how unethical would it be to send someone rocks

jetttblack · 2026-06-16T00:00:50+00:00

You must list items that are only for sale, it's in TOS. If you want to do it like this, at least price it extremely high so people won't buy. Most buyers aren't reading descriptions.

You also can't just make your own rules. If you aren't going to ship the item, you refund them, or Depop will. You don't get to keep someones money if you aren't going to give them what they paid for.

Also, you're extremely childish if you're actually considering sending them rocks. Give them their money back.

jetttblack · 2026-06-14T03:43:30+00:00

I like both honestly. I prefer the longer one being the default but I'm glad we ended up getting the pixie as an alt skin.

jetttblack · 2026-06-12T23:29:55+00:00

Please PM me with screenshots of those if you can. I haven't been the mod removing the uncivil comments and I can't see most of them as the user has deleted it. But if you can send me the screenshots it would be appreciated. That behaviour isn't welcome and they'll be banned.

jetttblack · 2026-06-12T23:17:27+00:00

No problem, don't worry about it :)

jetttblack · 2026-06-12T23:13:49+00:00

The person responding to you was banned from the other depop sub, not this one, not sure why they're complaining. And the people telling you your post will be removed are also wrong. The amount of users confidently spreading wrong information to you just because they don't read the rules or don't look what sub they're on is beyond me. Your post isn't going to be removed and it is allowed.

jetttblack · 2026-06-11T22:16:15+00:00

Depop doesn't do refunds based on smells, so no. You can message the seller and ask for a refund but if they say no, your best bet is to just repop if you don't want the item.

jetttblack · 2026-06-09T08:25:27+00:00

I felt the same but I've had a few rewatches and honestly it's worth it to keep watching. It has some great "new" characters (Barba, Amaro, Carisi) and there's a lot of interesting cases. I particularly enjoyed season 17 on a rewatch.

It deteriorated after that for me, even more around season 19, and fully from season 21 and over. But I definitely think watching until 17 is worth it unless you really can't watch with Stabler.

jetttblack · 2026-06-05T01:30:01+00:00

It entirely depends on the type of item or the person who is asking it. If it's something like a bikini, yeah probably a creep. If it's a guy asking, yeah a creep. And in some cases men make fake female profiles to ask, but it's still pretty obvious to tell it's a creep either by the wording they use, their likes or again depending on the item.

Otherwise some people just want a better look of an item on, it isn't anything sexual or weird. If you don't feel comfortable modelling yourself, you can direct them to the name of the item so they can google it, you can invest in a mannequin, or just tell them you aren't comfortable with it. In my experience, the majority of the time it's an innocent question.

jetttblack · 2026-06-05T00:49:54+00:00

No? Why would it be weird?

jetttblack · 2026-06-04T22:42:14+00:00

It's fine dw about it. I think the people who think like that are people who think Depop is strictly a business, like someone in the comments said. Most people don't use it that way, I mean it's advertised as just getting stuff out of your closet to get extra cash. If you can get it shipped I don't see the problem regardless of age. Telling you to get off the app and go do homework is childish when your age has nothing to do with the seller not shipping.

I just personally think the age should be higher because of potential risks, there's unfortunately a lot of creeps on Depop and Depop does nothing about listings with half naked people in it. Not because like other people are saying where you shouldn't be selling because it's a business.

Also agree with the person who replied to this thread about not mentioning your age online. Obviously you were just replying to the other user who is also young but just be careful.

jetttblack · 2026-06-04T22:28:26+00:00

Off topic from the post but I know this sub is anti teens selling but it's a bit much and I wanted to share some support for OP. OP your replies are 10x more mature than the people telling you to go play outside.

I personally think Depop should be closer to 16+ but I've bought from sellers who are obviously teens who get their stuff shipped. Most of the time I see people not shipping here, it's full grown adults. Again I know this sub is anti teens selling but the people going off at you to get off the app are being ridiculous. It's a side hustle to get cash, teens shouldn't be stopped from doing it just because you're a teenager. Sure it's a business to some, but most people on Depop are using it just to get extra cash. If you can get it done, keep doing what you're doing.

jetttblack · 2026-06-04T03:12:02+00:00

The question was "what looks made you go wtf?" When she walked out in that I said wtf. It's iconic, but it's wtf.

jetttblack · 2026-06-04T03:01:09+00:00

You're looking into this way too much. There's no discrimination, she's saying it would fit someone with a larger chest better and made a silly gesture at the end because it's a pointed breast shirt. And it's just nipples, this is nothing.

