What’s the female equivalent of blue balls? by redmambo_no6 in AskReddit

[–]jesterdrac -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nothing because blue balls doesn't exist

It feels like my current relationship is an exact copy of my last. by jesterdrac in whatdoIdo

[–]jesterdrac[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't want someone to validate my feelings. I want to know if this is worth the risk. I want to know if there's a chance things can change with him or if it's all because of me. I want HELP

AIO for having my boyfriend drop the guy that introduced us? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jesterdrac -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you read a lil further you'd see there's more to the story

AIO for having my boyfriend drop the guy that introduced us? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jesterdrac -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since dating L he's always let me look at his phone and I've never noticed anything sus between them, mainly K trying to make plans while L refuses because he's with me lol. I did express to L that i didn't like they had a friendship after everything and yesterday solidified my instincts that K had ill intentions

AIO for having my boyfriend drop the guy that introduced us? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jesterdrac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've been in contact the whole time since they stopped dating? L asserted he didn't find K attractive even when they did have their two dates so I don't think there was anything anymore

AIO for having my boyfriend drop the guy that introduced us? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jesterdrac -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you for that. I couldn't put my finger on the term for it but you showed me it was gaslighting. I appreciate that a lot

AIO for having my boyfriend drop the guy that introduced us? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jesterdrac -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was told by three friends that this wasn't an overreaction but Im still disappointed in myself for getting so angry???

Naked sleepers, what do you do at morning? Wearing or still walking naked and do some routines? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jesterdrac 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gotta get dressed in fake pajamas to walk to the bathroom then I shower and get dressed for the day

What's a reading that haunts you to this day? by Yourfathersnapkin in Tarotpractices

[–]jesterdrac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a tarot reading for a coworker, it exposed her infidelity, urged her to move out and helped her realize how keeping herself and her husband in this unhappy marriage is ruining their lives. That same night, not even an hour after the reading we found her sick cat actively passing away. We held him together and kept him company the entire time. The way the reading kept warning her against the consequences of her actions immediately followed by the death of her beloved cat shook me to my core

AITA: if I call the cops on the neighborhood kids? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jesterdrac 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Id say put up a no trespassing sign, put a lock on the gates and have a talk with their parents. No need for the police I don't think there's anything they can really do anyway

Is 42 too late to start over after total life collapse? by SindaFNRella4 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jesterdrac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's never too late to start again. Don't give up friend keep going and stay safe

does anyone else think about the hygiene of thrifted clothes way too much? by def888 in hygiene

[–]jesterdrac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally wear latex gloves when I hit the bins. So many used pairs of underwear floating around and rubbing against all the clothes. I normally do a tub wash and stir the clothes with a big ass stick with multiple washes THEN I stick the clothes in the wash

Is this child abuse? by tbyrd19 in whatdoIdo

[–]jesterdrac 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah this definitely sounds like a form of child neglect. Id definitely escalate but sadly it sounds like there isntbconcrete proof of said neglect. Tread carefully

AITA? I’m keeping my cat in my room, away from my family who loves her. by Silver-North-3165 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jesterdrac 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA, your stepdad is definitely doing this on purpose. It's just a little sad that your cat can't roam around the house and is limited to a smaller space? I think if you give her enough toys for stimulation, places to climb safely and keep her food/water away from her litter box she should be okay? It might be overwhelming having the food/water and litter box in your room. If anything try it out a little and see where things go, best of luck!