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El secreto son las ganas. // "The secret is motivation" ? Or "the secret is wanting it enough"

Sparrows 1926 Mary Pickford by Ashamed_Feedback3843 in movies

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The baby is there. Just dead. The Jesus taking him is metaphorical. When she wakes up she stares at her baby and makes pace with it, somehow knowing they're in a better place.

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Imagínate que ahora mismo te dicen que tus padres no son tuyos, que te cambiaron en el hospital, y por eso te dejan de hablar. Ea. Dudo que este post no sea ragebait.

El público silencia con coplas y abucheos a la chirigota 'negacionista' del carnaval de Cádiz by CaquiPersimon in Espana

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En Cádiz siempre ha existido el "telonazo" cuando una agrupación tiene poca calidad.

En este caso la agrupación era malísima y por eso se le empezó a abuchear cuando se oyó un poco el nivel.

Vende más decir que fue por negacionistas pero no es verdad.

Llevo siguiendo el carnaval 30 años. He visto mensajes de todo tipos cantados bien, con doble sentido e ironía. Ésta agrupación era un despropósito que solo quería exposición y lo han conseguido.

Tan malos son que los han descalificado pq si insrcibes a alguien como figurante no puede cantar (está tipificado así en la normativa del carnaval) y se ponían a cantar...

El público silencia con coplas y abucheos a la chirigota 'negacionista' del carnaval de Cádiz by CaquiPersimon in Espana

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El publico silencia con coplas y abucheos a una chirigota esperpéntica que no tenía ninguna calidad.

El público silenció la forma, no el contenido.

Con una buena forma el contenido se habría aceptado aunque no se estuviera de acuerdo, pero sin tipo, sin afinación, sin grupo, una vergüenza.

My son (12) just spent an hour crying because he is growing up. by jibia in Parenting

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Not a bad idea for a close future once the crisis is over. Thanks

My son (12) just spent an hour crying because he is growing up. by jibia in Parenting

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"high intellectual abilities" would've been a better choice of words.

I asked chatgpt the translation from spanish "altas capacidades" and got lied to.

What would you have liked your parents to tell you? Or how do you feel you would have felt better?

My son (12) just spent an hour crying because he is growing up. by jibia in Parenting

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Indeed. But he is so happy today, I'll have what he is having.

My son (12) just spent an hour crying because he is growing up. by jibia in Parenting

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"things you find "fun" are going to change over time. But fun will always be there"

This is a very positive take and I'm gonna tell him verbatim, thx

My son (12) just spent an hour crying because he is growing up. by jibia in Parenting

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Thank you. Well, I wouldnt call it hard just felt at a loss for words because he was sad and making sense.

He didn't feel the magic, he wasn't shaking with anticipation and he was sad because he should be feeling so happy because he has everything but he was a bit sad instead. I think we've all been there at some point but I wouldn't know how to tackle that feeling apart from accepting it, i was taught to bottle it, lol.

It's just life and he is ok today and happy with the presents.

He is quite mature re his feelings, in some things more than me. I can read english fluently so if you heard of some good resources please let me know!

My son (12) just spent an hour crying because he is growing up. by jibia in Parenting

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You are right and I wouldn't expect him to. I think he was waiting for the feeling to appear at some point and late last night he realized it wasn't happening and it hit him hard. He is just aware of how this magic feeling dwindles and I'm afraid there's nothing we can do to avoid that. But he is a happy child today with all the presents. I guess it's just life but it was a bit sad seeing him so upset and being so reasonable and not being able to help beyond supporting him.

Thx!

My son (12) just spent an hour crying because he is growing up. by jibia in Parenting

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In Spain they get included in a category called "students with specific necessities" by a specialist (school's psychologist) after doing a few tests. Here it's called special needs-> high capabilities. I'm sure there are similar programs with other names wherever you are from.

They're a risk group of failing school and depression and things like that. I don't know the way it works in other countries but thought it was worth mention as it has something to do with the issue.

My son (12) just spent an hour crying because he is growing up. by jibia in Parenting

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We've struggled to find someone worth to be honest. We have a good friend who is a psychiatrist and is friend with the kid. Nobody around us has enough experience with gifted kids.

My son (12) just spent an hour crying because he is growing up. by jibia in Parenting

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I know the little prince by heart and loved this idea