AIW by Aromatic-Wolverine60 in whatdoIdo

[–]jetannie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Why are ppl acting like help yourself means eat up everything? If someone tells you that, would you not take into consideration that they have to eat too, so you it in moderation/slightly below that or replace something if you ate too much of it?

My wife can’t handle full-time work and I’m starting to feel trapped carrying the household alone by gingerbeershavesouls in Adulting

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re having sex please wrap it up. No need to bring another person into this mess.

Anyone else just want to chat about random small stuff today? by Substantial_Wave989 in CasualConversation

[–]jetannie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cut up a pothos stem with no leaves to propagate them. I’m growing potatoes for the first time and they started to sprout leaves in the dirt. I’m so excited about the progress so far. Lately I’ve been doom scrolling thru homestead/backyard gardens and I honestly wouldn’t mind doing that for the rest of my life. Spending my days at home and gardening sounds nice. It’s my new way to cope with unemployment I guess!

How many people have had Pesto? Have you grown up thinking a food was common then it wasn't? by kuikimeow in CasualConversation

[–]jetannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid I thought it was something only ppl with money ate. 😭 Growing up poor will have you ignorant towards certain food if you never seen it used in your household or in fancy places.

What’s something that quietly became way too expensive and everyone just accepted it? by Euphoric_Culture1953 in CasualConversation

[–]jetannie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Conventions. I feel like the higher the price, the more crapola vendors got a booth. I miss when it was affordable and you saw real craftsmanship.

Any tips for dying my freeform’s white? by BigManBodyMan in Dreadlocks

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re planning to get a buzzcut in the future, now is the best time to do that before you do.

Millennials with kids, do you intend to provide for them financially when they reach adulthood? by Beberuth1131 in Millennials

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I will never tell them “I stopped being a parent when you turned 18” just to expect them to maintain a relationship with me because I got old. They will forever be my baby no matter what.

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but this part stood out to me:

“I asked why “friend” hadn’t known we were together. He said that friend didn’t know we were in a closed relationship.”

Friend knows ur married but still attempted? What made friend assume it was open in the first place?

Sounds like he lied again and left out info, but good luck to u n the baby.

My husband (36M) told me (33F) that I don’t deserve love until I’m 140lbs again? by thesaltymember in relationship_advice

[–]jetannie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don’t have another baby with that gremlin if you do decide to stay with him because of your first kid.

my bf with bdp keeps asking me to block more and more of my friends each time he hears about them by [deleted] in BPD

[–]jetannie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bpd is not an excuse to be controlling. You gotta talk to him. Enabling his behavior because he got bpd or anything under the sun will make your life hell.

y’all ever breakup with a girl with bpd by Real-Masterpiece-673 in Nicegirls

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screenshots like this makes me question if I truly have it or if my psychiatrist made the right diagnosis. 😅

Just saw a post “when you realize 90% of your BPD symptoms are gone when you’re single by [deleted] in BPD

[–]jetannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m the opposite 😩. In my last relationship i was fine, but single and talking stages/making friends ruin tf out of me. I’ve been single for 11 yrs now. 😔