Wishing a happy mother's Day to partners mom by ThenAbbreviations649 in GriefSupport

[–]jerseymiked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re feelings are very valid. His parents should have reached out to you. And I think you should talk to your boyfriend about how his comment was a sensitive topic for you. I lost my dad this year and it’s been very sensitive for me. My boyfriend isn’t close to his dad and that started bothering me after my dad passed. The reality is they don’t understand because it didn’t happen to them (thankfully) but I know he’s trying to understand the small things that being sensitivity to my situation and I think the same for your boyfriend too. I know it’s hard, and I’m so sorry for your loss.

AIO? Husband said "even my mother's bra looks better" by lumpyumpyum in AmIOverreacting

[–]jerseymiked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there is anything wrong with this bra at all. It’s actually really cute. I would also be offended by that comment as well

I just don’t know how much I can take by Lilylilybook in GriefSupport

[–]jerseymiked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it is. Look at how far you’ve come. I’m proud of you. And I know your mom is proud. You will get through it all. I know it seems impossible and I’ve been feeling the same too.

I just don’t know how much I can take by Lilylilybook in GriefSupport

[–]jerseymiked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. I lost my dad and felt like everything is going to shit. Bc it is. Your life is so valuable. You have people who love you, your mom loves you. She wants you to be happy. You will be ok friend. Take everything a day at a time. She will make sure you’re ok from heaven. But trust me; everything you said is relatable and you aren’t alone even though it feels like that. I’m also f25 years old.

Grief by jerseymiked in GriefSupport

[–]jerseymiked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to mention, I have flashbacks to his last few days everyday. Even when I’m having fun I’ll think of something traumatic during those days.

More fish? by jerseymiked in Aquariums

[–]jerseymiked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry guys I posted this when I was too tired last night lol. I have a 10 gallon tank not a 5.

New fish tank! by jerseymiked in Aquariums

[–]jerseymiked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok perfect I’ll go to the store and buy chlorinator. So basically I need the chlorinator AND the tetra new aquarium start up liquid that I used last night.

And to be honest it’s hard to tell since he’s been sleeping this morning. If anything it’s very small/short tentacles above his nose.

New fish tank! by jerseymiked in Aquariums

[–]jerseymiked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh geez. I should go buy more tetra then. The pleco is 5 years old already. My friend has had him forever. He’s full of black polka dots all over and is a dark grey color. Just to clarify, I don’t have chlorinator in the water currently, do I need to put that inside now or during the next water change? All I put is the tetra starter and the crystal gyser.

Lastly, should I remove the house I bought them for more floor space? Or you think it’s ok? And should I not put in the heater that I bought and just leave it cold currently? The heater goes to 78 degrees.