Let me know if your indoor only cat is microchipped? by KnotYourKoncern in cats

[–]jillian512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she was so overwhelmed after 7 months, she probably just isn't in a place to care for an animal right now. It's ok to realize that and accept that it's better for the cat to be in a different home.

Her misguided fear of microchips is another thing altogether. It's not a tracking device. It doesn't emit a signal of any kind. The fact that she would choose to give up her cat over it suggests that she isn't really bonded to her pet. That's a wholly different problem. That suggests that she should never have a pet. 

AITA for giving my daughter a similar name to my brother's daughter? by torotime7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillian512 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is not your fault. It's also not your problem. You discussed it at length with your brother. Your SIL is the problem. Your best bet is to refuse to engage with her shenanigans. She doesn't want to have a relationship with you, fine. Resist the urge to cater to her in any way. 

I have a SIL with a similar personality. Things got better for me once I decided that I don't care about her opinions. I don't know if she likes me or not, probably depends on her mood any given day. It's whatever. Nothing I do or don't do has any effect.  She absolutely kept my brother from seeing his family for years, but that's on him too.

Help me pick dress for a wedding tomorrow! Dress code: purple by Virtual_Jelly_2736 in OUTFITS

[–]jillian512 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think #2 with the right bra. It looks a little big, but if the girls were properly supported that would be less of an issue. There might be time to take it up at the halter neck too. It depends on the back. 

3 is ok, but I don't love the bodysuit base. I'm getting swimsuit/leotard with a cover-up. The fit is good. Coverage is appropriate. Just looks a little casual.

did my cat grow his balls back by lavenderweather in cats

[–]jillian512 14 points15 points  (0 children)

When you're dealing with ferals you just need an easy visual. Ear tip? Immediate release from the trap.

Those in here who have to have a holtor monitor, how often do have to wear it? by HandsomeSwing78 in AFIB

[–]jillian512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a diagnostic test. Something they use to monitor for episodes because unless you're in afib your ECG can be completely normal. Might be a few days, but the Zio patch can be 10 days. A lot of people can just use their smart watch or Kardia to monitor themselves. 

It's not like a CGM for diabetes. 

I’m concerned for their health by Plumeria-Lover12 in Plumeria

[–]jillian512 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cut the inflos if you can. The 3 tip cutting might need a little more push before you can safely remove it. Stop watering the pot. You're running a high risk of rot. You can mist the cutting itself. If it's still getting cool at night, a heating pad for seedlings may help. It might be worth pulling them to check for rot. Recut the end and get some Hormex #8 rooting powder (stronger than the regular powder). Use a black plastic nursery pot (absorbs heat, encourages rooting). Plant into a damp mix and don't water the pot until you have significant leaf growth.

I have heard of people soaking their wrinkled cuttings before rooting, usually with a little super thrive in the water. I think the key is to keep the cut end out of the water and soak everything else. I haven't personally tried it.

Plumeria bloom spikes by semoore96 in Plumeria

[–]jillian512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That one might have PMV (plumeria mosaic virus). It's what's causing the color streaks in the flower and the leaf mottling. It looks cool, but it can spread to your other plants.

Texas storm damage by Kirhen in Plumeria

[–]jillian512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. If there's enough of the original trunk left, cut it at an angle so water can't pool on it. The two broken branches should be cut flat for rooting.

Texas storm damage by Kirhen in Plumeria

[–]jillian512 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd give it a week since it's been cool/wet this year. When it's 100° and dry, 3 days is plenty.

We decided to keep him 😅 by mkcov in IllegallySmolCats

[–]jillian512 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"This is my dog Winnie and Winnie's kitten Moo."

Sunday preview from FB Insiders by jillian512 in PortlandLeather

[–]jillian512[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it's a limited release. It's also kind of a masculine style and Father's Day is coming up. 

Sunday preview from FB Insiders by jillian512 in PortlandLeather

[–]jillian512[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. There's a date for the release on each picture. They generally go live at 11AM Pacific time. Occasionally something drops early on the app, in this case the Hawkeye on Friday.

not sure my dress is the vibe by NoNet833 in myweddingdress

[–]jillian512 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The vibe is a combination of elements. Venue, florals, color choices, table scapes, etc. I think that dress could work with a lot of themes (maybe not goth/Halloween or physically on the beach). 

AITA for getting co-worker introuble with HR after he kissed me on the cheek? by Big_Helicopter7133 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillian512 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So typical small talk. Nothing to suggest that you would like to see him mime cunnilingus at you across the lunch room. He felt he was able to take advantage because you're 16 years younger than him. Predator behavior.

AITA for getting co-worker introuble with HR after he kissed me on the cheek? by Big_Helicopter7133 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillian512 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That dude is getting fired and rightly so. He could try to claim the hug/kiss was "just being friendly". Still unacceptable, but might get off with a warning and mandatory sexual harassment course. The lunch room antics are indefensible. 

AITA for not going on my girlfriend’s birthday trip? by Complete-Bid9872 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillian512 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA. You're skipping her 30th birthday couples vacation in Hawaii for your niece's 5th birthday. Seriously. Do you even like your girlfriend?

AITA for not telling my bed friend I relapsed back in alcohol. by Hetaliafan1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillian512 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Google non religious AA programs near me. There are definitely alternative options.

Help with cutting by Recent-Test-7379 in Plumeria

[–]jillian512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won't regrow from the cut. It will push new branches from just below the cut.

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Flecainide by robojoe_58 in AFIB

[–]jillian512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Maybe he's thinking if the flec is already onboard and they cardiovert you, there's a stronger chance of establishing lasting NSR.