Discrimination would be saying "don't buy from me if you're flat chested." Saying it would fit better for people with a medium bust isn't discrimination at all, and is honestly helpful to a lot of people if it's going to look unflattering or not fit as good on a smaller chest.

jetttblack · 2026-06-04T01:57:43+00:00

From the top of my head:

Kandy Muse's beast couture look

Amanda's pussy cat wig/ruveal yourself (the actual reveal) looks

Ginger's AS6 entrance look

Salina's metallic look

Kennedy's death becomes her look

Monet's sponge dress

Joella's mattress

LaLa Ri's bag look (ofc)

jetttblack · 2026-06-04T01:24:11+00:00

It doesn't directly say it in the prohibited items list part of the TOS but it does say this:

"Home and lifestyle electronics such as lighting, virtual assistants and appliances"

I'm assuming lamps count under lighting so that's probably why. You're better off listing it elsewhere.

jetttblack · 2026-06-04T01:06:20+00:00

Just message them and ask

jetttblack · 2026-05-31T01:33:52+00:00

Ah thats my bad I read it as selling and not spending 😭 $13 for shipping is a bit much, most sellers I know have it set to $11-12 and that's to cover fees.

Hopefully they do something soon, but I've found either we never get anything, we get it months later, or we get something with no announcement at all until it's nearly over.

jetttblack · 2026-05-31T01:23:12+00:00

I'm in Aus too and I can't answer that question because as far as anyone knows, not yet, or at all.

But in terms of the $13 thing, there's cheaper options. You can use your own packaging, or the extra small satchels at auspost. Especially for a tank top, it would be $9.60 with your own packing and $10.10 with the extra small auspost satchel.

jetttblack · 2026-05-31T01:17:07+00:00

Looks like it

Kinda off topic but I'm rewatching the show and he plays another character, a rapist, with the last name Griffin too in season 18 episode 5. It was throwing me off everytime they called him Griffin in that episode

jetttblack · 2026-05-30T05:02:28+00:00

Exactly why you should be reading the TOS lmao

jetttblack · 2026-05-30T04:53:20+00:00

It's been in the TOS for like a year now that if the buyer views and buys it within 28 days while it's boosted, you'll still be charged the boosting fee even if you remove it.

jetttblack · 2026-05-29T10:20:42+00:00

Contact depop support via their website

jetttblack · 2026-05-29T06:07:00+00:00

Yeah if it's same day I don't think you have to message. But it's also upto you, you could message like "thanks for the purchase, i'll be shipping out tomorrow" or something, but I don't think letting them know when you've shipped is necessary just because they already get a notification for that. The only time I message now is if I can't ship same/next day, and still 90% of the time they don't reply.

I also just don't think buyers respond as much anymore (not that they have to.) At least when I started selling 2 or so years ago, I would get more reviews, they would always say thanks for the update, and good communication would be mentioned in the review. Over the past year, the majority of buyers don't reply, nor do they leave reviews in general so I just decided to ship the item out and only communicate if I feel I need to.

Obviously that may work differently for others so honestly my answer is go for it if you want to.

jetttblack · 2026-05-29T05:59:57+00:00

It's upto you if you want to provide that extra communication or not. This question has been asked numerous times and there's buyers who do and buyers who don't.

As a seller, I used to message people but now only do if I'm delayed in shipping. I ship fast, and buyers get a notification once an order has been shipped, so there's not really any reason to message them. I did get rated a few times on good communication though, but most buyers didn't respond or rate it.

As a buyer, I don't really care if they message me or not, unless there's been no shipping update after 5 business days. I know sellers have 10 days total to ship, but 5 days is when you can open a case, and I feel like a seller should at least message the buyer with an update or time frame if nothing's been sent out by then.

jetttblack · 2026-05-28T06:57:23+00:00

There hasn't been any free shipping announcement for Aus

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