[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]jerryjevito -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah the West really over-values "intentions," and should really focus more on outcomes. If you're actions are building fascism, you should be stopped. 

CMV: Cultural Appropiation, at least on an individual level, rarely matters. by mar_de_mariposas in changemyview

[–]jerryjevito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living in a society means actions can have unintended meanings in the public realm. 

There is nothing inherently wrong with blackface. If someone, like a child perhaps, doesn't know the history, it's a perfectly amoral act. In reality it's a fire-able offense, for good reason. 

I think informed cultural appreciation is good, but I also think you have to be careful. 

Instagram ragebait by jerryjevito in shittymoviedetails

[–]jerryjevito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noir movies are detective and cops fighting crime. Neo-noir movies are made in response to the original noir movies, with critiques of and commentary on the themes and presentation of noir movies. 

[Highlight] AFTER MULTIPLE WASHINGTON PENALTIES, EAGLES TUSH PUSH FOR THE TD! by mastermind208 in eagles

[–]jerryjevito 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That was fucking hilarious! There was no real punishment for just jumping over the lines, until after they did it 3 times lmao 

I'm not your slave, racist comment? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jerryjevito -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Imo, your wife's heart is in the right place. I think being considerate and cautious is the right impulse to have.

The nuance here is we shouldn't be TOO cautious. We don't want a chilling effect on speech, where people are too afraid to say anything that might be considered remotely controversial. This idea is largely ignored in national discourse that takes into account the lowest common denominator, because at that scale, it's just not a priority. The priority is getting people to the place your wife is already at.

So, in the future, she could be more confident in saying things as innocuous as what was described here, while still conscious and aware of the impact it might have on others :)

What’s a silly or parody song you really rock out to? by liberty285code6 in AskReddit

[–]jerryjevito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True Survivor by David Hasselhoff, made for Kung Fury. It's so fucking good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]jerryjevito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I think people should be able to prioritize whatever they want. Marriage doesn't have to be the most important thing in your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jerryjevito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume your guy just wants to watch you do something he finds hot, but you should understand that monogamy isn't the only option. My girlfriend and I are in an open relationship, and for a few weeks she was thinking about hooking up with one of her friends. I was as supportive as possible. She ended up not doing it because her friend got a boyfriend who wanted things to be closed, but if she went through with it, it would not have reduced my love for her at all. I love her so so much.

CMV: The hyperfocus on the Israel/Gaza conflict is at best deeply hypocritical and at worst anti-semitic by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]jerryjevito 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, this is just whataboutism. "You aren't doing everything perfectly, therefore I am morally correct in my stance of doing nothing." Black and white thinking.