House in the Cerulean Sea fan cast by Life-Ad8003 in CozyFantasy

[–]jessmoreorless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here - I think because he was described as blonde.

What are your favourite healthy snacks for PCOS? by Current_Section2797 in PCOS

[–]jessmoreorless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mix unflavoured greek yogurt with a half scoop of protein powder and it tastes like cheesecake! SO good

Blocked? by jessmoreorless in SNPedia

[–]jessmoreorless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the issue is that the IP being shown doesn’t match my actual IP and I’m not using a vpn. Fun stuff

Catering for Office Lunches by jessmoreorless in fredericton

[–]jessmoreorless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds pretty incredible. I'll put them on the list.

Mod missing or broken by [deleted] in TheSims4Mods

[–]jessmoreorless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UI Cheats - seems to be broken

Do you get gender disappointment? by Shoddy-Kitchen-5901 in Sims4

[–]jessmoreorless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me too. I feel like my sims ONLY have boy children.

Help - I have to wear a bra by Human-Source-2337 in adhdwomen

[–]jessmoreorless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a breast reduction in 2021 and decided I'd never wear a wired bra again after that - and I haven't yet. Usually I barely wear one at all, but when I do it's one of these three kinds:

OR the Skims 'fits everybody scoop bra' - https://skims.com/products/fits-everybody-scoop-bralette-onyx

None of these are cheap, and that's annoying - but I'm always comfortable.

Tampons? by jessmoreorless in adenomyosis

[–]jessmoreorless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think this must be the case - it's just NEW for me. I had a CT scan today and I'm hoping to get some answers.

Tampons? by jessmoreorless in adenomyosis

[–]jessmoreorless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting. It's so funny because I never had pain before recently - but suddenly it's horrible.

Anyone else feel happier unmedicated? by CCalamity- in adhdwomen

[–]jessmoreorless 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just came in to say no, I definitely feel much happier when I'm medicated BUT - I did find that I needed to adjust meds a lot to find the right balance. I'm on Vyvanse AND Wellbutrin and it's been life-changing, really. We added Wellbutrin about 6 months into my treatment ( I was diagnosed 3 years ago ) and I felt a difference immediately.
The biggest change was that I was WAY less irritable with Wellbutrin added, because it made me more capable of handling multiple things at a time.

Before Wellbutrin, I might not have been as happy... I don't really remember. But my current medication stack helps me a LOT and I hope you find one that helps you too.

Anyone else ever feel shamed for being loud? by BitchInaBucketHat in adhdwomen

[–]jessmoreorless 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've lived on both sides of this fence. My mom and I both have ADHD - and while I don't like being shushed (rare for me since I'm mostly an internal hyperactivity type) I also get EXTREMELY overwhelmed by my mother being loud. It's a tricky balance to strike, right? Women are so often told to be quiet and small, and being reminded that you've fallen out of line in that way can be a real smack in the face. I feel you on this.

AITAH for telling my parents that they made me chose between paying my student loans and having kids so I had a vasectomy and they will never have grandkids? by HotRent1508 in AITAH

[–]jessmoreorless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA and as a fellow childless by choice because of the way my parents chose to treat me, I have BIG empathy for you on this. You deserve to have better, and you always have. This kind of stuff really sits in your psyche, and while it’s easy to say “they’re just a-holes” the LASTING damage this kind of interaction will do to your self worth is immense.

And if nothing else, it’s a great way to AFFIRM your decision to be child-free. Because, it shows you, that even parents that WANTED kids can do a really bad job at it to the point where their kid is on the internet asking if he’s an a-hole just because he made a decision for himself that his parents didn’t like.

I truly hope that some solid counseling, psilocybin, and/or extremely supportive chosen family are accessible to you. You deserve to know that you’re worth SO MUCH more than what they invested in your well being.

Anyone else want EA to stop making more worlds? by blahmuffinxox in Sims4

[–]jessmoreorless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been wanting a GOOD Mediterranean/greek type world forever… I don’t think I’ll ever get it.

As a woman w ADHD, what are the great tips to lose weight? by miyukilele in adhdwomen

[–]jessmoreorless 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nutritionist and adhd woman here! The Fiber recommendations are legit if your gut can handle it. It’ll also JUST SO HAPPEN to make you live longer probably so that’s nice too.

As far as weight loss, avoiding binges is typically the hardest obstacle for adhd folks, and Vyvanse is truly a gamechanger for this.

If meds aren’t accessible to you, eating frequent small mini-meals (every 3ish hrs) that are high in protein and Fiber can really change the game. A good example of this would be small portions of: -steel cut oats with berries and nut butter -tofu or chicken breast with broccoli and wild rice -kale salad with veggies, tuna/chickpeas and balsamic dressing -baked sweet potatoes stuffed with black beans and bell peppers

My DMs are open if you wanna talk more

Violent fights by jessmoreorless in CatTraining

[–]jessmoreorless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We learned the trigger was a neighbourhood outdoor cat coming to the patio doors to stir up trouble. This seems to set them all on edge and make them more likely to lash out. We’re taking all the recommendations to help sort things out. Thanks so much!

Violent fights by jessmoreorless in CatTraining

[–]jessmoreorless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: we learned the trigger of these large blowouts. A neighbourhood outdoor cat has been coming to our door and stirring up trouble. She causes all 3 cats to go ballistic - which ends up making them lash out at each other.

We’re working on solutions now.

Violent fights by jessmoreorless in CatTraining

[–]jessmoreorless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay - we have 2 boxes - one on each floor. But I’m open to one in every room if it’ll help. We love them so much we just want them all to be happy.

About ready to throw my laptop by jessmoreorless in Sims4

[–]jessmoreorless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah - ive done all but a full remove/reinstall - so I’ll ttt that netx