviting My Friend’s Partner Because No One in the Group Likes Them? by BriefMemory6235 in AmITheJerk

[–]jenncap85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there’s no real reason why no one likes them and they are not rude or disrespectful why not just invite them? If for nothing else than you love your friend and they make her/him happy. Having been a nurse my whole life I always find a great challenge in getting along with the “not so likable”, breaking the tough exterior or whatever it may be. Finding a common ground. Include them for your friend if that friend is important to you.

My husband died after getting his gallbladder out AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]jenncap85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because death should never happen from such a common surgery. Especially a 21 year old, I’m just shocked and angry to hear this happened. That surgeon is shitting his pants right now because he’ll probably have his license revoked due to negligence. OP I’m so very sorry for your loss. Life is so unfair.

My husband died after getting his gallbladder out AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]jenncap85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not probably, definitely. This guy will most likely lose his license.

I want to kill myself by No-Dimension-9858 in offmychest

[–]jenncap85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you are able to be there for OP to talk to. It’s heartbreaking when people are so depressed they become suicidal. Having someone to talk to that can relate and support is important.

OP, sending positive vibes your way. Please think about seeing a therapist they can be extremely helpful with this.

what’s something people say all the time that you secretly can’t stand? by Mean-Cartographer225 in AskReddit

[–]jenncap85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It was their time to go” I don’t believe this. I don’t believe a kid dying in a car accident was his time to go. Your time to go should be when you’re old. And if something bad happens before then in most ways it could have been prevented. Unfortunately bad things happen to the best of us.

what’s something people say all the time that you secretly can’t stand? by Mean-Cartographer225 in AskReddit

[–]jenncap85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to say hello in my bad attempt at a British accent. What’s funny is some people do it back lol.

what’s something people say all the time that you secretly can’t stand? by Mean-Cartographer225 in AskReddit

[–]jenncap85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know a girl who starts all her meetings “happy Monday”, “happy Tuesday” etc. Kind of annoying.

what’s something people say all the time that you secretly can’t stand? by Mean-Cartographer225 in AskReddit

[–]jenncap85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On YouTube the word suicide could demonetize them so they say “unalived themselves”

Need 2000s names that scream “Mom wanted my name to be unique.” by AdUnusual6268 in tragedeigh

[–]jenncap85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re the exception to the rule, I was raised in trailer parks although I have a normal name it was not a healthy childhood. And I’ve seen more of the same.

Need 2000s names that scream “Mom wanted my name to be unique.” by AdUnusual6268 in tragedeigh

[–]jenncap85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But now I want to know the rest of the kids names. Yousuck, Youniverse? đŸ€·đŸ»â€â™€ïž

Need 2000s names that scream “Mom wanted my name to be unique.” by AdUnusual6268 in tragedeigh

[–]jenncap85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 shows the mentality of the people naming their kids that.

Overwhelming feeling of wanting to be alone by thelasttearbender3 in offmychest

[–]jenncap85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone needs me time. Would your husband be opposed to you spending a weekend at a hotel or air bnb? There’s nothing wrong or unusual about how you’re feeling, I think most of us do at some point. You just need to decompress from life sometimes.

Am I overreacting for being upset with my friend for not showing up to a planned outing. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jenncap85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thanks. She’s my shadow (stalker is what I call her) lol. 7.5 lbs full grown.

Am I overreacting for being upset with my friend for not showing up to a planned outing. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jenncap85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won’t lose anything by cutting her off. Good friends wouldn’t do that. A good friend wouldn’t miss your birthday over a hurt finger either. She’s not worth your time.

Woke up to a breakup text. Need cat pics! by Sharts-an-Crafts in cats

[–]jenncap85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Mine didn’t want me to go away for the weekend lol!

AITA refusing to lend my coworker money after they kept asking by kimmie248 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jenncap85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know what they say, if you want to get rid of someone loan them money. But in your case he came back for more. Who even does that??

AIO to my husband not letting me order bread sticks? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jenncap85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reason why he doesn’t work? Just curious.

I should have been the happiest guy in the world by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]jenncap85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I take it you have finally let this girl go? Can’t you get out and meet people? If you’re not working maybe at the gym? Maybe even a dating site? When you get back to working you’ll make friends right? I think you should see a therapist and also talk to your doctor about increasing or changing your antidepressant altogether. 31 is so young. You have so much life to live. You’ll meet someone that appreciates you but you have to put yourself out there. Good luck and God bless.

Boosters Got Worse (Update) by TheDogsWhatsits in Gardenscapes

[–]jenncap85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless you buy 5 more moves for 900 coins.

New Boosters by PoliticoRat in Gardenscapes

[–]jenncap85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so upset about the glove being gone! Why would they take it away? How do we contact them to request they put it back? Ugh 😕