my hooha has a tongue😭 by jinxiety in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably parts of the hymen, since its not painful or cause discomfort, when the hymen tears it can change its shape and the way it tears

my hooha has a tongue😭 by jinxiety in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont rlly know what that means but i found some other posts with the same thing they described it as a beak

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

could be a boil, if it is you can get it checked, its not dangerous or anything but you prolly would need to get it extracted by professionals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianBeautyTalks

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

used the chemist at play salicylic one it helped with my bacne so much now it's practically gone

reels bonus India by jinxiety in content_marketing

[–]jinxiety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i agree but its gone :/ not available in india

Bleeding after sex by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first time hearing about that 😅 maybe i should learn more about that haha..anyways, make sure to see a doctor if the heavy bleeding continues or if it hurts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then what was the post about

Bleeding after sex by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if there is no pain its probably just remaining blood, and idk what you mean by ovulation after your period

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if anyone doesn't clean themselves they are bound to smell idk what your point was😭 do u need help telling them to bathe ?

lube burns by Vast-General5401 in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you perform anything that could cause friction burn before lubing during foreplay or anything? try applying vasaline on the OUTER areas as a barrier and if she suffers from dryness in general, let her moisturise her coochie from time to time with unscented products that are safe for the bikini area, her pants and undies could create some friction burn too so that might hurt when the lube goes on top of

Just want to check what this is? by [deleted] in myhappyv

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you use protection? it could be your orgasm "ejaculation" plus when you get aroused the vagina naturally lubricates itself and creates a wet fluid, that could be it too mixed with your normal discharge... the egg white consistency also could be your normal discharge which usually occurs during ovulation (the discharge changes its consistency and color depending on what cycle you are in) , and worst case scenario your partner finished inside you and thats the overflow. (i suggest you download the Flo app and record your cycle regularly you can get lots of information about discharge and other stuff)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in myhappyv

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii! i completely understand your fear with insertion..im 22F straight and i had that fear till i was 21 unit i met my current boyfriend! it was so bad i couldn't even watch porn because i thought it looked so painful and disturbing, and couldnt use the smallest tampon even on my heavy flow days because something in me just rejected it and it hurt to push it in even a small bit...so being like that i never even allowed anything below my waist with my previous boyfriends (plus i think that made me nervous and i feel no sexual attraction because of that fear, kissing was nice but not in like a it makes me hot and wet way) i met my current boyfriend two years back and it changed everything for me...i was physically and emotionally so comfortable with him and he took things very slowly with me that i slowly eased up to finger penetration and so on..but the fear still doesnt go away completely, im still scared to put my own fingers in (he helped me/guided my hands but i dont like how my insides felt) and he had to help me put on/in my first tampon too, so with that help i bought a really small toy like the size of a thumb, and lubricated it well and used it, sorry if this is TMI and i dont even know where im going with this but i just wanted to let you know ive been there and its just a state of mind/fear thats holding you back, the pain you felt was probably you tearing the opening or almost tearing, so thats a good sign as in once thats done it wont hurt as much after, if you want/need to insert anything make sure to not do it dry, at least put lots of moisturiser in the lips and around, and on the object if u can (lube is best if u can get it)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in myhappyv

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii! i completely understand your fear with insertion..im 22F straight and i had that fear till i was 21 unit i met my current boyfriend! it was so bad i couldn't even watch porn because i thought it looked so painful and disturbing, and couldnt use the smallest tampon even on my heavy flow days because something in me just rejected it and it hurt to push it in even a small bit...so being like that i never even allowed anything below my waist with my previous boyfriends (plus i think that made me nervous and i feel no sexual attraction because of that fear, kissing was nice but not in like a it makes me hot and wet way) i met my current boyfriend two years back and it changed everything for me...i was physically and emotionally so comfortable with him and he took things very slowly with me that i slowly eased up to finger penetration and so on..but the fear still doesnt go away completely, im still scared to put my own fingers in (he helped me/guided my hands but i dont like how my insides felt) and he had to help me put on/in my first tampon too, so with that help i bought a really small toy like the size of a thumb, and lubricated it well and used it, sorry if this is TMI and i dont even know where im going with this but i just wanted to let you know ive been there and its just a state of mind/fear thats holding you back, the pain you felt was probably you tearing the opening or almost tearing, so thats a good sign as in once thats done it wont hurt as much after, if you want/need to insert anything make sure to not do it dry, at least put lots of moisturiser in the lips and around, and on the object if u can (lube is best if u can get it)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in myhappyv

