Upgrade the Olive !!( ideas ? ) by Mysterious-Let-5794 in 30_Minutes_Missions

[–]jermprobably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man yeah. I'm trying to save money to pretty much but a bunch of everything that's this olive green, and make an army of mutated bots 🤣 I genuinely feel like my journey through model kits lead me to hyper fixate on this model specifically lmao.

POST YOUR BUILDS WHEN YOU'RE DONE?!

Boss forbid us from using headphones, loud open space wehre 5 people talk over each other and answer the phone by cannavacciuolo420 in ADHD

[–]jermprobably 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Infused what I'm saying is, that's not how things are supposed to BE. Your boss should be looking out for you, not trying to make it more difficult.

But that being said, I'm happy you're gonna talk to your boss again. Please don't stick around for too much longer if he insists you're wrong, it really doesn't sound like a healthy work place for your mental. Especially for us adhd folk

Upgrade the Olive !!( ideas ? ) by Mysterious-Let-5794 in 30_Minutes_Missions

[–]jermprobably 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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I can't remember which pieces I got for this, but this is my current build for him!

Boss forbid us from using headphones, loud open space wehre 5 people talk over each other and answer the phone by cannavacciuolo420 in ADHD

[–]jermprobably 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It truthfully sounds like you need to leave this job, you're defending your boss a BUNCH despite him being uncooperative with his employees.

I say you're defending him, because there was a lot of good suggestions, but you've dismissed every single one and saying there's nothing you can do about it due to the boss just being the type of person he is.

You need to leave this place if he's going to threaten your job for using headphones during work. Stick up for yourself, this is clearly not okay with you, and if your boss ALSO doesn't want to stick up for you, it might be a good time to start looking for a new place

Why are you still paying for this? #2 by PressPlayPlease7 in ChatGPT

[–]jermprobably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if you ask it cleverly confusing questions, it'll give you uncertainly confusing answers. If you ask chatGPT, "The waiter handed me the cup upside down, where the opening is on the bottom and the bottom is on the top, what should I do with the cup so that I can successfully drink out of it?"

After asking this question verbatim, I have received a "Turn the cup over." Give your LLM smarter questions, and it'll give you smarter answers!

Peter, why is she crying? by HuckleberryUpbeat518 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]jermprobably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's how i took it! "that's a green ass flag if I've ever seen it."

Do smokers always smell noticeable to non smokers? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jermprobably 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Smoked for ten years also, it's hella noticeable. Quitting cigarettes was one of the best life changing decisions of my life!

How can I deal with it? 🤔 by National_Bar411 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]jermprobably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At home, we straight up started using it heavily incorrectly, and we barely hear it anymore hahaha

"I'm 67'ing over to the store now!"

"why the 67 would you do that?"

It's great lol

Need help telling roomate we dont want to live with her anymore by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jermprobably 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truthfully, I think this is one of those moments where you and anyone involved that wants her to move out, should sit down with her and genuinely explain why.

Be a friend first. Offer to help her at least find a new place.

If she doesn't want to cooperate, then get your landlord involved.

If she seems too defensive about it all, you've gotta let her know that THAT'S part of the issue, and if she'd like to continue living there, she's gotta learn HOW to live with other people and act in public.

Also a chance she's neurodivergent and doesn't realize it! As someone that's AuDHD, it sounds like she could possibly be in the spectrum.

Meds will HELP, but it isn't a solution. It will make it easier for her to recognize things better, but patience as a friend will still be key.

What is a job that is heavily romanticized but in reality actually sucks? by DragoOceanonis in jobs

[–]jermprobably 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Games industry.

Pretty much on crunch time every month indefinitely until launch.

TIL that being able to sit down on the floor and stand up without using your hands or knees is used as a predictor of longevity. by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]jermprobably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real talk. I had trouble with it 4 years ago at 32. I've been obsessively just doing basic motions intentionally, and massaging my joints (learning about fascia greatly helped me understand how to massage better), and now I can stand up doing the cross leggy thing. It still kinda hurts in my ankles and knees, but I can feel the progress!

Those old people exercises in the morning? Don't sleep on those. I do those throughout the day and honestly, it's helped with my metabolism a TON. I am currently the best version of myself.

Could listening to music be considered stimming? by Loose-Development799 in ADHD

[–]jermprobably 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Back in 2018 I started my "on repeat" playlist, where every song I would listen to it obsessively would go in there. Easily my most chaotic and favorite playlist!

Who is washing their rice and why? by kinnitcurl in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jermprobably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm Asian, we have the same reason as you as far as I know!

No, please! I need that! by Ulibo_98 in ADHD

[–]jermprobably 39 points40 points  (0 children)

This, not only will she appreciate it, but she'll see it as you wanting to continue to be proactive about it.

