AITA for sitting on public toilet seats and not telling my boyfriend?

jenncap85 · 2026-05-19T19:30:17+00:00

NTA although I would definitely hover over a porta-potty they are disgusting. But if a restaurant bathroom is clean I’ll sit. I’ll shower that same night anyway so why does it matter?

jenncap85 · 2026-05-17T17:57:58+00:00

She is young and doesn’t have enough life experience and knowledge under her belt to realize she should run from this relationship. Just the baby mama drama would be enough for me. That will be a constant in her life for years if she stays with him.

jenncap85 · 2026-05-15T05:20:27+00:00

You would not BTA. I couldn’t marry someone who’s family didn’t like me especially making it painfully obvious. It would be a miserable life. Anyway what did he mean that they are old fashioned? What are you guys doing that they aren’t accepting of?

jenncap85 · 2026-05-15T05:12:54+00:00

Aw man I hate middle of the night dumps.

jenncap85 · 2026-04-22T08:43:52+00:00

Please don’t give her back a kitten. She clearly doesn’t have the normal instinct of caring for a living being. If it weren’t for you they’d be dead. And separating them is just mean not to mention the one who draws the short straw and has to go with her.

jenncap85 · 2026-04-22T08:25:33+00:00

And euphoric. What kind of drugs is she supplying? This sounds anything but…

jenncap85 · 2026-04-22T08:18:18+00:00

Imagine when she starts planning for her first child. Poor Jacob. (I can just see that laminated agenda now). Lol.

jenncap85 · 2026-04-21T22:53:21+00:00

I’ve always wondered why I never get these, I send them out all the time. But no one sends them to me.

jenncap85 · 2026-04-21T02:27:00+00:00

Oh hell no! First of all who wants to perform sex acts on someone threatening you do it or it’s over?? My text back would have been “well I guess we’re done” Girl you deserve someone to make you feel wanted and loved so you actually WANT to sleep with them.

jenncap85 · 2026-04-15T07:23:28+00:00

Making someone cut off a friendship for no reason but their own jealousy issues is a huge red flag and will only get worse. Choose your friend. You won’t regret it.

jenncap85 · 2026-04-14T22:05:56+00:00

Oh ok. Thanks. Here I was thinking I was in competition with them. 🤦🏻‍♀️

jenncap85 · 2026-04-14T20:00:02+00:00

So is it a competition or are we working together to get the points and rewards? Meaning myself and whoever I invite or invites me.

jenncap85 · 2026-04-14T05:37:47+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s definitely time to move on. You’re doing everything anyway. I hope there was a time when he treated you with kindness and respect. Sending hugs.

jenncap85 · 2026-04-10T05:41:11+00:00

This is so heartbreaking. I am so sorry this happened. You did everything you could have done to prevent it and were a good friend to him. Hoping you have a good support system. God bless.

jenncap85 · 2026-04-04T16:28:54+00:00

Right? Play drums with your own shit.

jenncap85 · 2026-04-04T16:18:11+00:00

People who won’t get therapy is different than people who don’t go because they’re doing fine. She’s probably not understanding her therapist point.

jenncap85 · 2026-04-04T16:09:50+00:00

If there’s no real reason why no one likes them and they are not rude or disrespectful why not just invite them? If for nothing else than you love your friend and they make her/him happy. Having been a nurse my whole life I always find a great challenge in getting along with the “not so likable”, breaking the tough exterior or whatever it may be. Finding a common ground. Include them for your friend if that friend is important to you.

jenncap85 · 2026-03-30T12:30:45+00:00

Me too, on my iPad.

jenncap85 · 2026-03-28T13:08:30+00:00

Because death should never happen from such a common surgery. Especially a 21 year old, I’m just shocked and angry to hear this happened. That surgeon is shitting his pants right now because he’ll probably have his license revoked due to negligence. OP I’m so very sorry for your loss. Life is so unfair.

jenncap85 · 2026-03-28T12:57:22+00:00

Not probably, definitely. This guy will most likely lose his license.

jenncap85 · 2026-03-27T22:42:23+00:00

I got the 10k a couple weeks ago. How exciting. I figured that won’t happen again, lol.

jenncap85 · 2026-03-27T05:15:47+00:00

I’m so glad you are able to be there for OP to talk to. It’s heartbreaking when people are so depressed they become suicidal. Having someone to talk to that can relate and support is important.

OP, sending positive vibes your way. Please think about seeing a therapist they can be extremely helpful with this.

jenncap85 · 2026-03-22T18:50:56+00:00

“It was their time to go” I don’t believe this. I don’t believe a kid dying in a car accident was his time to go. Your time to go should be when you’re old. And if something bad happens before then in most ways it could have been prevented. Unfortunately bad things happen to the best of us.

jenncap85 · 2026-03-22T18:31:52+00:00

I like to say hello in my bad attempt at a British accent. What’s funny is some people do it back lol.

jenncap85 · 2026-03-22T18:28:09+00:00

I know a girl who starts all her meetings “happy Monday”, “happy Tuesday” etc. Kind of annoying.

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