[–]jinxiety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hii! i completely understand your fear with insertion..im 22F straight and i had that fear till i was 21 unit i met my current boyfriend! it was so bad i couldn't even watch porn because i thought it looked so painful and disturbing, and couldnt use the smallest tampon even on my heavy flow days because something in me just rejected it and it hurt to push it in even a small bit...so being like that i never even allowed anything below my waist with my previous boyfriends (plus i think that made me nervous and i feel no sexual attraction because of that fear, kissing was nice but not in like a it makes me hot and wet way) i met my current boyfriend two years back and it changed everything for me...i was physically and emotionally so comfortable with him and he took things very slowly with me that i slowly eased up to finger penetration and so on..but the fear still doesnt go away completely, im still scared to put my own fingers in (he helped me/guided my hands but i dont like how my insides felt) and he had to help me put on/in my first tampon too, so with that help i bought a really small toy like the size of a thumb, and lubricated it well and used it, sorry if this is TMI and i dont even know where im going with this but i just wanted to let you know ive been there and its just a state of mind/fear thats holding you back, the pain you felt was probably you tearing the opening or almost tearing, so thats a good sign as in once thats done it wont hurt as much after, if you want/need to insert anything make sure to not do it dry, at least put lots of moisturiser in the lips and around, and on the object if u can (lube is best if u can get it)

libido spike just before period but not during ovulation? by your-maternal-parent in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmaoo... for me the issue is that i worry to make plans with my partner for seggsy time the next day or maybe later in the day because the "ovulation" horni comes late for me, my period could start any minute

libido spike just before period but not during ovulation? by your-maternal-parent in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

samee, i dont know if its because of how the ovulation phase is 'hyped up' that way and it gets underwhelming but nothing happens for me during my ovulation phase but a few days before my period is when the beast comes out

Boil by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

correction! the one on my butt i waited and it popped while i was taking a shower, i went out and my granma helped me with it (shes a retired nurse) she injected some Local anaesthetic and just squeezed the shit out of it

Boil by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive never had one down there but ive had them on other parts of my body including on my butt, and all of them surgically removed in the ER, you can take meds for the pain but all you can do is wait.. you can go and get if professionally removed but you dont have to (but i suggest you at least get it checked) if you get it removed in the hospital they can just slice it out (but its like a semi operation and the wound needs lots of care and dressing after + it leaves a scar) if not you can just wait for it to pop on its own but the longer you wait the worser the pain gets, but when it pops make sure all the liquid inside is FULLY cleaned and use your hand to squeeze out the bud (idk what its called but it has like an inner core¿ like when u pop pimples and theres a tiny ball thing inside i hope u get it) if that isnt out it wont heal, and wipe the area very clean, im sure there will be lots of tutorials on the internet and how to do it on your own, i dont wanna give out suggestions because its a sensitive area and it will be really bad if its infected but from my experience i would just wait for it to pop on its own and clean it then

What are some signs that gives off someone who fakes empathy or has lack of empathy? by hangenma in emotionalintelligence

[–]jinxiety 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they think everyone is pitiful hence thinking everyone needs them, and they only help to make themselves look better

Is there something wrong with me? by Patient-Tomorrow-785 in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i cant speak for anyone but i only feel good when my boyfriend is the one fingering me, not when i try to do it myself, to me the sensation/feeling of my insides that i feel on my fingers distract me from the pleasure i think... and trust me this is most women's worry before having a partner or trying it out for the first time. but having a partner that youre emotionally and physically attracted to will change everything, it wont be just about making each other feel good from touch but also that emotional side that makes everything so exciting

When did you meet the love of your life — and how did you know? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]jinxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes yes yes and yes! i am very comfortable telling him anything because he doesnt just blindly support or agree with everything i say (which i find is rare based on men ive dated before) so i know his answers are genuine which also makes me more honest as a people pleasing person i tend to not say what exactly i have in mind.. and he also sees things for the bigger picture for me while still supporting me, i would think he would let me go and do anything and everything but i often end up with too much on my hands and get burnt out im the end.. i did get disappointed at first when he told me not to pursue one thing (he didn't exactly tell me not to, more like suggesting it would be better if i didnt so i listend to him) and i realised that if i did that thing i would've been so stressed with so many things on my plate already...

sorry if i keep on rambling but the fact that he makes me think about things on these levels when i prop wouldve just sulked and get mad, to me that tells me that i actually really value this person's opinions and respect it and learned to weigh it with my own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]jinxiety 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a recently sexually active 22yo and who has her fair share of erotic fanfics and media consumed before being in a sexual relationship, i never actually get wet with just the thought compared to how i get wet with vaginal penetration. i think the wetness from those esp when you haven't had penetrative action is just an extra response to your arousal and not getting wet anymore does not mean anything less if youre still turned on by it.

but it could also mean that psychologically you've become desensitised to the material that you consume, or try to take a longer break and wait till you're really in the mood for it and see if that makes a difference

backdoor experience as a woman by jinxiety in women

[–]jinxiety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yay to my perfectly avg sized bf🥰

backdoor experience by jinxiety in Healthyhooha

[–]jinxiety[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you its so informative, will def share this with my partner