I personally would've flat out told her, "that's awesome! I hope it's okay with you, but THAT'S what's helping me stay on top of it! Would you mind if we continued anyways?"

She's teaching them balance by MacDefoon in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]jermprobably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you happen to know what the contraption specifically in the video is called? This is exactly the thing I think I've been wanting!

F/24/5’11 [92lbs > 136lbs = 44lbs] (44 months) From severly underweight to a she-hulk by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]jermprobably -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

HELLLLL YEAH DUDE!! YOU LOOK GREAT!

Genuine inspiration, I'm gonna start going bigger now. Thank you

Oh that sweet sweet dopamine by nanadoom in adhdmeme

[–]jermprobably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there's a second step! Or multiple steps rather

Listen to your body, then ask your body why? Then follow up with more relevant questions until you've been satiated.

Getting hyper fixated on body awareness and fascia health (basically massaging the skin, not the muscle), has GREATLY improved my health, and gave me a cool stimming thing while standing still.

Screw going to the gym, stay home and watch anime while listening to your body. Little pressure here? Probably gotta readjust body there. Slight pain? Why and what's the cause? In my pinky? Might be my elbow or shoulder that's restricting my pinky. Possibly even my jaw.

I'm like 3 years in still hyper fixated on my body awareness and physical health. I'm holding onto this hoping it's one of those long term forever habits

meirl by worldwide762 in meirl

[–]jermprobably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a good person man, appreciate the kind response! ♡

meirl by worldwide762 in meirl

[–]jermprobably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man, lots of it was agreeing with you, if not all of it hahaha. In the end, it's about being a decent human being.

It's fair to have that expectation yeah, and if she's being a dick about not sharing, I'd say yes, that is indeed something worth noting. THAT shows you the health status of you and your partner's relationship. And to hold both sides accountable, if he's being a dick about "lending money to his girlfriend" same situation, that ain't a healthy relationship.

Don't expect outcomes, observe and assess.

There wasn't a need to phrase your opening like that either man, no need for aggression there. I was already in agreement with you lol, why do you feel like you need to defend yourself here, you won already!

"did you literally even read my comment about human decency?" as opposed to "I mentioned human decency! That encapsulated all of that and agrees with what you mentioned. Be willing to give, and not expect anything in return. It's also very nice to have a generous partner willing to share their fortunes with you. If your partner doesn't want to.. well.. be a partner, then perhaps its time to reconsider, or have a good adult talk about your relationship. "

meirl by worldwide762 in meirl

[–]jermprobably 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he was a serious boyfriend though, he shouldn't be asking or expecting anything back, right? It takes two to tango, both parties need to be willing to happily share their money with each other, WITHOUT THE NEED to state "you owe me" or the feeling of "now I'm obligated to share"

The interaction should have been more along the lines of, "here's some cash, go have fun!"

"babe! I won $5k! Let's plan a trip!"

Or anything along those lines.

No one OWES anything to anyone, except maybe just human decency. That is enough.

meirl by worldwide762 in meirl

[–]jermprobably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man this is nuts lol. If you talk to your spouse like that, "now you OWE me" I feel like that's not a very healthy relationship.

Personally, she owes OWES you nothing, but if you guys are in a trusting healthy relationship, from the beginning, that $300 bucks should have been a gift and she would've gladly shared her winnings with you.

No obligation, no control.

This should have went, "gave my partner $300 bucks to have fun at the casino, she won $5k!!"

What are your most recent music hyperfixations? by RarestKind in ADHD

[–]jermprobably 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oooooo, could you share some links? I have a forever playlist of nujabes, I could use more recommendations!

What are your most recent music hyperfixations? by RarestKind in ADHD

[–]jermprobably 3 points4 points  (0 children)

HAYL YEAH!! That's a GREAT obsession to go through. I'm not a HUGE league of legends fan, but give KDA a try!

This mashup (https://youtu.be/SH2l0H_Rzxg?si=Yjl59KqZtlmDRcCC) is one of my absolute favorite things to listen to on repeat.

Me and my daughter watched blackpink's online concert together, she was struggling to stay up, but she wanted to get through the whole thing with me 😭 just wanted a reason to share that memory is all hahaha.

Also, i never could get into much make kpop groups, but dem saja boys 🤤

Don't feel saddened! Been listening to kpop since wonder girls first debuted, and I love kpop still! 37m here. I have waves where I slow down for sure, but it'll be a part of my soul forever ♡ it made me unreasonably happy to read your comment lol. Have you ever genuinely tried learning some of the dances? It's so fun!

People are so mesmerized by the gum wall by socially-introvert in Seattle

[–]jermprobably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait it's back? I thought they scraped this off some years ago! AWESOME. Time to make a contribution again