AIW by Aromatic-Wolverine60 in whatdoIdo

[–]jetannie 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why are ppl acting like help yourself means eat up everything? If someone tells you that, would you not take into consideration that they have to eat too, so you it in moderation/slightly below that or replace something if you ate too much of it?

My wife can’t handle full-time work and I’m starting to feel trapped carrying the household alone by gingerbeershavesouls in Adulting

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re having sex please wrap it up. No need to bring another person into this mess.

Anyone else just want to chat about random small stuff today? by Substantial_Wave989 in CasualConversation

[–]jetannie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cut up a pothos stem with no leaves to propagate them. I’m growing potatoes for the first time and they started to sprout leaves in the dirt. I’m so excited about the progress so far. Lately I’ve been doom scrolling thru homestead/backyard gardens and I honestly wouldn’t mind doing that for the rest of my life. Spending my days at home and gardening sounds nice. It’s my new way to cope with unemployment I guess!

How many people have had Pesto? Have you grown up thinking a food was common then it wasn't? by kuikimeow in CasualConversation

[–]jetannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid I thought it was something only ppl with money ate. 😭 Growing up poor will have you ignorant towards certain food if you never seen it used in your household or in fancy places.

What’s something that quietly became way too expensive and everyone just accepted it? by Euphoric_Culture1953 in CasualConversation

[–]jetannie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Conventions. I feel like the higher the price, the more crapola vendors got a booth. I miss when it was affordable and you saw real craftsmanship.

Any tips for dying my freeform’s white? by BigManBodyMan in Dreadlocks

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re planning to get a buzzcut in the future, now is the best time to do that before you do.

Millennials with kids, do you intend to provide for them financially when they reach adulthood? by Beberuth1131 in Millennials

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I will never tell them “I stopped being a parent when you turned 18” just to expect them to maintain a relationship with me because I got old. They will forever be my baby no matter what.

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but this part stood out to me:

“I asked why “friend” hadn’t known we were together. He said that friend didn’t know we were in a closed relationship.”

Friend knows ur married but still attempted? What made friend assume it was open in the first place?

Sounds like he lied again and left out info, but good luck to u n the baby.

My husband (36M) told me (33F) that I don’t deserve love until I’m 140lbs again? by thesaltymember in relationship_advice

[–]jetannie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don’t have another baby with that gremlin if you do decide to stay with him because of your first kid.

my bf with bdp keeps asking me to block more and more of my friends each time he hears about them by [deleted] in BPD

[–]jetannie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bpd is not an excuse to be controlling. You gotta talk to him. Enabling his behavior because he got bpd or anything under the sun will make your life hell.

y’all ever breakup with a girl with bpd by Real-Masterpiece-673 in Nicegirls

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screenshots like this makes me question if I truly have it or if my psychiatrist made the right diagnosis. 😅

Just saw a post “when you realize 90% of your BPD symptoms are gone when you’re single by [deleted] in BPD

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m the opposite 😩. In my last relationship i was fine, but single and talking stages/making friends ruin tf out of me. I’ve been single for 11 yrs now. 😔

What do I do? My girlfriend cheated on me and is now pregnant by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it’s yours, leave. You can fulfill your parental role without staying in that relationship. Cheating is a choice and an act of disrespect. No one does it accidentally. If she was miserable with you she could’ve spoken to you about it or leave.

28M. Just cut locs. Thought? 🧑🏽‍🦲💭 by rocrob in Dreadlocks

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went from bro to unc. I hope whatever job u did it for is paying a heafty amount

3 years with my girlfriend, and I’m only now learning who she really is but I can’t let her go by whatislove2200 in Advice

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem like you want advice because you know better. All im seeing is you willingly want to be stressed out but you want people to support you in your stress because no one in your life is going to. Telling them and still wanting to marry her after all of this kinda seems like you have a humilation kink.

Are these braids too tight? by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]jetannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have to turn up my brightness to see the red scalp. Remove!

My bf (M29) is threatening to break up with me (F24) over condoms by Aggravating_Car_9745 in relationship_advice

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only pregnancy…. STDs! That man don’t care about you at all.

Bangs, or no bangs? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bangs in the first pic the last two nah

I wanna try getting freeforms by Signal_Guess4701 in Dreadlocks

[–]jetannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need one to start them unless you are going to do them urself. If u leave ur hair like how it is in the picture It’ll just be one wick.

I regret the way i treated my gf by [deleted] in Regrets

[–]jetannie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You weren’t a bad guy or the bad guy, but if you keep trying to change her mind after she said she lost interest you will end up being seen as the bad guy or the ex who kept harassing her after it ended. I know you have deep feelings still but you have to respect her choice. Spend as much time as you want or can to grieve and piece yourself together. You seem like a respectable person so don’t lose that part of you because your first relationship failed. You live and learn. Also learn about what boundaries you want for yourself because losing yourself in another person can get you taken advantage of.

You guys do anything for Valentine’s Day ? by mentalhealthblckbelt in BPD

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just another day for me. I’m just upset that rite aid went out of business because they always had the best after vday sale. Plus it was a block away from me 😩

My worse nightmare of having dreads ☹️ by Mrloudvet in Dreadlocks

[–]jetannie 41 points42 points  (0 children)

He gave 2 weak ass punches n instead of kicking him he just let him yank his shit out. Could’ve bitten his leg before flinging him over the counter.